My parents have had a complicated marriage,my dad cheated like 4 times in the past but is now determined to make it right again I know in my heart he will never cheat but him and my my mom got seperated for a month. They got back together trying to work out there marriage but my mom is now in love with another guy and my dad is slowly finding more and more about what's going on. On there anniversery my dad got her a big gift,steak dinner,baloons,flowers and cards but my mom brought him nothing while on that other guys birthday she sent him a email wishing him happy birhtday. What should I do to help(don't say divorce).
2007-08-23 19:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing. Those emotions will not respond to your intervention.
2007-08-23 20:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your whole story never said if they paid any attention on you but this is now a big situation. if i were you i would either have a family talk and make them remember how good it was when they got married and had you or talk to them individually and tell both of what the hell is the ******* mater with you you had me and you loved each other tell them that and dude i had a simmilar situation with my grandpa uncle and dad so your not the only one i feel your pain my mom is divorced but i still see my dad on weekends so it is a bit okay so keep my advice oh yeah and tell off that damn ******* boy friend of your mom and tell him to stay away from your family you dont want him to ruin your parents relation ship sorry for the swearing
2007-08-24 03:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by sol-republic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yap, you are the bond - make your power work.
You can start by saying good things about our dad to your mom when your father is not around.
You can tell your mom that you are growing up and everybody is getting older and wiser and that you know that she has a boyfriend - with a disgust. Remember, it is just a fake disgust, you just want her to know that her affair is breaking your heart and she should know that it is wrong.
You can tell her that she is hurting you buy having a boyfriend and yet living with you and your dad. That you don't want to be learning all these cheating from both of them.
2007-08-24 03:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by earth angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's only fair for your mother to have someone to love after what she has been thru with your dad,if your mother is happy with the guy and doesn't want to make things work with your father,there is absolutely nothing u can do but for now sit down and talk to your mother and ask her exactly what she wants,then take it from there cos at the end of the day it's her call to make,i am sorry for what you going thru i know it's every child's happiness to see their parents together and happy but on the other hand no child wants to see their parents miserable with each.
2007-08-24 03:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to help...i went through the same thing with my parents...until my dad decided it was better to just leave....i begged them not to but it had to be done...so what I'm trying to say is...you just have to let them work it out and if it doesn't work then you just have to deal with whatever happens because honestly there's nothing you can do.
2007-08-24 03:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are powerless over your parents relationship. You can not change them. You can just love each of them and stay out of their problems. Nothing you can do, well you can pray for them, that's the best and only thing you can do.
2007-08-24 03:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hun, but you can't help. This is a situation your parents got into without you, and it is something they are going to have to figure out alone. Just try to hang in there.
2007-08-24 03:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋