We have been in a relationship for almost 9 months now. She dated my best friend right before me, and during that whole time me and her were very close friends. When he broke up with her, she got very depressed, and then me and her started living togethor and soon after that decided to start dating. I basically live at her house now, with her parents, and 2 brothers. We sleep in the same bed, but we've never done anything sexual. Before we both got jobs, we basically spent all day every day together, even though we haven't ever been on a real date.
2007-08-23 19:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most of the time we are doing stuff away from the house, it is with other people. and when we are at her house, her whole family is there. we've slept in the same bed for 9 months, but that is it. I don't know why you wouldn't believe that nothing sexual is happening. Neither of us have ever had sex, and she wouldn't want to do things with her whole family in the same house
2007-08-23 20:07:26 · update #1
that is not weird, if you feel at ease and you like that, then there is nothing wron with it, i could go far as to say that is responsible and sweet.
2007-08-23 19:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you havent ever been on a real date but surely you have done lots of fun things together like seeing movies and having picnics just like any friends would - if you think back to these situations you spent with your girlfriend you realise that these times you spent with her are actually dates but they just came naturally cos you guys are so close anyway. i have to say i find it a bit odd you have been together for 9 months, sleep in the same bed, but havent done anything sexual - is it a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship or are you guys just good friends? summing up; all relationships are different, every couple thinks "are we weird?", and what is "normal" anyway? therefore i suppose no, you dont have a weird relationship
2007-08-23 19:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.......
Well.....Its not at all Weird......U have a very special relationship.U guys are really lucky to have each other and U Especially Are being blessed by a very Good Friend with Good Parents as well.
Wat u need a date for Ur whole life is a big sweet Date....Enjoy it!!!...Be truth-full to her and Love her With all Ur heart....
God Bless.
Take Care.
2007-08-23 20:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular actual she will, alongside with you, reason unconscience psychological set backs in this courting. I had this take place in a courting as quickly as I reported to my boyfriend (yrs in the past), "i can not have faith how happy we are, it is too solid to be genuine". I undergo in suggestions gazing him and that i've got been given a chilly chill out i can not clarify it even though it grew to become into like I threw a bucket of chilly water on us. We have been superb yet fact hit him at that 2d i think of. We stayed mutually for afew years after that polarizing 2d even though it slowly went down hill and we broke up after being mutually 10 yrs. So I do comprehend what you have reported right here. Now, my suggestion is this to help you....take a seat down and have a effective solid heart to heart communicate together with her on what your feeling. reason is the cat is out of the bag in this subject rely so which you will no longer communicate approximately it is going to easily foster further and extra. See your no longer suitable and he or she "thinks" you're so the only way now's down. superb element to do is tell her, "i'm no longer suitable, I relish you questioning so, i'm a guy who loves you". as quickly as I married > I married my superb chum it is the excellent suggestion i could desire to provide somebody. by way of fact a superb chum takes years to supply and that person incredibly is attentive to you properly. solid and undesirable. that's what you like > no suprises so as that way you will stay mutually....by using thick and skinny. undergo in suggestions that a solid courting has united statesand downs it is not nirvana or heaven or a perpetual honeymoon everynight. yet whilst solid issues take place you sense that connection like what you stated be taught to easily relish it share that feeling mutually...yet comprehend it does not final all the time....it fairly is fact. ok. consult together with her approximately what I reported. relish the solid "nirvana" cases mutually yet comprehend perfection is impossible to maintain all the time. solid success my chum :)
2016-10-09 03:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by kinart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have never asked her for a date ? Why not try asking someday ? IF you dare !
2007-08-23 19:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by john need account 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would live somewhere else, you are living too close to the edge.
2007-08-23 20:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by danman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda like your best girlfriends rather than a couple.
2007-08-23 19:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two have a cute relationship, I want one like that.
It's not weird.
2007-08-23 19:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different. But who am I to judge?
2007-08-23 19:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as you are happy, who cares what we think?
what works for you may not work for us.
2007-08-23 19:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋