Okay i asked my boyfriend for sex and he said he was too tired so i said ok and went to take a shower, i came back to find a porn video on the internet and uhmm some evidence on a towel that he was masturbating. I got upset because i had asked him for sex and he said he was too tired yet he decides to make himself climax. I think he might have been being selfish because he was tired and while it takes girls a while to climax guys climax quicker, so i think he wanted to make himself feel good and avoid doing all the work. Anywho i felt kinda hurt by this because he was being selfish, so i asked him if he thought about me when he masturbated or if he thought about the girls in the porn movie, he said he pictured me and sometimes them. Is he being truthful? Do guys think about the people in the porn when masturbating or there significant other? He's usually honest with me, but sometimes he says little white lies to spare my feelings. What do u guys think?
2007-08-23 15:24:51 · 21 answers · asked by Lady B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was too tired to do the work required to have sex with you, but it takes little effort to masturbate. So him saying he was too tired is plausible. And he's probably being truthful about picturing you sometimes instead of the girl in the porno he's watching. It's easy enough to do.
2007-08-23 15:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, guys do think about their significant other providing he appreciates her body, or at least the sex. But if he don't then he'll find himself thinking about someone else. Sometimes its a threesome, which 1 person could be the 'other' and sometimes the 'other' can totally be out of the picture. No matter which one I'd say compare yourself with what had when you met him and what you presently have. For example, if when he met you, you were small and now you've gotten a little gibber try getting back to that size. Think about it this way, he was attracted you while you were a particular way and if you changed it, he might not like the 'new you'.
2007-08-23 15:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by a.braynen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a guy is tired, then offer to be on top so you're doing the work. If he still watches porn and avoids sex with you after you make that offer, then he is not being fair.
If he is looking at porn, then he is probably thinking of the girl in the porno. If he wanted to think about you and do the deed, he wouldn't need the porno. But, I don't know; every guy is different.
2007-08-23 15:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you're in the mood for sex tell him that you want to watch a porn with him and see will he response to your sexual needs. well if it take you a little long to climax then get yourself all arouse up to the breaking point and tell your bf that you need him in a very bad way!!! every man is different when come to watching adult videos. If he said he thought of you during his self pleasure and sometime her, then he is telling you the truth.
2007-08-23 15:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest he might not have been thinking about you because he know that he has you.. the idea is to masturbate and think about some one who is out of your reach.To dream what sex would be like with some one like that.so he was thinking about the women who was in the porn movie. but that no reason to be upset.
2007-08-23 15:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by The Prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it going to make you feel better or worse if you know the the truth, or will it really matter? I think you should just be happy that you have boyfriend who sounds like he's usually there for you and cares for you, I think that's what's important. Sometimes it's better not to be so curious, no one is perfect.
2007-08-23 15:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by #1bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It extra relies upon on sexuality. she will have some extra pounds on her yet whilst she drives me loopy and satisfies me sexually in each way then she is who i will love. sometimes incredibly skinny ladies are unattractive. i could say the excellent is skinny to medium with curves. Shaven, tanned, toned are constantly solid good points. A tattoo is superb yet too many makes a woman seem trashy additionally piercings at the instant are not that lots of a activate to me i like organic splendor. additionally breast implants at the instant are not captivating. organic breasts no rely what length are captivating to me. a woman in solid shape or one that seems after herself is amazingly captivating. i'm hoping that enlightens you.
2016-10-09 03:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always think about the woman you love, but also you think about these girls in the porno's i know i do but if he turned down sex, there must be a reason behind that especially since he went and did something on his own rather then you know.
2007-08-23 15:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt it suck that guys are just like that... i think that it is bs that guys that u r in a serious relationship are wackin it to porn and thinking about other women... how pure of a relationship is that. I dont think that they would even care if we were touching ourselves to other men... who looked better then them...
2007-08-23 15:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Me For Sex, I'll Hump You For Free. Tell You What, I'll Get Naked For Free
2007-08-23 15:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋