Me and My boyfriend have what i believe is a sex problem...we have been together for 5 years, we are both 21 and we have sex at least 6 times a day of course there are times that we can't have it as much so we only have it like once or twice. It has gotten to the point that i get out of class so we can have sex, and sometimes he gets out of work as well...is this normal, what should i do...?
2007-08-23 18:28:48 · 31 answers · asked by VeviPaSiempre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say this like it is a bad thing..... I never thought there could be a term as "too much sex." I want that problem. Enjoy it while you can.
2007-08-23 18:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you def. have a healthy sex life...but it sounds like that is all you have. If you are having sex 6 times a day do you really have more that a very sexaul realationship? My advice to you is to try as hard as you can to stop having sex for at least 2 days and see if you have more than just a sex thing....its a little extreme 6 times a day!!!!
2007-08-24 01:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kathi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal but at the same time if thats ALL ur doin than its not. I dont think that hes in it jus for the sex because if he was than you would know. Theres no such thing as too much sex. Sex is good & it could be healthy for some relationships.
2007-08-24 01:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it, then don't. Tell him you don't want to hurt him, but you just think all the sex is a little overwhelming. Tell him maybe you should postpone it for a while, and then build up the desire so it means more. If you're enjoying it now, that's great! But, as I hear it's interfering with school and carrer, that's not good. You need to focus on your future right now, and if you blow it because of sex, then you'll end up regretting it later.
2007-08-24 01:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by stormy.! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No stop that's to much! It seems like the relationship is based of sex. Which isn't good. Try not having sex for a week. Just cuddle and talk. Se how that goes. Good luck!
2007-08-24 01:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your simply questioning it, says something about it ,is bothering you. Only you can figure out just what that is.
Talk to a professional and sort things out.
There's no "normal" when it comes to sex frequency. I think it can be age dependant and what is OK with both parties.
2007-08-24 01:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by wifilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will lead you to a stage, very soon when you will put a question 'how to spice sex in our life'. If you find pleasure in jumping, for example you never start jumping whenever you get an opportunity to do so. Hint is sufficient for wise ones.
2007-08-24 01:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is abnormal you shouldn't have sex this much. If you are madly in love then try something else. Slowly cut it down to sex just once a day and then maybe even once a week.
2007-08-24 01:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by swimmergrl95 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not too much as long as no one gets hurt and its consentual,,, Enjoy it while you can ,every time I married A girlfriend ,sex dropped off to maybe once a week!
2007-08-24 01:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Larry S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some will say tht this is not normal and tht u do have a problem and you and your boyfriend need help.
Then others will say tht there is no problem and it just means tht u love each other a whole lot!
You need 2 pick which u think is right.
Hope this helps!
2007-08-24 01:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋