My friend has a boyfriend but he lives around 10 hours away. I like my friend a lot but I know she has a boyfriend so I can never do anything. But she always acts weird around me and I'm not to sure why. Like she gets jealous when there are other girls around and she doesn't treat me like she does her other guy friends. Recently her boyfriend came to town and that dude hates me. Is she using me against him or sum sh!t? I think she's using him against me and me against him. Like some sort of sick game.
2007-08-23 14:44:57 · 29 answers · asked by AdamVanEssen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she's torn between the both of you.
2007-08-23 14:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by jeenyus1986 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like a loyal girl losing her faith. Don't fall in love brother. Trust me.
Keep doing what you're doing. If dude hates you that means he's about to step the game up and try to snatch her some how.
As a matter of fact, get another girl and invest some of your time with her. Why not? Your friend is doing it.
If she can enjoy the both of you why can't you enjoy two women too?
Her boyfriend came in town, made love to her and all the stuff you wanted to do. Accept it or reject it. It happened and don't dare ask her if it did happen.
What did you do? Nothing. You sat down and watched like a fan at a friendly game of baseball.
She's looking out for her so look out for you.
I can also tell who ever is giving thumbs up or down (based on everyone else's judgement) probably already has the answer in their head and only want to read what they want to hear. Might even be a woman in the same scenario and benefiting from it all.
I wonder what it really is...
2007-08-23 14:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by honesthustler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that she may like you, and if she does and has a boyfriend that is not able to be present all the time, than she may be subituting you for him until she can be with him again, yea, it does seem like a mind game, and about the jeoulousy thing, it sounds like to me she has some emotional issues, because that sounds like she wants to control you, and ave you only want her to be the only female company that you keep, she must be real inscure, you need to think where you want this "friendship" to go, If you want it to be more, then tell her and see how she feels, you may have to end the relationship, or if you dont feel that way about her, you need decide where your boundries are concerning this friendship, and let her know when she's crossing them, Good Luck
2007-08-23 14:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She probably likes you both. Here, I'll try to put this as honestly as possible.
Okay. She likes you because you're around. But whenever her boyfriend is around, she probably is all into him right?
Maybe she's thinking of you as like....hers, even though she can't say it's official.
She really likes her boyfriend, but he lives so far away and she really doesn't like that. She probably gets lonely and wishes she had a boyfriend closer. Which is where you come in...the thing is, she just can't leave her boyfriend because when she does get to see him, she's really happy.
Basically, she's just confused and doesn't know what she wants. But she's got to make a sacrifice and you should tell her that.
But hopefully, she's not doing it on purpose to hurt you both. She sounds like me...she's probably a taurus. Sorry dont ask.
But anyway, I hope that helped.
2007-08-23 14:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-12 10:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has a crush on you. Even if she has a boyfriend and other people can sense those sort of feeling so that is why he hates you she probably says things all the time about her friend (you) and he is jealous. Good luck with all of it.
2007-08-23 14:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ddvanyway 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
So play a sick game of your own. Tell her to come over and have a wall full of her pics, like a shrine. Burn little effigies of her in your tree on the front lawn. Get her in your room, and tell her she'll never leave. Then, when she gets freaked out, tell her, "See, playing sick games kinda freaks ME out, too!"
2007-08-23 14:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you thought about just asking her what's up?
It sounds like you care for this person and would like to have a deeper relationship. If that is true, then you both need to be on the same page.
If it is just in your head, then you need to get things straight anyway.
2007-08-23 14:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think she likes to have her cake and eat it too!!!!
She's playing you both and you'll really find that out when she's left with no one to flirt with/be with when the real boyfriend isn't there.
Distance yourself from her and you'll see what I mean.
She's a person who always wants to be the center of attention.
2007-08-23 14:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
She probably talks about you all the time, so he thinks you two are up to something. Hard to say if she likes you more than a friend, but it sounds probable!
2007-08-23 14:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋