2007-08-23 21:26:36 · 53 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-08-23 21:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by sutiluspendragon 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You know every one saying, dump them, It may sounds like a good thing to do at first, because you upset. But the question to ask yourself ,what provoke this to happen?was it any obstacles in the way at the time,was u separated. If you been with this guy for a while and you really love him. Discuss the problem at first. find out what made it happen,Its very hard to find a good man out here. Most guys are cheaters but there are good men. If he wasn't all that bad, and he didn't beat on you, went out every other night. Give him a chance. Like the old saying. first time-it was a mistake, Second time-the ball didnt make ,but 3 strikes baby "GET OUT MY DOOR", and thats foreal. At least you can say you tried, and he will have that guilt on his mind for messing up in the relationship.At the same time let him know you mean business.It a way to handle these men, we can reverse it, and show them the real players.... Halla back
2007-08-23 21:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok normally l too would say dump them, but depends on the circumstances, if it was just for the hell of it and no self control, yes get rid of them, if you were split up or under the impression, maybe a second chance, you need to decide what you want out of life and how you want to live it and if you can trust this person again, good luck
2007-08-23 21:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by t.s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, once they start cheating they will continue to do so. There are a few exceptions, but those are the kind that are truly in love and are afraid to lose you. They are angry with themselves, not just upset because you caught them. Be careful that you are not fooled. Just follow your instincts. If you think that he is cheating, do some investigation. Don't sit back and wait until he trips up. You could be sitting alone for awhile.
2007-08-23 21:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't matter. They will eventually continue cheating. If you want to look dumb, go ahead and give them a second chance. If you want to keep your pride, then dump them. Cheaters NEVER change, they just look for new ideas to keep it on the down low.
2007-08-23 21:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you married, engaged, or just seeing each other routinely?
Don't view it as "cheating"; view it as an opportunity to cast your social net upon the community. Meet someone new ... have lunch. Attend a few social events until you find someone that shares your values...such as exclusive dating. It will be much easier to deal with ... than abruptly ending your social relationship with your friend. Abstain from any risk of STDs, of course. If you believe that he/she was intimately engaging with someone else, get screened or get them to be screened. You do not want someone else's "bugs" on the heels of your advanced romance. Cool it with Romeo until someone more deserving of your loyalty and discretion is available.
Unless you are engaged or married to the person, technically there is no legal recourse.
2007-08-23 21:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With relationships I don't buy a second chance, why will I cheat on my partner. WHY!!? This is someone who can really betray you if you are not going to be careful and may be you'll have spend a lot of your time with him or her and on top sold your name with him/her everywhere. Straight away drop him/her.
2007-08-23 21:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, did you push him into such a senario, after all a guy cheating is just how guys break up in relationships, there too afraid to tell the woman their with that they don't enjoy being with them anymore. Really how many guys have sat down with you and said were growing seperate ways vs guys that have just stopped answering your phone calls or cheated.
2007-08-23 21:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably get rid of them. I was with this girl for a long time. Loved her and all. She even wrote me in jail and waited for me. But I still cheated on her even after all that. Some men just love women too much and they can't resist.
Once a cheater, always a cheater... I used to never believe that until I became one.
2007-08-23 21:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by dawgdart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this, but no matter how much i think i could make the relationship still work, i'll have to give that person up. u started a relationship with someone based on trust.ur partner did not earn it, it was already given. but once he/she has cheated, i believe they need to earn your trust back, & if dumping the person would make it more worthwhile for he/she to prove their love back to u, then let him/she work for it. afterall, u deserve the best
2007-08-23 21:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump them straight away. Its funny this guys chance with you seems to be pending on a few answers your getting on here. Makes me chuckle.
2007-08-23 21:29:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋