Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

I was wondering how to get a girl that has a boyfriend. I have liked her for a while but she iz older than me. I had finally got the confidence to ask her out, and she gets a boyfriend!!! I wuz soo mad. I know thats its wrong and all but I really need a date the dance. I could ask someone else out if this doesn't work out now but I would like to have her. Any help iz greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!!

2007-08-23 13:48:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to date a students father if you are a teacher? Here is the story. A new child started in my class last week and I knew her parents were divorced. I was instantly attracted to dad and I think he might feel the same but I can't tell. Well I am only in the process of separating but I feel so strong about this guy. What do I do? I don't wanna cross the line or embarrass myself or lose my job. What is the best approach to see if this is a connection or not? HELP I havent' felt this way in so long about anyone. My hubby(ex soon) hasn't made me have "butterflies" in YEARS and he cheats around too!

2007-08-23 13:47:19 · 1 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

with her foot on the cushion of the diningroom chair. I said, hey, you know, You guys complain that grandpa could've made this house more comfortable and casual (it has pretty furniture but it's rattan and you can't really just sprawl on it)but he didn't, so we should respect the way it is and not treat this type of furniture as if it is casual because it's not. (her mom, my sister, thinks my parents are completely uptight. my sister has a farm and owns only cheap furniture from sears.) my neice and her boyfriend left a day earlier, not angrily, but it was uncomfortable. I feel I was rightto speak up, but maybe too reprimanding. Can anyone give an opinion here?

2007-08-23 13:46:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The other night we were at a party. Everyone had left the room that we were in. I was decently drunk, but I remember everything. I don't think he was drunk at all because he drove home that night. We started just flirting and fake wrestling with each other and somehow we started kissing. We made out for a really long time and nothing else really happened. We did have our hands in each others pants but didn't really do anything. He has been one of my pretty good guy friends for maybe 2 years at the most.
The thing that's weird is the next night he didn't say anything to me about it and he didn't even talk to me like he normally does. Things were really awkward and weird and I acted like an idiot the next night because I wasn't sure how to act.

I think I like him but I'm afraid to bring up that one night. What should I do? And what does our kiss mean? Do you think he likes me at all? No negative comments please, I really just want any opinions/advice for me :-) thanks.

2007-08-23 13:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by miss_hayley 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does he want to have a baby with me? When we first got together he told me that he was never gonna get married and i said the same thing and now he keeps askin me if we're gonna get married! I want to but not right now and he keeps tellin me that he wants to have my kids! But when we first got together he said he has 2 kids already and didnt want another one. I mean for school i have to take home a fake baby and he agreed to helping me watch it and he helped me pick out a name and everything. But why? Why would he tell me at first he doesnt want to get married or have kids but now hes tellin me he does?

2007-08-23 13:46:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last time i asked a question i wanted to know if i still got a chance with this guy i dumped. most answers told me to talk to him. and thats what i tried to do for about 3 weeks. however doing all this time he ignored me or treated me like crap. by the cold treatment i kindda got the message he didnt want anything with me anymore...
but, then some friends of ours came to talk to me, saying he still liked me but he just didn't talk to me because hes too shy. the thing is hes the most outgoing person i know..
then whats the matter with this guy? he treats me badly and then tell people he likes me but is too shy to admit???
help?

2007-08-23 13:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok y cuzzin says my bf is controllin my cuzzin iz a boy ok he says my bf is controllin cause he always want to no wher i am and wat im doing and who im with is that controllin or not

2007-08-23 13:42:22 · 1 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 13:41:57 · 25 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you look at a girl who is the most attractive to you, & then when you get up close to her (like while doing a project) you talk to every OTHER girl in the group but her & avoid eye contact with her except on rare occasions when you think she won't see you? That annoys me! Do you just hate girls? Nearly every single guy who shows interest in me does this.

2007-08-23 13:41:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok about a 1/2 month ago i hung out w/ my crush pretty much all day and my sis was there 4 a little while and told him that i liked him. So i told her to go away she was embarisng me and when she left he asked me how long i have liked him and i told him 4 a while. Later he asked me if i wanted to go on a walk that night. Ok then that night his friend came over and he said we can still go on a walk that night but when it came time to go on a walk he did not show and i went over his house w/my friends and then he said do u wanna go now and i said yea but after a while he went on and did somthing else and and ppl told me that he likes me but i dont believe it and when i told him i like him he looked like he was really happy about me saying it but he never said he feels the same way. What should i do. Does he like me or our we just friends. I want to give him my # but does that seem desperite. He could get my # easy from his mom. Why has he not made a move?

2007-08-23 13:40:14 · 6 answers · asked by The girl who needs help??!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am currently dating a divorced man. we have been together for about 5 months now. we spend a lot of time together and we enjoy each other's company. well that is wat he says, he enjoys my company and has fun with me, he says he likes me alot. his wife cheated on him while they were married and he has been divorced now for about 4 years. i am not in a rush for anything but he says he wants to take his time.he says, he feels our relationship has the potential to turn into marriage one day, he says he just needs time cuz although "he is over her, he still doesn't understand why she cheated and were things went wrong"..he is i guess still trying to work things out in his head. He is 40 and with a 7 yr old son whom i also love spending time with..i know guys express themselves differently than us and i appreciate him opening up and being honest with me.i am being patient with this cuz again there is no rush. wat is he really battling with?wat answers is he seeking?does he still luv her?

2007-08-23 13:38:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats your order?

1.Sex,
2. Money
3. Love
4. other

2007-08-23 13:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A female friend of mine knows this girl that she wants to introduce me to. My friend and I are not super close but she knows enough about me to know what I like. My friend said that her girlfriend is pretty (she is Hawaiian) and she thinks I will like her. I am kinda sketchy about the idea cause I don't want to seem like I am interested if I don't find her attractive. What are your thoughts on blind dating??

2007-08-23 13:34:31 · 3 answers · asked by $$ bLatAntLy fLagRant $$ 2 in Singles & Dating

In other words, what would a seventeen year old really enjoy?(ahem ahem)

2007-08-23 13:33:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HE IS AN OBITCHAL (CAN'T SPELL IT) LIAR
HE IS 47 YEARS OLD
HE PEES IN THE BED
HE HASNT BRUSHED HIS TEETH IN 30 YEARS
HE LOOKS UP UNUSAUL PORN
HE TALKS ABOUT PEOPLE BEHIND THEIR BACK
HE PICKS HIS NOSE AND HIS FACE AND ROLLS IT
HE THROWS DIRTY DIAPERS UNDER THE BED AFTER HE PEES IN THEM
HE SMOKES 4 PACKS OF CIGARETTES A DAY
HE DRINKS 3 POTS OF COFFEE A DAY

2007-08-23 13:32:12 · 19 answers · asked by yahoocraze 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfreind and I have been together for almost 2 years, I am in college and I have a lot of studying to do. So, I don't have a lot of time to spend with her. She says that I never go home with her when you goes to visit her parents. She kind of left it up to me to break either be with her or break up. I love her a lot and I think she loves me a lot too. But I just don't know if I should break up with her or not? I am only a junior in college and I am studying biology/premed, so I will be in school along time. What do you guys think I should do? Thanks.

2007-08-23 13:31:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever gotton mad at what some people say on this thing isnt it a little stupid.

2007-08-23 13:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by jester101 2 in Singles & Dating

So, there is this girl. She is my best friend, and I have this huge crush on her, but she doesn't know. She told me that she likes me too. The only problem is, she doesn't want a boyfriend.....ever. She's too afraid of getting hurt so she doesn't want a boyfriend or anything. Other guys asked her out and she said no, and some of these guys she liked too. I like her so much, but I don't think I can do anything about it. If you know any ways, what should I do?

2007-08-23 13:30:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do they make your life better?
And how can they keep you focused on what is important to you?

2007-08-23 13:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Luby 5 in Friends

i have been with my husband for 13 years. we have four children, one daughter died at birth. the others 5,6,9 yrs. We finally decided to get married 10 months ago, because he finally changed. he is on meds for depression and it made a world of difference. He used to be mean to me, sometimes physical, but not extreme. but he is a changed man, i thought. He told me 4 days ago he kissed someone else. He says he loves me and wants to work things out with me but i cant help but feeling he doesn't love me anymore. He has hurt me so deeply all i do is cry, i cant even function normally. someone help-he is 38 and i am 34.is it a midlife thing? is it me? how should I respond? should I 'kiss his butt" cuz thats what i want to do to make him happy, but is that the right thing? Help! i feel desparate.

2007-08-23 13:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am realy shy, and Always have been, but i cant get over it. An example would be like when I try to say things around a group of people, or people I dont know real well, i almost whisper, even if I try to speak loud. I dont have any problem with people I get to know, but new people I have trouble making friends with because I am so shy. Especially Girls, i have the worst problem with them, I have liked way too many girls and let them get away because my shyness.

Can someone please help me?

2007-08-23 13:27:22 · 1 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 13:23:55 · 11 answers · asked by R10- Barca4Ever 3 in Singles & Dating

I've met three girls recently, two while while hangin out and one on the internet. All three have sent me texts asking for a nude or d*ck pic. When did this become a non-freakish request? Do normal people do this nowadays? Where the hell have I been???

2007-08-23 13:23:53 · 8 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Singles & Dating

we broke up about 3 months ago after 6 months relationship... Reasons: 1.He stayed with his ex gf for 4 years before saying to her it was over and felt bad they both wasted time on that relationship, so he thought it was going to be the same thing with me. 2. He started telling me he loved me as a friend and he needed to feel butterflies or feel the need to do special things for me etc n didnt want me to waste my time. 3. He was a selfish b... for not letting me go to look for my own happiness cause he was sure i wouldnt be happy with him. After that we kept in touch but i realised i still have feelings for him and wouldnt be able to move on if he was still around so i stopped sms or talking to him for 1 1/2 months now. Anyways he hasnt stopped sending me sms, emails or calling asking me why i keep on doing this instead of being friends despite the fact he knows the reason. He tells me he misses me as friend and wants to talk to me, hang out with me, etc.

2007-08-23 13:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Cougar 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a guy to get an erection on a roller coaster or when an airplane is taking off?

A boy I'm dating says he does. Is he making this up?

2007-08-23 13:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've noticed that a lot of guys will seem to like me & look at me & then when we get close or have no choice but to talk to each other... they always avoid eye contact, or even talking to me for that matter. They always just talk to the other girl & look at me every now & then. Why is this?

2007-08-23 13:17:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sure there must be an alternative to marriages. I am not suggesting a moral or immoral life ... but a practical one considering today's lifestyle which shows that this institution of marriage is not working anymore.
Also we must analyse in a practical reasons the causes for divorces and heartbreaks and seek really good alternative solutions.
I think a lot has to do with security and the question of children as well.
Looking for some serious answers.

2007-08-23 13:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by prad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i know how to talk to ladys but in this language is really really hard to me. will she make fun of me? Im incredible good looking so no problem there. You like foreigners?

2007-08-23 13:11:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

him talk to his father. she is controlling and thinks she is always right. is the boy aloud to just move with his father and not worry about the mother.

2007-08-23 13:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If not, what can he/she do to make it better??

2007-08-23 13:07:46 · 22 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Marriage & Divorce