I feel really guilty right now, i was thinking back to when my dad died.........
and i didnt get to tell him how i felt, all i could grasp from the thoughts in my head was, something along the lines of i love you, and i think its time to let go and drift to a better place.......
but i feel so guilty, i mean i....i......i dont know i feel like the devil or something, its deep you know.......
so should i feel guilty about that?
2007-08-23 21:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no way. guilt is the first step to depression, you dont want to go back. everyone dies eventually, its the mortal way of life. you said what you thought of, and he knows what you really meant. it just works that way.
much love, sabrina
2007-08-24 03:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina Devareoux 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.'you're not guilty.,i think what you are feeling right now are just full of regret.,i mean.,cOz all that runs into your mind are just the thoughts that you should've said and done while he was still living.,feeling guilty means.,you are guilty because you are the reason why your own dad died.,that's it.,guilty is different from regret in the first place.,unless.,you did something that's why he died.,in such manner you must feel guilty.,but in your case i don't think you should.,you're just regreting.,for not doing the things you should've done..,
2007-08-24 04:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by charm alvarez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That shows you've grown up.Move on and prove to your dad that u love him although hes gone.Do the rite things now rather than just feeling guilty.He'll be proud and happy to know that you've made it in life however he's gonna feel sad and disappointed if he knows you're feelin sad n guilty about his death doing nothing else.
Brave up,face it although its not gonna be easy.
2007-08-24 04:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Andy l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some kids have a hard time opening up to their parents. I'm one of those. Only time in the past like 10 years me and my parents told eachother we loved eachother was when they visited me in jail. ;^)
But anyway, it does no good to dwell on it, so just chill out and try to forget. Don't watch the movie Click. ;^)
2007-08-24 04:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by dawgdart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, your father knew just by the way you looked to him when you needed him. Parents just know. I know I do, even when my children are angry with me. You really have no need to feel guilty.
2007-08-24 04:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋