I will say sorry first because this will be a long one! I am now a mother of a beautiful 2 year old. He is the reason why I wake up every morning and want to be better person each n everyday! so I was born to a family where I was supposed have perfect life till I was ready to be married and as soon as it was time be married to some rich guy and live a life as a housewife. But that is how my life went. I ended up falling in love with someone not so appropriate for my family, and ended up having a baby with him before being married. So now the once a princess is hated by everyone and looked upon as a whore. He was my first hug to first of everything else. We are not together [I guess] anymore due to the fact that I have been really confused with my life. Family and friends treat me like the person who no one ever should be. I have been trying very hard t give my son the best of everything. I live each n everyday for him... I just don't know am I really that bad of a person???
2007-08-23 18:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lost & Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the only thing that matters is what you think of yourself! if know that you are trying your best to give little the best of everything, then nothing else matters. as os people, they talk... they wll always talk. but to be honest im pretty sure none of them actually care at the end of the day. no one really thinks about you when they are alone. its just people like to see others be miserable becuase this makes them feel reat about themselves. i will cann you a
2007-08-24 06:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 21st Centry.
There are millions/billions of people out there who have children prior to marriage & so what? In Australia (where I am from) this is quite common....but to call you a whore is not right....those people do not have the right to judge another person.....sometimes situation forbits us from doing things we want....
The most important think in your life now is your son....you will be a good mother & an exceptional rule model for him.....
Remember you are not a bad person....you are a mother!
2007-08-24 01:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by mimii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is the only person that wakes you up everyday. What your family eats dont make you go to the bathroom , and vice versa. You are the only person that have to answer for each and everything that you do in your life. Take care of your baby, and as long as you and him are happy, i wouldnt worry about what any one else have to say
2007-08-24 01:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by joquai1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are not a bad person.
u cant help who u fall in love with.
u are not a whore because of this.
u have brought a beautiful baby into this world.
and the love u have for him shouldnt matter even if he was born in or out of wedlock.
2007-08-24 01:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by jigga_0824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a bad person, you're no no better or worse
than anyone else. We have all made mistakes in our lives.
The most important thing is to give your child all the love and
care he deserves. I think you're are a real woman to admit
a mistake, but to deal with it.
2007-08-24 01:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by rckrjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls usualy get married before marriage, that is not right.
About you, why should you care what people think about you? They like you- fine, they dont- dont care too. People who always loved you they will always love you.
2007-08-24 01:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good mother because you put your child first. And you are a strong person with good morals, because you didn't get an abortion.
2007-08-24 01:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not at all. I would call you the girl with a bit of wisdom now.
2007-08-24 01:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Grimm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep looking , theres a lot of guys that will think your just perfect.
2007-08-24 01:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Larry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋