What happened?
2007-08-23 16:28:11 · 37 answers · asked by Isabelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no I slept with men who belong to someone else.
I'm the mistress...
2007-08-23 16:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Confession time:
Yes. Multiple times.
No, not to my knowledge.
What happened? It's still happening and don't see an end to it. Nobody knows about it but me. The women are long out of my life; haven't seen them in over 7 years. But still I have lost so much in so many ways that I don't even know where to start. So much of myself. I've lost time and experiences with the people I love that I can never get back. I brought this pain about and I now live with it. I deserve every hardship, every difficutly, every negative emotion, every bit of pain and suffering that comes my way. My guilt is a burden that I will carry with me forever. My living hell will never end. Others do not deserve to have to share the burden I created, so I keep it to myself.
If you're thinking about cheating, think twice.
2007-08-23 16:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by JustAskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife had an affair with a woman. Man that blew my mind when I found out.
The biggest mistake I made was thinking it was a phase, and it would past. We stayed married a few more years when I should have got out right away.
I learned it was NOT my fault, and there was nothing I could do about it. I had to let her be her.
Now I am married to another woman and we have a son. The lesson I learned is life happens. Move on. Accept it and you can grow and better things will come if you just keep moving along.
2007-08-23 16:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have cheated...only once b 4 and i felt terrible about doing that to someone i cared about...but i cut the relationship off with the other guy...i never told my b/f but whenever he asked if i ever cheated i said no...and i felt so bad...and yes..i have been cheated on but i ain't trip..i just let them go and forgot about it...and moved on
2007-08-23 16:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by chika_chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a list of cheats for you. They rank from fist girl friend in high school to the ex-wife. I loved them all, and was happier to see them leave. They all got caught.
You have to look for the subtle changes.
for examples:
1. use of different vocabulary.
They will say things on the fon like maybe ditto.
2. always doing stuff with out you.
One the computer, going to the store
3. My favorite...they feel guilty so assume you have someone too.
Try to make you out to be the bad guy
4. argue a lot and constantly
2007-08-23 16:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in terms of having sex, kissing, or touching someone else I never did that. But I did go over a girls house who likes me while I was still with my girlfriend, I thought we were broken up though because we got into. So she counts that as cheating. But I don't think I did. I haven't been cheated on to my knowledge.
2007-08-23 16:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by sonyab523 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
when i was 12 ,my friend has these friends from conneticut (i live in new york) and she hooked me up with one of them and we went out and after like 6 or 7 days i found out he was cheating on me for 3 days on some girl. so i got really mad so i went out with one of his best friend while i was still going out with him, just to get him back. and then he found out later on that day and he got a little mad but didnt really care cuz he thought he deserved it. and then a year later i found out that he had a kid and never told me a bout her. (true story) the kid was with the girl he cheated on me with. and now the baby is 3 and i'll be 14 in a few weeks.
2007-08-23 16:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on and it destroyed our relationship of 12 years.
2007-08-23 16:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by geminijeanna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on and like yeah i broke up with him after crying my eyes out lol and like yeah of course i got over it and we are still really good friends
2007-08-23 16:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ellanoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sides here. I did it because it was done to me. So, that puts me on both sides. As far as what happened? About 10 years later we divorced but we are still good friends and we can talk to each other about things that we are not comfortable talking to anyone else about. Sounds STUPID I know.
2007-08-23 16:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was cheated on throughout my pregnancy with my first child (but was too stupid to realize it until 8mths. after my daughter was born.) it really f#cked me up, i have trust issues that cause problems in my marriage (not the same man) because I'm so afraid of feeling that worthless, betrayed feeling. like you don't even matter, it can dehumanize you.
2007-08-23 16:35:51 · answer #11 · answered by paula t. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋