my father always is screaming, what should i do?

Question

Whenever my father gets mad he starts screaming at the top of his lungs, i've cried many times to tell him to stop. But he doesn't seem to care. He even screams at my mom and it makes her cry as well. I dont think he seems to care what is happening. My parents have been married for about 19 years, but now it seems my father has lost respect for her. Now my little 6yr brother starts screaming at my mom because my dad. What should i do, tell me if you dad or if you know anyone's father who screams at the top of his lungs when mad. And i need help on what to do about this sitituation

Answer 1

People do that when they are trying to control others and it isnt working, They resort to terrorizing people by screaming. Someone needs to kick him in the nuts and get his attention.

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Answer 2

Couple things... has dad been checked medically lately? It's possible he has diabetes. Suggest to mom that maybe he needs to be checked for this (if he is overweight, smokes, etc.. these things might be signs) there is also a bi-polar condition that will cause this (however most mental issues are a touchy subject in families so you may not want to discuss this with mom.) If you suspect - even mildly that it is diabetes - try this. Make him a sandwich or offer him a coke.

meanwhile, yes, my mom did this when I grew up. She has diabetes. My hubby does this, he has diabetes. See the common thread?

For you; because you can't fix dad. Know that anger isn't about hate. He does not hate you or your mom. Understand that some people are driven by illness and it's the same as someone coughing when they have emphysema, or staying in bed when they have cancer. They don't mean it personal - it just is.

I hope this helps some. And if none of this applies look at the advice above (except the one about guns and knifes) also I don't think any state has laws against being yelled at.

Answer 3

ok time to act out: first take a pencil and write on the kitchen wall when he is not home, dad stop screaming when your mad and tell him all the reasons why, and what your feeling, and your mom, and how he is changing your brother for the worse, this should catch his eye. then put on mirror in the bathroom where he brushes his teeth, dad your yelling hurts my feelings, then put in all his shoes, I love you dad, stop yelling when your mad, lets talk it out and be a family. get his attention and then have a family meeting and talk it out. take care.

Answer 4

As far as your dad you guys just need to walk away and leave his dumb *** screaming by himself. Now If my little brother was acting like that with my mom, I would back hand him in his mouth right in mid scream.......I have done it to my sister before and it shut her up real quick. She is 15 and I am 27, but she is a spoiled bratt and has a horrible attitude and my parents just sit there like idiots...so i take it upon myself to set her straight lol

Answer 5

my dad used to do this.I cried so hard for so long because of him.Actually my little brothers and sister all started screaming at each other. it took us 4 months after my dad moved out to get them to stop!
Anyway...he probably just has anger issues.i dont know your dad i cant really say.but you can maybe when hes in a good mood get your mom to talk to him.Also you could report him to dss if its really bad

Answer 6

He's got a problem. He needs serious therapy to help him. Only your mother can deal with this. Ask her to talk to him when he isn't angry and see if she can get him to get some kind of therapy. What he is doing is verbally and mentally abusing your family with his anger. It is taking it's toll on all of you and turning your little brother into a disrespectful version of your father.

Answer 7

Report your dad to DSS for verbal abuse. Seriously they won't take him out in handcuffs for that (though maybe they should) but they will send him to parenting classes, or marital counseling.