hi, there
my bf is now back to his country coz his dad is very sick i respect that but we made a committment that we both gonna work in canada together. he's from indonesia and i am from thailand. i am waiting for here in canada and i want him to come bk but i know its selfish to say that when his dad is very sick ..but i am missing him and am so afraid if he wont come bk anymore for whatever reason. i try to stick with the fact but i still hav some hope if he could come bk ...i always told me i wil come bk after things settle down but his dad's sickness got worsen...i miss him though...we didnt even had chance to go travel together nor anything special...
2007-08-23 21:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by LC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the price you have to pay... when you're dealing a long distance relationship.
It's will only result in to two things... 1st If he will come back to you then there would be no problem at all, but what he didn't?
Then you have to prepare yourself too on the that scenario starting right now.
Have you ever heard the phrase.." If you love someone set it free if he comes back then he is yours and if he will not come back then you were not meant to be."
What will you do? How long should you wait?
As long as he still calls you ... I think there's still hope..
But if seldom calls you... and you can no longer the feel the love in his voice then you should accept that fact that the chance of having him back is getting dimmer.
But you don't have to nag him about that...keep it to yourself.
I known people who have separated by war during their twenties and met again after a decade and they still got married, now they have a big family.
Don't worry to much about him ... you still have life don't you? Besides, If you were meant for each other I'm sure he will be back.
God speed.
2007-08-23 22:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know his dad is really sick.? Just a thought.
Long distance stuff is difficult. Especially if you really never got to be close and bond. Loosen up and date till he gets back.
2007-09-01 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you he would be back and he will be. his dad is on his mind right now let him have peace and not worry about you. this is his dad and hes got thelp or whatever and if you interfer it will not be good.
2007-08-30 22:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think...ahh..nevermind...it depends in you...dont ask us...do u think u trust him??if yes then trust him!!..but u should not fully trust him until u meet and know him well...u know wat i mean right?
2007-09-01 04:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋