Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

Okay i asked my boyfriend for sex and he said he was too tired so i said ok and went to take a shower, i came back to find a porn video on the internet and uhmm some evidence on a towel that he was masturbating. I got upset because i had asked him for sex and he said he was too tired yet he decides to make himself climax. I think he might have been being selfish because he was tired and while it takes girls a while to climax guys climax quicker, so i think he wanted to make himself feel good and avoid doing all the work. Anywho i felt kinda hurt by this because he was being selfish, so i asked him if he thought about me when he masturbated or if he thought about the girls in the porn movie, he said he pictured me and sometimes them. Is he being truthful? Do guys think about the people in the porn when masturbating or there significant other? He's usually honest with me, but sometimes he says little white lies to spare my feelings. What do u guys think?

2007-08-23 15:24:51 · 21 answers · asked by Lady B 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 15:20:00 · 13 answers · asked by Kachi O 1 in Singles & Dating

We do not have a wedding planner. Any ideas on who tells people where to stand and what to do at the rehearsal? The officiate is not an option, as he is my fiancé’s dear uncle and will be officiating the wedding only.

2007-08-23 15:18:13 · 7 answers · asked by dma 3 in Weddings

I want 2 know some names like sweatheart, honey etc...
plz help me out here, thx!!!!

2007-08-23 15:17:27 · 3 answers · asked by wanna b me 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do??!!!!!! Serious answers only please!!!!!!!?
i just started college this week and theres this girl in one of my classes that I really like- she's really nice and friendly to me, very attractive, and likes to make small talk with me. ALSO, we're the only hispanic people in the courses we are taking(she's columbian and Im peruvian) and she was ESPECIALLY interested in me once i told her i was hispanic and i enjoy talking to her. The thing is though is whether or not I should do something or not about it- like asking her whether she wants to get coffee or something to eat. I think it might be sudden but class ends for the both of us on Thursday which means we "could do something". what would you suggest??? This is really a serious question

2007-08-23 15:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Shayne J 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her, but she has been having an affair since May. I think it will die out, but I don't know how long that will take. She has talked to the guy on the phone for two years, but they just became "romantic" in May. She says she isn't sure if she wants a divorce or not. We've been married for 13 years and I want to stay married. But I can't just look the other way. Should I give her a few more months, for instance?

2007-08-23 15:10:36 · 95 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'll be 18 in a few months and i'm involved with a guy who is 24, we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend but we are extremely close friends who talk almost everyday. We really like each other and would like to take it to the next level but my parents don't like him because they believe that he has no potential and could do nothing but cause me trouble. I really like him but it feels like my parents are holding back me furthering my relationship with him. What should i do, should i go against my parents or should i just leave well enough alone.

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its not that he is "bad" for me, he encourages me to be respectful to my parents and get a good education so that i don't end up like him. its not like he is pushing drugs on me and making me cut school.

also he can have any girl he wants as well as i can have any guy that i want, and we've both been with people while we were friends, but we keep coming back to each other

and yes we have already had sex.....sex is not a big deal

2007-08-23 15:10:28 · 24 answers · asked by bbgirl54 1 in Singles & Dating

Please explain to me the theory that if you are "too available" to a man, he will reject you.? I have spent 5 years with MY GUY and the last 4 months at his side trying to take care of him...he had a heart attack. I have bathed him, fed him, even helped him pee in a urinal and ...guess what..he wants to throw me out of the house we have shared and made into a home. Yes, I am leaving but I just want an answer...WHAT DID I DO WRONG?

2007-08-23 15:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by kmoc123 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My real dad wants to walk me down the aisle, but one time when I was angry with him I asked my Mum's boyfriend who she's been with for ages, he's more of a dad to me than my dad, I sometimes refer to him as dad2 as a joke, anyways both are under the impression that their walking me down the aisle, if I deny my dad the duties of FOB it'll hurt him and the other one will get offended, can both walk me down the aisle or is there some rule that only the father can do that?

2007-08-23 15:06:18 · 49 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

I was with this woman that I adored very much, and she adored me. Not too long ago, this guy came into the picture. He was a d**khead and was basically out to take my situation away from me. My situation was, that I was living with two women, a mother and a daughter. I was dating the daughter, and we were all very happy. This guy thought I had it made and thought I was sleeping with both of them, which I wasn't , got jealous and tried to take it from me. He said all kinds of negative things about me and basically tried to get them to put me out, when we all paid equally on the rent. To make a long story short, the woman I was dating fell in love with the guy, even though she knew what kind of person he was. To boot, he's making her leave state with him and her mind is so twisted by this man that she is leaving. I have tried everything in the book to get her back. Is it worth it, or should I just leave? her alone?

2007-08-23 15:02:48 · 2 answers · asked by trevor_laforce 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most "hot" women have the worst personalities. While the less attractive women have the greatest personalities. Why is this?

2007-08-23 15:02:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is unable to have an orgasm. We've spoken openly about it and according to her she seems to feel an almost, as she calls it, shame with having sex. .She cant let herself enjoy it enough. I think it may be because of the way her parents brought her up, which was a strict christian house. In fact, her mother told her to leave at 16 when she essentially said to her "I've had enough of this religion"

I've thought that it was my fault because I dont seem to be able to perform as well all the time, especially while using condoms. That doesnt seem to be the case according to her. I've suggested sex toys and porn but she is aprehensive about pornographic movies.

anyway, any ideas as to how I can help her overcome this sense of shame with sex so that she can enjoy it?

2007-08-23 15:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 14:59:47 · 22 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a bit odd, but I think it's the best way out. I want to break up, but I don't want to hurt the other person. So after thinking I thought that the best way to end it is to have him break up with me. But i've tried everything from acting obnoxious to cold-indiffrence. But the more hint I give out that I want to end it, the tighter he holds on, It's like going out with an eight-legged octopus...any suggestions? thanx!

2007-08-23 14:53:19 · 36 answers · asked by ProfessorCuddles 1 in Singles & Dating

im just sayin (im just wondering thats not me) if u dont like girls or guys and you dont like love or sex at all can somebody be like that? is it human for someone to be like that ?

2007-08-23 14:49:23 · 1 answers · asked by 14-0 and lovin it 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 14:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has primary custody . she gets every other weekend etc . they did divorce & make a settlement . he continues to ask her to sign away parental rights , and to tell these children goodbye . he calls a lot to annoy /harass . he wont do stupid threats but .....he knows how to push her buttons . she has suffered from mental illness . she is doing very well with therapy and medication . she is /has been diagnosed as depressed. initially she was diagnosed as bi polar on discharge from a mental hospital . a forensic psychiatrist saw her and was able to determine she was depressed and not bi polar . his testimony is what helped her to be allowed see these children . ohh yeah a lot of this was brought on by the traumatic loss of her vision , she had surgeries and anti rejection meds . mental ilness showed up later . side effects of meds ? the s-i-l knows he can say stuff to cripple her . she is strong .but it gets to her . she does have good therapy . she needs apro bonolawyer in dallas

2007-08-23 14:48:33 · 20 answers · asked by Mark H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It wasn't gypsies this time.

2007-08-23 14:48:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sounds like a sham of a yahoo question but its not. I'm really interested. I want to marry this girl because she is so sweet and kind. However there is an age, experience and intelligence gap. Its pretty substantial. I do feel compatible when with her but sometimes I am amazed/dumbfounded by let's say, her level of not comprehending something that seems pretty elementary and basic.

Was your marriage like that? Is it still going ok? I am scared because this is number 2 for me and number one had her own shortcomings.

2007-08-23 14:47:05 · 24 answers · asked by Delay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has a boyfriend but he lives around 10 hours away. I like my friend a lot but I know she has a boyfriend so I can never do anything. But she always acts weird around me and I'm not to sure why. Like she gets jealous when there are other girls around and she doesn't treat me like she does her other guy friends. Recently her boyfriend came to town and that dude hates me. Is she using me against him or sum sh!t? I think she's using him against me and me against him. Like some sort of sick game.

2007-08-23 14:44:57 · 29 answers · asked by AdamVanEssen 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband bougth our own house, then came my mother in law , loosing her job made my husband decide for her to live with us. I definitely can`t get along with her we have lots of opposite ideas because of the fact that I'm a foreigner .

2007-08-23 14:42:11 · 9 answers · asked by TRE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 14:38:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or a foursome? I have done both a few times and loved it . how many of you out their have done it and loved it?

2007-08-23 14:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by butterfly41281 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you know can my new husband adopt my son without his biological father's permission?

2007-08-23 14:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I woke up today and noticed that there was alot of toilet paper all over the trees that surround my house and my dad told me he already tried to pick up as much as he can and he said it was just too much. 5 mins. later an officer comes to my house with two other 8th graders and says " These are the boys who wrapped your house" and the officer made the two boys clean up our property but as soon as the police officer left they stopped and ran to their home and never came back!!! We still have ALOT of toilet paper on our trees and it looks horrible! And the boys parents know that they didn't finish cleaning and yet they won't say anything to their kids. What would you do? Should I go complain to the subdivision office or should I call the cops and tell them? (I really don't want drama, I just want those boys to clean it up) by the way those boys live 3 houses down from us.

2007-08-23 14:29:45 · 7 answers · asked by Just Ask :-) 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my best friend is a guy. lets call him Bob.
well a new girl just came to my school from a difrent contry.
she was really nice. but when i was walking home with bob he asked me if i would introduse him to her. i said no b/c all the other guys had been hitting on her ever since she got there, and i didn't want her to have to deal with a nother guy trying to put the moves on her. i was just trying to be a good friend. and bob understood me and agreed to lay off.
but now she has gone and ditched me for the pops.
and that makes me really sad b/c i really liked her and i tryed to help her. well now that I'm spending a lot of time with Bob i've relized that i cind of like him. not a lot but just inofe to feel jules of her. and bob just talks nonstop about her, and its really starting to hert me really bad. i think i'm falling for him, and it really herts me to hear him talk how great she is seeing how she really hert me, and the fact that i really like him now. i just don't know what do

2007-08-23 14:27:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom and me decided we would do homeschooling. So we are,and so far I'm not liking it! Should I wait a bit and then see if I still like it? But if I did really hate it still, I wouldn't know how would to break it to her. She bought all these supplies and got into a homeschooling group! And I"m kinda missing public school! What should I do?

2007-08-23 14:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Cinderella_kitty 1 in Family

My parents fight constantly and my mom keeps talking about divorce. my brother is only 9 and he doesnt know what is going on. how do i make the fighting stop or if divorce happens how do i cope with it

2007-08-23 14:25:36 · 13 answers · asked by craftin_crazy12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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DBCP06: guess wat..next dance sept 7th u k
DBCP06: and guess wat
AmNextTopModel7: hmm
DBCP06: i can drive to that!!!!
AmNextTopModel7: butthead
DBCP06: so i wont have to wait for parents
AmNextTopModel7: i cant drive till decmebr and itll be all icy
AmNextTopModel7: so i'll prolly crash
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AmNextTopModel7: hahahaha then i wuldnt be at the dance
AmNextTopModel7: : P
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AmNextTopModel7: o u no u'd miss me
DBCP06: mhmm'
AmNextTopModel7: lol
what does this mean...

2007-08-23 14:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by Totally confused?!?! 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so i have always been Well-liked at school but through-out my summer-break ive put on alot of weight and now on the last week of vacation its just to late wat should i do im afraid of being made fun of i just cant go back to school some-one help me please! (im 14 male)

2007-08-23 14:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends