Why aren't there women that are attractive and have a good personality?

Question

Most "hot" women have the worst personalities. While the less attractive women have the greatest personalities. Why is this?

Answer 1

From what i have experienced most attractive women are use to having men drool over them and are use to being the center of attention. They sometimes seem to think that the world revolves around them. Attractive women sometime seem to think that they are blessing you with their time while the less attractive women have had to work for attention. Therefore they have better conversation and are deeper. I must say that there are beautiful women with great personalities. When dealing with someone not so attractive, this person may posses qualities that will surprise you every day.Causing this person to be more attractive. When dealing with someone who is only attractive because of her looks well eventually bore you .Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 2

Well, the thing is... generally, the woman sees the guys first, so she knows he looks good, but if his personality sux, like if he's too up-himself, rude, egotistical... basically things that would make a relationship difficult, then she's less likely to say that he's attractive. But if a guy is warm, shows a genuine interest in what she's saying, makes her feels special, then it automatically takes some of the focus away from the way he looks physically. Looks fade over time, but personalities tend to stay with us for life.

Answer 3

What ? Are you sure ? I promise you not every beautiful woman has a rotten personality. Women who are not divas
( the less attractive ones) up are usually they one guys over look. I think that you just have not meet the right woman yet . Beauty Queen or Ordinary girl, just be patient your soul mate is out there.We are individuals and should be judged by who we are not by out outward appearance.
I bet that there are women saying the same thing about guys.
Why aren't there men that are attractive and have a good personality ?

Answer 4

Well thats not really true...I know lots of "hot" people (including women) that have great personalities. But I understand what you mean...I've come across those types. Maybe its cause less attractive women know that there is more to life than looks? Its seems the same for guys I find. Geez men frustrate me...can't live with them, can't live without them lol!

Answer 5

There are attractive women out there with good personalities they are just few and far between. Good luck finding one.

Studies have shown that babies and young children respond better to attractive people vs the less attractive. So that would suggest we are hard wired to notice beauty first.

So if you don't have beauty you have to be good at something else to get noticed. Where as, the attractive people don't have to work on their personalities at all to get noticed. lol

Answer 6

Depends on what your definition of "hot" is. Just because a person has a nice body doesn't make them "hot." Being "hot" comes from within and transfers outwards to your appearance. I've seen people that I would consider "hot" and the minute I hear them speak I realized that they were only exposing a veneer, underlying was something not very hot at all.

Answer 7

Because the "hot" girls know that they are attractive and they don't worry about their personality because they think looks are enough. The less attractive girls have to make up for their lack of looks somehow so they make a great personality for themself. I am someone in between, meaning I am not completely unfortunate looking but I do worry about my personality.

Answer 8

I don't know where you live, but I know hot women with great personalities are everywhere around in my home town. Did it ever occur to you that the women might not be the problem? Maybe you should change your usual haunts, broaden your horizons, and you'll find that you're wrong about that.

Answer 9

HEY! im hot and i have a great personality. haha im just kidding. These hotter women are jsut full of them selfs and are really shallow they dont look at people insides and only thier outsides but not all are that way

Answer 10

I've noticed an interesting phenomenon: The "hot" bitches who think they're God's gift to men are shockingly ALWAYS single yet the more down to earth ones are all in relationships. You know why? Because the hot ones are often used and tossed to the curb once their high maintenance bullshit starts getting in the way.