Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

Okay so I'm back from a 2 week Vacation. The whole two weeks I was calling him. But anyway now that I'm back well its weird. I got back yesterday. He didn't call I called him. He called back and we talked 4 literally 1 minute!! Said he was going to call back and didn't! I hate that!! Today he didn't call me at all!! I really like him but I'm so tired of this! Before I went on Vacation he was always calling me. What happen!? I 'm not going to call him until he calls me. I promised myself. I really want to but I'm not.

I want to be with him but I'm thinking I should break up with him. I don't want to. I want him to call me so we can fix this. Everytime I try to tell him he is like "don't start with me baby" Or something! He gets mad when I say he needs to make more time for me. Not his whole life but some! We go to different schools. he's in 9th I'm in 10. My best friend is his cousin. Please help me!!!! Thanks!! =)

2007-08-23 18:36:41 · 10 answers · asked by I can only be me 4 in Singles & Dating

Cheating isn't the issue. It's the alcohol. He likes good times with friends and the party never stops. He never misses work, and he never leaves me without money for the bills and stuff. That doesn't mean I'm happy. I'm just somebody that lives with him. I'm considering leaving him. Just move to a studio apartment, where all I have to deal with is myself. I've told him all this, how much it hurts me. But, it's to the point I just want to walk out the door and never come back. And he gets it...as long as he is sober. I've given him the alcohol or me choice..guess who won! Of course initially he chooses me and quits drinking, but four or five months down the road it's right back to staying out all night on drunken binges. I can't take it anymore. What do I do? Leave? And if I leave, what happens next? Do I need to file for Divorce and prove ownership of certain property? Also I have to add that he was arrested for two DUI's in one month!

2007-08-23 18:34:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my step sister (who is possibly my father's biological child) that is older than myself thinks I am a peice of trash for bad mouthing my father? My father is diagnosed with Hep C and will die without a transplant. He was a cocaine intravenous user and alcoholic and my childhood was pretty much ****** up by him. The other day I put something on my msn about being pissed off with him and my step sister started to go on about how she'd kill to have a father like him (her father pretty much kicked the crap out of her mother once when she was 6 and her mother left him for good - I think it's because he found out that my step sister was not his). I told her that if she wanted to listen to what I had to say about him, that I'd be more than willing to explain. She said no and told me that I shouldn't "broadcast" my father as a "monster". Needless to say the day after the "chat" she went to her mother and told her all about it. My sister who lives ...

2007-08-23 18:34:04 · 1 answers · asked by Momma Gaga 6 in Family

My husband took a nude picture of me face down and passed out (not from being in a drunken state, just sleeping). I was wearing a garter and stockings and nothing else. He has it on his cell phone. We had a discussion a week ago regarding the subject and he said that he would never do that without my knowledge. And I expressed very boldly that I oppose that very much. Yesterday a.m. his phone was ringing for work, I picked it up and there was the picture. Am I wrong for feeling violated?

2007-08-23 18:33:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 18:32:13 · 31 answers · asked by Wendy 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this girl so much, she means everything to me and all I ever wanted to do was be there for her. She's never done anything for me but it never seemed to bother me.

The reason I want to break up with her is because I recently found out she cheated on me with some guy when we started going out. She had cheated on me before that when we were talking also with someone else, but i still went out with her regardless.

I want her to remember me so I want to get her something. What should I get her. I want to get her something nice so please don't leave answers saying I should give her something stupid. I love this girl and leaving her is the most hurtful thing in my life. Her smile always kills me over and over inside. I know I have to break up with her however.

Anyways I know how I'm going to do it I just don't know what to give to her to remember me by. Please help...

2007-08-23 18:31:50 · 35 answers · asked by SadPanda1337 2 in Singles & Dating

Channel 7's 'The Morning Show' believe that we all need to make more time for each other and have started a 'Make Time' campaign.

"People are just not there for others like they used to be and we think everyone needs to make time for the important things in life. A short phone call or a postcard in the mail is all it takes to reconnect with the ones you love."

We would love to hear your thoughts and ideas on how you make time for your friends and family.

2007-08-23 18:31:23 · 91 answers · asked by Yahoo!7 Australia Answers Team 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the worst excuse you ever used or was ever used on you to get out of a date ??? just wondering...

2007-08-23 18:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by rudeguest 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for two years, I knew coming into the marriage his "best friend" was a girl. I think before we go any further its important to mention they did sleep together prior to our marriage. I never have met the "best friend", though I have made several attempts. My husband says she hates other girls, and I should'nt force the issue. However my problem is, she always calls him at work, on his cell and never on our home phone. If she finds out I'm within distance of him she'll tell him she has to go or let him go. He started including me in some of thier emails,after me demanding to be included and I couldn't believe what I was reading, he told her over and over again how beautiful she was, that he loved her and they were going to act as the other ones personal assitant. My husband has compared her to me physically alot. Can someone please advise me how to handle this? I feel that I'm reasonable, but at this point it's her or me.

2007-08-23 18:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and I just started working at walmart. I got my first paycheck and my dad is all about having it direct deposited into the bank. He keeps on bringing it up. Why would he wanted it direct deposited in the bank instead of me just cashing it at work? Does he think I will go buy weed if its not direct deposited? He knows I smoke weed or he did.

2007-08-23 18:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and My boyfriend have what i believe is a sex problem...we have been together for 5 years, we are both 21 and we have sex at least 6 times a day of course there are times that we can't have it as much so we only have it like once or twice. It has gotten to the point that i get out of class so we can have sex, and sometimes he gets out of work as well...is this normal, what should i do...?

2007-08-23 18:28:48 · 31 answers · asked by VeviPaSiempre 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 18:28:12 · 16 answers · asked by BigDre10 1 in Singles & Dating

Everything I try to put the effort in mending my lack of relationship with my mom, it goes well in the beginning and she slips back into her old self where she manages to "emotionally abuse" but she states that she's looking out for. Everytime I start to have a relationship with her again after periods of silence, she just starts to make me feel bad about myself like I'm less and not good enough. Talking to her does not work, i tried.she think she's right and doing the best for me. should I distant myself from her emotionally? The thought of it is sad.

2007-08-23 18:25:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok when a man cheats on his wife SHE is the mistress. but when a woman cheats on her husband what is the other man called not the one gettin cheated on but the one who is messin with the married chick

2007-08-23 18:23:16 · 21 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating a guy for 3 months and we mutually decided we would be better off as friends. At the time I figured I didn't need to tell him how much he meant to me cause I figured, "it doesn't matter if I tell him or not, he probably already knows." Now as the days have gone by I realize how much I value him as a person and as a friend and that through the whole exceperience I met someone I truly trust and admire, even though now we are no more than friends. Should I tell my friend or do you think he already knows? Is this something even tell to people? What do I do with these feelings?

2007-08-23 18:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

I have joint custody of my children but they relocated out of State with their Mother so I only have them holidays and summer. My ex has been very difficult and made all visits and contact a real struggle. When it comes down to it she has no backing or justification, so she can not stop my visitation. Her actions just cause a lot of undue stress & distress to everyone and most importantly the kids. I have tried to keep it out of Court so we do not lose our choice of how to deal with things but I think I need the Court's help. While they were here this summer I became aware that she was to move out of where they were living w/ her boyfriend. I contacted her and her lawyer to have this issue discussed with me in the first place and second get the address of where she was to move. I was not given any of this. I reluctently sent the kids home and have demanded the lawyer or her to give me the address. They won't respond. What can I turn into the court to make them tell me a.s.a.p. ?

2007-08-23 18:21:12 · 16 answers · asked by Bonnie&Clyde 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How Big My package is. Two of her friends text me and asked to see it. I showed them. And I liked it alot. i got really tured on is this normal One of them wants to do it??
Should I?

2007-08-23 18:19:46 · 19 answers · asked by BigDre10 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not married so don't bite my head off! I went to one wedding when i was a kid (i'm in my 20's now)...i always wonder these things:

1. are the parents of bride or groom still expected to pay for the wedding or is that old fashioned?

2. when u send invitation to whomever do u always assume they will bring a guest/date or is the invite just for 1 person? do people ever go to weddings alone?

3. okay, after the couple leave the reception and go to lets say Hawaii for honeymoon - do they leave right away? does she wear her dress on the plane, to the hotel lol...

4. kids - can u have a wedding with all adults? what about guests that have kids - do u have to invite them?

5. do u have to have open bar? is it tacky n' cheap if you don't?

6. maid of honor - is her dress supposed to be different from the other bridesmaids? how do u choose maid of honor I have 1 older sis and 2 female best friends

7. is every 1 invited to the wedding invited to the reception
lol - thanks

2007-08-23 18:18:27 · 27 answers · asked by camillabrightside 4 in Weddings

Is it bad to have a stripping pole in your bedroom...

I do!!!!!!

Do you have one..

2007-08-23 18:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by KK 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's b day is coming in early September and he's turning 20. Everytime I ask him, he always says he doesnt want anything. But I really want to get him sumthing special and something that he will remember me by. ANY IDEAS?? PLZ HELP.!!! I want it to show him how much I love him. I"m not very good at stuff like this.. help!! :)

2007-08-23 18:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I will say sorry first because this will be a long one! I am now a mother of a beautiful 2 year old. He is the reason why I wake up every morning and want to be better person each n everyday! so I was born to a family where I was supposed have perfect life till I was ready to be married and as soon as it was time be married to some rich guy and live a life as a housewife. But that is how my life went. I ended up falling in love with someone not so appropriate for my family, and ended up having a baby with him before being married. So now the once a princess is hated by everyone and looked upon as a whore. He was my first hug to first of everything else. We are not together [I guess] anymore due to the fact that I have been really confused with my life. Family and friends treat me like the person who no one ever should be. I have been trying very hard t give my son the best of everything. I live each n everyday for him... I just don't know am I really that bad of a person???

2007-08-23 18:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lost & Confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Haven't seen this guy I really like for 8 months. Went to where he worked the other day and we talked as though 8 months never happened. When I left, I said "well, see you in a couple of years". He said, well, I'll be here. What do you think he meant?

2007-08-23 18:04:21 · 5 answers · asked by SMITHYSNUFF 1 in Singles & Dating

and maybe a story 2 go with it (please give me something to look foward to only 15 lol) thanx :)

2007-08-23 18:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found my debit card was missing, called bank to cancel it, and to my horror, discovered that over my paycheck had been drained from my acct. Only my son could have done it. thats 2 weeks with no food, gas, and unpaid bills. he is only 16 and already on probation for breaking into a garage with some of his friends. he stole over $1000 from checking acct.!! I guess i always suspected he was using drugs, his cousin/best friend is always in rehab. Now i am sure. do I turn him in to his counselor and probation officer?? I am sick about this..I love my son, but can't have him doing stuff like this!!! I work hard as a nurse. His dad and i are separated, but very good friends, there is no fighting, we are loving parents to our children and both of us are there for them always. we never had a problem like this before and are lost. Our older kids say have him arrested..I know he will be sent away. his father is very angry, i am more hurt. Help me !!!

2007-08-23 18:02:49 · 14 answers · asked by misty827 1 in Family

If If, If a married man and you are in love, first wife knows it but cant do much about it. Their relationship was cold for some time,but for any reason he cant divorce his wife;

Do you rather have your man marry you and you become a second wife and have children with him, or you prefer to be just a mistress all your life and have children with him.

Both ways you still share him w first wife.
Which one you choose?

2007-08-23 17:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just need some words of wisdom - my hubby recently told me that he no longer wants to be married because he is not happy. He says he only wants to be a good father to our 2 kids. He has agreed to go to marriage counseling to see of our marriage can be saved. My problem is that I am so hurt by what he said to me that I don't know how to live my daily life without those words going thru my head. What do I do?

2007-08-23 17:58:51 · 23 answers · asked by seashells74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm so upset and sad over my recent breakup with my boyfriend. we were together for 7 years. i havent spoke to him in only 2 months but it feels like forever. im so hurt that he is seeing a girl that is within our circle of friends. i cant stop crying and thinking and re-thinking it all. this wound is so deep with him and my others friends not telling me anything. i wanna see a doctor to make me feel better. please help me let go.

2007-08-23 17:53:21 · 30 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance would love to know someone help me it would be an honer if you could help me.

2007-08-23 17:52:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I had an hour break today between classes (I'm in college), so I decide to head to the library to go online. A cute girl sits down in the computer next to me and looks at an online campus map to find her next class.
But I just end up freezing.
I'm sitting there without a clue on how to talk to her. I don't want to look stupid, since I'm new to the campus myself and can't really help, so I have no idea where the buildings are either. What the heck should I've done?

2007-08-23 17:51:19 · 13 answers · asked by josh f 1 in Singles & Dating

Who likes it?

2007-08-23 17:51:01 · 1 answers · asked by Sunny Days 1 in Other - Family & Relationships