boyfriend of 6 months
says he loves me
when im angry says he doesnt want to lose me
takes care of me
makes future plans
drives 30miles sometimes to pick and drop me
has introduced me to friends and told parents about us
but
is bad on calling (calls at a calculated alternate days)
just told me he wants to call me when he has alot of free time so he can talk to me in peace instead of calling everyday
does this sound fishy?? im plannin to confront him today about this??
2007-08-23 19:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by cassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't smother him. He treats you right but isn't available as much as you want? He needs some space, too! Let him have it or you will lose him.
2007-08-23 19:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "fishy" thing there is, why would he want to call you when he has a lot of free time? Surely he'd be with you then wouldn't he? I'm surprised no-one picked up on that.
When you next meet, ask him where you're going as a couple, and what course does he think your relationship is taking. I'm sure you'll get a clearer view if you TALK together, don't speculate eh?
2007-08-24 03:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your a wally! There's nothing wrong with him wanting to call you when he has time! If you confront him he'll leave you! I think you should get a bit of perspective in your life! I guess your very young! If that's the case, 6 months is far too long to be with the same guy any way! Get rid, go travelling and have a better life!
2007-08-24 03:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only "bad" thing you've mentioned is that he wants to call you when he is free to talk to you in his otherwise busy life.
He is giving you his quality time and yet you've made it sound like a complaint.
Ask him about it by all means but it sounds like he's doing a lot for you.
It seems you may have trust issues you need to think about.
2007-08-24 02:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You you you, it's all about you. He does stuff for you, doesn't cheat, says he loves you and his actions prove it, but that isn't enough! Now he has to "prove" his love all the time by calling you on some schedule. What if he changes and starts calling you all the time? Will that be enough, or are there going to be more demands for "proof?"
You need to appreciate what you have here, and bear in mind that real men don't stand around talking about their love - their actions speak for themselves. If his love isn't enough for you, then a few phone calls aren't going to help you and your emotional demands.
2007-08-24 02:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to ask yourself are u in love with him also ?. the phone calling should be anytime from anywhere if he really does love ya. no boundaries on that or time line on phone calls. if hes to busy to talk to you id be wondering also ?. wazzup sucka ?. do some surprise stuff on him show up you know see if all is as normal as it seems???.
i talk to my Lady all the time a few hours seems like 20 Min's i even tuck her in at night Fun lol, we got it happening i think, cuzz i ain't talking with anyone else right.
Be Happy!!!
2007-08-24 03:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by GREG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men only talk when they have something worth saying. This may take a day or so to accumulate sufficient "interesting" things to talk to you about.
Unlike women who will chatter endlessly about utter cr@p.
2007-08-24 06:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes you. He may just be very busy as he says. Hope you two make a good couple
2007-08-24 02:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by superme45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he doesnt sound that fishy, I think he is just really bold.
If you confront him, just ask questions, don't be too presumptious
2007-08-24 02:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by danman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be cheap and he may be telling the truth ---- trust him and dont confront just talk to him
2007-08-24 02:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋