last time i asked a question i wanted to know if i still got a chance with this guy i dumped. most answers told me to talk to him. and thats what i tried to do for about 3 weeks. however doing all this time he ignored me or treated me like crap. by the cold treatment i kindda got the message he didnt want anything with me anymore...
but, then some friends of ours came to talk to me, saying he still liked me but he just didn't talk to me because hes too shy. the thing is hes the most outgoing person i know..
then whats the matter with this guy? he treats me badly and then tell people he likes me but is too shy to admit???
help?
2007-08-23 13:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you've all ready tried to talk to him & he is still treating you like crap....Even if you are shy thats no reason to treat some one that you like, like crap. I think that you should just leave him alone...Leave with whats left of your heart....If he opens his eyes/mouth then maybe he can approach you and hopefully it won't be too late...hope things go well for you!
2007-08-31 12:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jo-Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like those so called Friends that came to you and said that he likes you and is shy are not looking out for your best interest. This may be difficult for you to understand but some people don't have a life and get off watching others suffer or stirring up crap. That's what those so called friends are doing with you. Don't waste anymore time trying to get that guy back. It's over. Move on. You'll probably find someone a lot better. Oh, and dump those so called friends.
2007-08-31 16:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make one more blasted attempt and tell him to stop with the nonsense because you cannot go on forever with this crazyness and you will have to move on and be with someone else and then do just that if he keeps playing games like this. Yes he will regret it but sometimes we have to go through these things to get over our own stubbornness. Good Luck Sweety, Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-08-31 19:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not know what is wrong with him except maybe he got hooked up with a wreck like you. Try taking off about 25 pounds and watch him turn his head again.
2007-08-30 21:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Joey Michaels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this same problem !! i am so in love with this guy i was dating this guy for 2 years and everything was great !!! Well know he is dating my ex bestfriend but he tells me he wants to be with me and he calls me and tells me how he loves me but then stuff happens like he doesnt want to be with me i dunno what the hell to do i really wanna be with me him but i am sick and tired of being hurt all the damn time !! well hope we both get help hun!!
Best Of Luck!!
2007-08-31 15:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by lauren C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be shy, but if he treats you bad I wouldn't give him another chance.
2007-08-24 14:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by toromos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you dump him and know want him back ask your self those questions.
2007-08-31 10:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by mailmev2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he pretty much told you what he doesn't want and you got it the first time just let him go and find someone that is fresh and new good luck
2007-08-30 21:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes to she you keep jumping at the hope he will talk to you
2007-08-31 19:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋