Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

Why does it seem like ugly girls get nice guys pretty girls get jerks???

2007-08-23 16:08:46 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the short story, me and this girl are friends...kind of. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever met and honestly, I can't imagine life without her. But everything seems to revolve around her.

When I say that, I mean, I can't go out to the store without thinking of something to buy her. I can't pick up the phone without hoping it's her. The thing is, while she's nice to me when we're "alone" if you will, with her friends, it's different. It feels like she's ashamed to know me, be my friend, everything. She just seems uninterested in me when people are around, but...I don't know.

Am I stupid for letting her get to me like this?

2007-08-23 16:07:01 · 8 answers · asked by Marty Kirra 1 in Singles & Dating

While working out of town, my wife and I were both having affairs. We both found out about each others wrong doings about the same time. We fought made up and I quit my job to come home to save our marriage. I moved home to find out she is still talking to the other guy. We are now separated, I tell her that I am willing to do anything to make our relationship work. She says she cant get over what I did to her. What should I do to try to fix this? We were both at fault but she puts all the blame on me.

2007-08-23 16:06:58 · 21 answers · asked by pie-boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the deal. I am a married woman who has a female friend that I know would be willing to have a romantic/serious relationship with both my husband and me. I really want to do this. I am sure that he is generally ok with the idea so long as he is confident that he will still be able to spend ample time with me (not necessarily in a sexual context). He is excited about getting to see me with another woman. I am too. I am also excited about getting to see him with her. For those of you who have experience with this, do you have any advice, suggestions, horror stories, success stories, warnings, etc.?

Thanks, Kat

2007-08-23 16:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by Katrina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend Amber, and her boyfriend Mike is 16 almost 17. They live 2 hours away and Mike has to hitchhike just to see her sometimes, they like eachother a lot. But mike's friend stole a cell phone and gave it to mike, and he spend 700 dollars on it talking to people. his "friend" told the cell phone's owner, and she tracked down mike, and said he doesn't give her 700 dollars by sunday then shes going to call the cops on him. i feel so bad for him, what is the most time he could get? what do you think will happend, if he doesn't get the money? thanks guys and were in canada.

2007-08-23 16:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-23 16:02:35 · 18 answers · asked by Armando A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright be specific. Height, Weight, Hair Color, Eye Color, Personality, Interests etc.

I'm interested!

2007-08-23 16:00:27 · 20 answers · asked by moxie1352 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend "Megan" liked this guy. He was very friendly to her. Every time HER friend "Ashley" would join them, he would move away from Ashley & stand by Megan & talk to her. So Ashley asked him if he "liked" Megan, but he told her he liked HER, (Ashley). Ashley told him she didn't like him. From then on he wouldn't talk to Megan anymore. He kept hinting that he still liked Ashley though, even though she completely ignored him. But every once in a while he would flirt with Megan a little. When he found out later that Megan had a boyfriend now, he said she deserved one & walked away sort of sadly. Who does he like? Is he confused or what?

2007-08-23 16:00:24 · 2 answers · asked by akov 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I get along as long as his wife isn't around and have been divorced for approx. 22 yrs. She's just not a nice person as I met her before we were divorced.
My son & his fiance had a co-ed Bridal Shower and the ex-husbands wife tried to start something with me before it started. I went to say Hi and she did her snitty stuck up look. I let it go.
Later she went up to my mother and offered to help pay for the rehearsal dinner--that ticked me off because she didn't come to me and only my mother and husband know my feelings on that. It's already taken care of.
My worry and grant I may not need to do the worrying but, I'm so afraid that she'll start something at the rehearsal dinner or the day of the wedding. I try to watch everything when around her but are there any other suggestions that might take away some of this anxiety?

2007-08-23 15:59:46 · 22 answers · asked by Mignon F 5 in Weddings

My son for his 14th birthday wants to go up to a random woman and stick his face in her butt, he said he will ask her first but I am afraid he will just get slapped or something, do I let him or what ? will it work for him?

2007-08-23 15:55:46 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Everyone has been making fun of my brother since the 4th grade. Kids have been harrassing him, calling him names, making fun of the way he looks (he is overweight), and blaming him for things he didn't do. One time, when he was in 6th grade, the entire class blamed him for something he absolutely did not do. And it's not just the kids. The teachers have been very unfair to him. It seems as if they purposefully give him bad grades, and they aren't willing to help him. In fact, they sometimes humiliate him in front of the entire class.
my brother is a very quite and sensitive person. Now he is going to 8th grade, and he has become the most QUIET person EVERRR. Like, he won't say a word to anyone, for fear of being made fun of.
What do I do???? Why does this happen? =[

2007-08-23 15:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by pixiestix 1 in Friends

I get addicted to some people that i grow fond of, as i am sure most do.

but what happens, and i dont know if i am just picky or what, maybe, but i get to where i dont really appreciate anyone else except this person that i am obsessed with.

I just think that nobody is as good as this person.

anyone else the same??

why is this, you think?

2007-08-23 15:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few years back whilst walking to my mates flat on the way back from a night out. This "lady of the night" propositioned us anyway we decided it would be funny to try and haggle with her. We eventually after about an hour or so haggled her down to £5 for both of us... Then we said no we are only joking and strolled of laughing.

I was feeling a bit guilty about that just wondered what you people think.

2007-08-23 15:52:28 · 12 answers · asked by Wayne Kerr 3 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my father gets mad he starts screaming at the top of his lungs, i've cried many times to tell him to stop. But he doesn't seem to care. He even screams at my mom and it makes her cry as well. I dont think he seems to care what is happening. My parents have been married for about 19 years, but now it seems my father has lost respect for her. Now my little 6yr brother starts screaming at my mom because my dad. What should i do, tell me if you dad or if you know anyone's father who screams at the top of his lungs when mad. And i need help on what to do about this sitituation

2007-08-23 15:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by akriti c 1 in Family

Ever tried it?

2007-08-23 15:47:13 · 22 answers · asked by ask me a 3 in Singles & Dating

I know there is no perfection, but take this personal and share the qualities a man or a woman would have to own in order to make them perfect for you.

2007-08-23 15:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by SusyQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 15:43:14 · 18 answers · asked by ian r 1 in Family

My husband works second shift from 3pm to 1am (sometimes 3am) Monday through Thursday. I work on Saturday and Sunday from 7a-7p both days. Our only day together is Friday, which is our "gotta get everything done" day. We have 3 small children ages 7, 5, and 11 months. How can we find time to have a love life? I have to sleep so I can take care of the kids, take them to school, etc. He stays up half the night because he says he needs "wind down" time. He doesn't get up until 12:40pm every day. I had a previous question about his porn addiction. One of the answers was maybe I was frigid and controlling. So do tell me where do I get the time to make him perfectly happy in the bedroom?

2007-08-23 15:43:06 · 12 answers · asked by rhainnedroppe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best freind have been double dating these 2 guys who live 40mins from us for the last months and last few dasys weve seen them for hours and yesterday me and my bf got rly close and he was supposed to come down tommorow ive never been so happy but now my best freind boyfreind his dad said he cant date my best freind unless shes skinny like shes average but for 2 months he expects her to get skinny but now since her boyfreind cant come down or talk to her for 2 months or else his parents will beat him my boyfreind matt cant hop on the bus without his best freind someone help me what do i do!!!!!! my parents wont drive me down there i cant hop on a bus yet like WTF DO I DO!?!?!?

2007-08-23 15:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll get straight to the chase, I've forgiven my friend for many things, but now she's done something I don't want to forgive her for, some of my other friends think I should forgive her, but I seriously don't want to. She's not worth it....

The issue is that she's pretty much asking for forgiveness-- which I would give to her if she outright asked. She's been acting like she never did anything wrong... My mom think's she's gone mental, but I know her to well to think that. She remembered our friend from 3 years ago. Basically she's being 'kind' rather than rude and hotheaded and acting like the world revolves around her.

Don't get me wrong, she's not that bad, but sometimes she's just so horrid!

Do I have to forgive her? Should I forgive her?

2007-08-23 15:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 in Friends

How does he act or is he too shy to anything at all

2007-08-23 15:38:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl two weeks ago, i am a freshman in highschool and so is she. I think she likes me but im not sure. She gave me her phone number in a strange way... (spanish class, numbers... gave me her number in spanish) We haven't really talked that much. Advise? if i should text her, what should i say?

2007-08-23 15:35:52 · 10 answers · asked by xxx_help_x_x_x 1 in Singles & Dating

what song gets your heart pumped...what songs makes you think about love?

2007-08-23 15:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by apple 5 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating 2 years. His wife passed away 3 years ago. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, although he says he does not want to marry again. I have never been invited to a family function, or anything to do with his 19 yr. old daughter and 23 year old son, who are both unemployed and live at home. I have met them 2 or 3 times, and they were really snotty. Am i kidding myself to think he is serious about me. There is not one photograph of me in his home, and if I ever call him when he is with the kids, he sounds like he answering a telemarketing call, and leaves the room to talk. He has also said the most important thing to him about our relationship is the sex. He also says he loves me. Is he just stringing me along? I did catch him on several internet dating sites last year after I googled his "handle". He says they were outdated and that he had not been using them...except for match.com which I saw he visited daily. Is he playing me for a fool?

2007-08-23 15:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by partly cloudy 7 in Singles & Dating

We know each other on the web.And before that I had a guy friend who is my junior school classmate.I am torn between them.They are both so kind and considerate to me. They both help me a lot in my daily life and my emotion when I was in trouble.The one I know on the website has asked me whether I can be his girlfriend, and I said yes.After that I am in dilemma again,how to tell my guy friend that he has become my boyfriend,although they don't know each other.Oooops!It is so difficult for me to say these cruel words.What should I do?

2007-08-23 15:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No I am not married. My guy friend is having marital problems, and I can tell he is thinking about that other grass. How normal is this, he has been married for about 9 years.

2007-08-23 15:32:20 · 19 answers · asked by LuvinLos 5 in Marriage & Divorce

or do you suppose my ex wrote this trying to immitate my son

2007-08-23 15:32:07 · 2 answers · asked by jib 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and her have been talkin for about two weeks. We like each other but she wants to wait and see if she can trust me. I mess up on the phone with her and told her how much i cared about her and she has been acting weird eversince. I think she thinks i moved to fast. Help.

2007-08-23 15:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by black_honda_95 1 in Singles & Dating

My good friend/co-worker is getting married next weekend. I know her family has spent a lot of money on the dinner, etc. It is going to be in Savannah. ( about 5 hours from where I live.) The hotel and gas is so expensive.(mainly the hotel) and I just maxed out my credit card on car repairs. I would hate to upset her, but if I really can not afford it and will have to max out another card, should I apologize and bow out? I feel like that would be so rude. (not to mention she has turned into a slight bridezilla) :)

2007-08-23 15:28:50 · 22 answers · asked by sarah h 2 in Weddings

In my dream there were people around but I do not recognize any after wakeing except an old love of mine, and I had asked him if he wanted to go to Hawaii with me, he never said anything only nodded yes, and then I began to show him this pamplet of the place I wanted to go, which had a picture of this canopied spot on the beach, it was such a romantic setting, and we were looking at it togeather and then I woke up.

2007-08-23 15:28:07 · 1 answers · asked by Sunnye 1 in Singles & Dating