if their son or daughter had just recently know as part of the third sex?
2007-08-23 22:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A parent's love is supposed to be unconditional. They aren't supposed to care what other people think as long as their child is happy.
2007-08-23 23:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is the "third sex" again? I didn't get that part. If you mean homosexuality, a parent accepts that they have a lesbian or gay son or daughter the same way they accept one who decides to be an actor instead of go into the family business.
They love the little so-and-so's! Don't ever stop loving your children because they're not like you... you just never know when they may need you again, and need you to teach them how to be a bit like you if they want that in the future.
Just remember they never will BE you, and you should be happy about that! You have raised someone strong enough to strike out on their own in life.
Keep in touch, with love.
2007-08-23 23:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by LK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a gay or a lesbian is not a choice, you are born with that. It is very much biological. It has been going on since man has ever existed. The parent need to understand that the sexual orientation of the child is avery essential part if the child. People dont understand gays and lesbians because they fail to understand the biology. Anybody educated and understanding enough must understand that. Gays and lesbians are at much higher risk of suicide than straight people, plainly because they are afraid to come out of their hiding and are afraid to tell everyone about their sexual orientation.
Anybody who has a gay or a lesbian child must understand this and support the child.
2007-08-24 01:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's harder for a parent to not have to have any turbulence at all at the news of their gay son/lesbian daughter.
2016-05-21 05:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by lovie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a parent just recently found out that their child is gay, that parent must remember that the child hasn't changed, just that the parents perception has changed. The child is the same person that they were the day before the parent found out. It is a part of the child, but it does not define that child. Love them as you did before you found out.
2007-08-23 23:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by moonlightnroses2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I came out to my parents it was no surprise to them. Yet my mother couldn't accept it. Over the years my mother has learned to "accept" not necassarily agree with my lifestyle, but she loves me just the same. I saw how hard it was for her, but I never gave up hope that she would still love me every single day. She does because I am her child and parent's love their children even though they may not agree with the choices we make in life.
2007-08-24 05:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. this is a good question because I'm les an I just recently told my parents an my dad was aiight wit it but my mom doesnt like it. but the way I see it is, whoever your with or you decide to be with..if you really love them an care about them, **** what your parents has to say cause its YOUR life an if that person makes you happy then do YOU cause your the one that has to deal with it NOT YOUR PARENTS!
2007-08-24 02:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If parents have found out about their child being gay they should becareful to not judge their child. Treat him or her just like any other human being because it is still a human being and who he or she is attracted to, does not matter. There is nothing wrong with being gay, just accept it. Some girls dont like to be around lesbians because they think that because those girls are lesbian they might like them. That is total bullshit. Lesbians dont like all girls, they just like girls, and its not just because you're wiht a lesbian that they'll like you. My point is i hope tat you dnt think like that towards your child, they're not going to fall in love with you or any of their sibblings.
one more thing, just dnt treat it any different, they're still normal and dont be ashamed about it, love him or her, they're still ur son or daughter, there is nothing wrong with being gay.
good luck
hope i helped.
2007-08-23 23:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love and accept your child anyway. But make sure they KNOW you support them and love them. Do whatever you can to help your child when they need it. Just be behind them 110% of the way.
2007-08-23 23:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents should always love their children unconditionally. If they turn their backs on their children, they will miss out on the best years of their life.
2007-08-24 00:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋