what do you do if you love someone who you can never be with?

Question

It is not that easy to forget. see my mom just married his dad. I know it sound wierd and is sick. i was blessed with a split family and just don't know what to do. he said that he loved me too. Should i give him a call. or wait for him to call me. Guys i need help.

Answer 1

Find something else to focus on- a hobby, your job, a sport- anything that will keep your mind of this person. Eventually, you will meet someone new- probably by doing one of these new activities.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Wishing them well is the best thing you can do.

It's been proven that the first person we fall for colors all other relationships, as it establishes our preferences. Take what you have learned from loving that other person and use it to
your advantage in finding the person who is truly just right for you. Fate will put them in your path as long as you are open to the possibility.

Instead of fixating on the someone you can't have. Wish them well, then redirect the wasted energy you have spent hoping something will develop and use it to find the right person.

You don't need to cut that person out of your life just because you can't be with them. Love them for who they are and the joy they brought you, but don't let the inability to be with them destroy all your other chances to be happy.

Answer 3

You get yourself very busy working on your own life and focusing on it. You keep yourself as busy as you know how; redecorate the apartment, volunteer to help out someone who needs it, move to another city and get packing. Find a cause, a project, something consuming to do to keep you too busy to think on it too much. You will still, but it will help.

Know you will always love them but it cannot be so your life must move on. In a year or two it will be much easier.

Answer 4

Well very hurt and torn up in side cause im the same at da moment i cant ave da man of dreams but its all cool at the moment cause were friends!
But i no what it feels lyk 2 not have ur love for once and the only one that u want!!!
Well gud luk

Answer 5

If possible you could tell the person. It may bring a spark in his/her life and doing this could bring that everlasting moment of the I never knew you felt that way and something they would remember for a lifetime.
It would give you relief and maybe you would be able to go forward in your life and still remember the love you had for this person.

Answer 6

...You let go. I was in this same situation, and I thought about it for a while--why waste my life and constantly become depressed when I know that nothing will be done? It's so hard, because I really had strong feelings...should have woken up a long time ago.

Answer 7

Happy Bunny can only answer this in song:

Have you ever loved somebody so much it makes you cry? Have you ever needed someone so bad you can't sleep at night? Have you ever tried to find the words but they don't come out right...have you ever? Have you ever?

Answer 8

Trust me i have been in and out of the same situation with this one girl for awhile.. actually ignoring her and 2 years helped me get over it.. trust i tried everything and there is no cure.

Answer 9

If you can never be with her, then how do you know you love her? How will she know you love her? Did this come to you in a vision one day? Does any of this really make any sense?

Answer 10

that really stinks but you should try and get used to the fact that some things are just not meant to be. try and move onto someonr or something new. do something for yourself or something nice for another. go hang out with friends or if you really want them try talking to them about it! good luck