I have been in a relationship for two years with this girl ever since she was a toddler. Im 22 she is 17.We are madly in love with each other and we have tried severally to break up but we just can’t. We go out more often. I have bought her presents but we have never had sex. She asks money from me and she has gone to the extent that she demands bucks from me every time im paid. Her reason being I should act like a man who can be responsible for her woman. Is she for real? What do I do coz this money issue seems to be compromising our relationship?
2007-08-23 18:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by denis i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK whoah!
>> Her reason being I should act like a man who can be responsible for her woman <<
Wow . . . .well if she doesn't see the point in being invloved with you unless you PAY HER, then that would make her a common "WHORE" . . . wouldn't you say???
>> I have bought her presents but we have never had sex <<
. . . and even WORSE . . . a whore would has NO INTENTION of acting like a whore to EARN IT!
LOL!!!!
Dude . . . the next time she hold her hand out and says "act like a man who can be responsible for his woman" . . .
SAY -->> "LOL!!! If being a man means giving you my money . . . then be a woman and EARN IT!"
God, who programmed that girl????????
"BEING A MAN" does NOT mean --> GIVE WOMEN YOUR MONEY. If you don't believe me, I will be happy to explain it to HER.
You're not "being a man" . . . you're being a WUSSY.
She has you programmed ALL WRONG.
DO NOT BE OK WITH IT.
Seriously man . . . I cannot believe what you just said here. OF COURSE she doesn't want to break up with you. Are you listening to yourself???
She expects you to be resonsible for your woman.
You buy her sh*T and give her money when you get paid.
She is not interested in giving you ANYTHING. . .
SO WHERE IS THE QUESTION???????????????
Dump her NOW.
:)
2007-08-23 19:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think its either she has the concept of you must always provide her with the cash for her needs because you're her bf or that she just want to be with you for your money and save her own for other stuffs...
You said you were both madly in love and that she should be more understanding towards this money issue.. Try asking her to pay for a day's out and see what's her response.. Tell her that yes a guy should be more gentleman and pay for stuffs when they go out but not to the extent of every single time or even demanding everytime you got your pay..this is quite ridiculous to me..
2007-08-23 18:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by jacquesLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if she could technically be called a gold digger, but i think you are being badly used.
since you break up and get back together, pay attentiaon to the order and timing next time.
How soon after she fets back together with you does she ask for money???? Less than a day? Then she is in a relationship with your money.
Please note - if you do get more serious or married, this will not get better; it will get worse.
2007-08-23 18:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's review the fact (because only one fact here is important)
She asks you for money every time you get paid, to such an extent that she DEMANDS it now so that you can prove to her that you are a responsible man?
Holy s**t dude, get a cup of coffee and WAKE UP!!
Yeah, she's a gold digger allright.
2007-08-23 18:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Michael H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may be. Plus she's 17. And she probably want her hair done and clothes and stuff. Its okay to give her money SOMETIMES and by her presents. But I agree that shouldn't be all the time. You are being the man paying and buying are stuff. But you should ask her to treat you out sometimes. Good luck! And it sounds like love. But just she likes the word money.
2007-08-23 18:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? You tell her she'ss behaving like a gold digger with the wrong attitude. You tell her you want a self sufficient strong woman who you would WANT to share your life with. Not a whiney bludger.
2007-08-23 18:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her off for awhile and if she is just using you for your money you will soon know because she will break up with you & if she does she wasn't worth having to begin with.
2007-08-23 18:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by lunatic_no9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a woman (or girl in this case) DEMANDS you give her money? Do the Math and dump her ***.
2007-08-24 00:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by {}Chris{} 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA HA. Dude, grow a set. Tell that Digger to take a hike. You ain't gettin' any, but you are still paying for it? Sh.t. Wake up, dude.
2007-08-23 18:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i seems as tho ur relationship is based on money.
n if thats all she wants from u is money,
she is not the girl for u.
2007-08-23 18:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by jigga_0824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋