I love this girl so much, she means everything to me and all I ever wanted to do was be there for her. She's never done anything for me but it never seemed to bother me.
The reason I want to break up with her is because I recently found out she cheated on me with some guy when we started going out. She had cheated on me before that when we were talking also with someone else, but i still went out with her regardless.
I want her to remember me so I want to get her something. What should I get her. I want to get her something nice so please don't leave answers saying I should give her something stupid. I love this girl and leaving her is the most hurtful thing in my life. Her smile always kills me over and over inside. I know I have to break up with her however.
Anyways I know how I'm going to do it I just don't know what to give to her to remember me by. Please help...
2007-08-23 18:31:50 · 35 answers · asked by SadPanda1337 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, she cheated on you.... Not once, but twice. While I do admire you for wanting to part on good terms, this is one time when it is OK to be a jerk, and really, she deserves it.
If you must leave her with something to remember you by, send her a framed picture of you sleeping with her little sister. Trust me, she WILL remember you for that.
2007-08-23 18:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal i think you will be sorry after you do this,you say you love her so much but you want to brake up with her. You said she cheated when you were talking, first you two were not together so drop that one that shouldn't count. Second you two just started out so you two were not really serious yet or at least she wasn't at first .Has she given you any reason after that not to trust her now,do you think she loves you. if the answer is yes then why. How are you going to feel when you see her with someone else,it will kill you inside and you know it.Think about this real hard before you act sweetie. If you still want to go along with this don't give her anything because she will just throw it at you when you brake up with her.There is no way to do this nice so forget about it.
2007-08-23 18:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're leaving this girl, she most likely will reject whatever it is you are trying to get her.
However, I understand your feelings and why you want to give her this gift. If you really want her to remember you, make a photo album of some sort. It shows that you put time into it & you can write a brief note to her at the beginning to show her that she was an important part of your life and that you hope you were an important part of hers.
If you don't have time for that, a simple photo frame will do as well. The note could be included in the back.
Jewelry is an option, but she might not wear it very much because she won't want it acting as a reminder if she starts dating other guys.
Candles, body lotions/scrubs, etc. are bad ideas because they won't remind her of you at all.
Good luck!
2007-08-23 18:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by mademoiselle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hold up, this girl is CHEATING on you and you want to give her a nice gift to remember you by?
SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU! She does not love you! She does not DESERVE a gift! For the love of god, do not buy her a gift. That is the worst thing you can do. That gives her all the power and makes you look very pathetic. Sorry to sound harsh, but it is true. I am not saying you ARE pathetic, but this sort of thing will make you look that way. Move on with your head held high.
But if you absolutely have to give her something and you want it to be something she won't forget, the perfect going away present is an STD. Go have fun!
2007-08-23 18:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Go Coogs! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit unsure of this.
Is she still cheating on you? If not, then keep her. She seems to be worth the trouble. She was not cheating with you when you were just taking, you weren't committed to one another then.
As far as cheating when you first started going out, I'm goign to let that slide too. When you first started dating her, she was not under obligation to be only with you.
What has she done since then? Is she faithful now?
Lighten up a bit. If you love her, keep her.
I'm sure she will always remember you even without the gift. Bear in mind that when you break up with her she will just throw it out anyway.
2007-08-23 18:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Don't give her a gift. You need to be cold. Oviliously if she cheated on you she (sorry) doesn't absolutily love you as much as you claim to like her. So just think you can do better then a cheating girlfriend. And when you break up with her she will remember you as the nice guy she missed out on.
2007-08-23 18:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean she CHEATED on you? You were not married or even engaged... Some men go out with several women, and now, so does women.... If you don't like it, marry her....
Ask her to marry you with a ring... If the answer is yes, you will be happy... an if the answer is no, tel her that she can keep the ring...
That is the best brake-up gift you could make, for both of you.
Good Luck!
2007-08-23 18:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, here's what you do.
Pick up some really good paper, like the ones used to do a resume, at some local paper store.
Then, type some Becker poetry in it. Lastly write your name in the bottom of the page, ...with your own blood!
Grab a needle and carefully pinch in one of your fingertips let some drops in the bottom-lefthand corner fall and from there with the needle grab the enough amount of your "sould ink" to write your name, as neathly as possible. then let the "soul ink" drops and name dry out (do not try to suck 'em up with a paper towel or something). and lastly fold the paper into 3 equal sections, just like a letter.
Put some flower petals in between, pack in a blank envelope and slip it under the door.
- bye
2007-08-23 18:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Odio a los Estados Unidos! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said: "I love this girl so much, she means everything to me and all I ever....... She's never done anything for me but i never seemed to bother me" Well, I have news for you, she did do something to you, she cheated on you and betrayed your trust. Why would you want to give her something? Please take whatever dignity you have left and move on, don't buy her anything or..on second thought you could give her a piece of coal, as a reminder of how empty she left your heart.
In all seriousness....don't buy her anything, take your pride and move on, you sound like a nice guy.
2007-08-23 18:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by fun 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont suppose you should even consider of giving her a present.. She may just dump it away anyway.. She didnt seem like she cares a bit about what you going to give her or even your feelings..
But if you really want to give her something to remember you by, you can try thinking of a thing that you both shared and give to her as remembrance.. or you can give her a key? telling her that you still want her to have the key to your heart? just a suggestion..
2007-08-23 18:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by jacquesLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋