Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years now, and he ask me if I was ready to have sex with him. I love him, and I wanna make him happy, but I'm a virgin. So, can anyone help me, and give me any ideas please?!
2007-08-23 16:10:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so how old are u... every gal sud be atleast over 20 b4 they have their first sexual experience or else it will be very uncomforable for them and stuff... u have to consider the number of diesase that are there not only Aids but woman dieases like thrush and discharge and viginal yeast that a girl can get thru sexs... u have to m ake up ur own mind if u are ready or not and if u are old enuf to take care of urslef wen u get these dieases cos i m telling u from experince that guys wont be there to hold ur hands wen u go to get test done or go to the doctors to gets swaps and papsmear done , u will have to go thru all these alone and sometimes it becomes scary and frustrating.. so i u are not ready dont do it... if u guys have been togather for 3 years without sexs than u can wait another year ot so... u have to realize that once u start having sexs ur boyfriend wont treat u like a princess like he does now, he wont apprecaite nething u do for him, he wont love u like before cos the only thing that will be in his mind wil be sexs and sexs alone... he might not know the way he treats but u will feel unappreciated and unloved..
so think carefully..
2007-08-23 16:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! Congratulations on not having sex for 3 years in the relationship!
You love him, and you are a virgin, but just because you love him, you can't just give up your virginity just to make him happy. It's your personal choice. If you are absolutely ready to have sex with him, then you can give it a go. If not, then don't. It's your personal choice. It's your body, and your virginity is special, and you can't let other people influence what you think is best for you (and the special man that you would give your virginity to.) Think about it very carefully so that you won't have any regrets.
Good luck and I wish you the best!
2007-08-23 16:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the biggest question he can come up with after 3 years Forget Him, honey. Now! I mean it! If you loved each other, you would have been ready for sex after the third date. If you're Christians or something, he would ask you to marry him. What he's inviting you into (oh, how bold and creative!) is endless nothingness! Get rid of the babysitter, say "goodbye" if you're feeling polite, then1) do some interesting, adventurous things with your girl friends or yourself, and 2) give a real man a chance. Do Not Ever Go Out With This Loser Again. He has told you who he really is. Now be the girl you want to be.
2007-08-23 16:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 Years.... ask him if he's ready to marry you?
Sex is not an object after 3 years.... Maybe you should get at least "engaged" if he is serious...
There are many ways to make a man happy, beside intercourse... Perhaps you should tell him exactly how you feel... and, of course, you will see that love is not "sex"...
Ask him if he is ready for a family... and take it from there...
I personally prone the NO SEX before marriage.... Many reasons to that, and seek your heart and your mind ....
Good Luck....
2007-08-23 16:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you are ready or not but I can say that I'm pretty sure he does love you since he has been with you for 3 years.
2007-08-23 16:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if your boyfriend loves you he will wait untill you are ready. I know you want to make him happy but what about you. if you are not ready then dont. When the time is right it will happen
2007-08-23 16:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by julie n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that asking other people is the right thing to do. I think that you should just ask yourself if you are ready and if you are willing to loose your virginity. In the end its your choice. Don't let others decide.
2007-08-23 16:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Miggie #44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then say "no" After three years of dating he should be asking you to marry him
Kandygirl007
2007-08-23 16:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're old enough.
You can only have sex when you're ready, not when you're pressured or scared. If you're ready and he really loves you and cares for you then go for it. I think three years prove that he truly cares about you, but you're virginity is precious its your choice.
2007-08-23 16:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you? that kind of makes a difference. and how old is he. unless you're absolutely sure that you're gonna wait for marriage, i would consider it. especially since he just now asked you after 3 years. but if he's pressuring you tell him that isnt gonna make it happen any faster. hope this isn't confusing
2007-08-23 16:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by *~Jessica~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋