How old do you think is too old? I'm currently 26 and I'm a male and I've never had a gf. Do you thanks that's too late? I'm beginning to wonder if anything will ever happen.
It's probably just me. I think the two major things is that I'm not really the best looking and I'm really shy. Is the ability to talk well really that important? And what about looks?
Another thing though too is I've never been able to tell if a girl is interested and I've never had the gut's to ask, which is why I've probably never had a girlfriend.
But I've also aways thought it might be best to know for sure if there interested so that they don't feel like they're obligated to date someone they didn't care for. I've thought it might be better for them to come to me. Or is that where I'm playing wrong.
I don't know, I'm really clueless when it comes to this. Does anyone have any suggestions? Please help.
2007-08-23 23:27:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be desperate, because that will ruin your chance of finding love. Desperation steals confidence and strength, so strike that from you life.
Get involved with a support group and make some friends that are girls and ask them to help you out with wardrobe and give you a makeover, it WILL help because they know what looks good, once you find some girls to help you they wont let you fail... ITS NEVER TOO LATE, relax and ENJOY life dont be afraid to take chances with women, because you'll never know what will happen if you dont take that first step... oh yeah and EVERYONE gets rejected some time or another, its a part of finding "the one", its sucks, but hey you will no be alone if you experience it... good luck
2007-08-23 23:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by smashingtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you should do is take some risks because anything can happen and if you were to lose you life tomoroow you would regret never having tried to get a girl. Looks a little bit important but not extremly, as long as ur shaved, nice looking like clean and all, there shouldnt be that big of a problem. I think you should get out there and go to clubs or pubs and talk to ppl. I've heard that sometimes drink a glass of some kinda alcohol kinda makes you a lil more relaxed and less shy. Talk to girls, get ur friends to hook you up...
good luck just get out there, you'll find osmeone
its destiny.
2007-08-23 23:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually comes when you least expect it.
I will advise you to watch women's eyes. If they glance at you just a little too long, it would be to your advantage to acknowledge them by telling the good morning, making a comment about the weather, or how nice they look.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you don't try, how can you ever succeed. If you think waiting on them to come to you will work, you will be waiting a long time. So what if you get shot down a time or two. Once day that special girl will say yes, and make you a very happy man. Good Luck, you sound like a great catch!!!
2007-08-23 23:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late with the right person,
but your not going to get anywhere if your
going around searching for the right girl,
you have to let her come to you.
Until then, you seem like a really nice guy,
so just have fun. Find a cute girl,
if you like her, you can obviously find a few
things you like about her, and tell her.
If you think she looks great, tell her.
She'll think it's flattering. But don't go too
crazy or she'll be weirded out.
You can't just go from never having a girlfriend
to finding the right girl, you have to play the field
and learn what girls you like and don't like.
You can't find the one if you don't know who
else is out there; always keep your eyes open.
2007-08-23 23:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by samantha2840 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to need a few girls to totally evaluate everything from your looks to your manner of speaking, sorry to say it but your going to need some experience, it may take several girlfriends for you to see your strong and weak points. I understand you havent had * any girlfriends but its going to take awhile for you to find your girl. Send a photo and I will be as honest as possible, and describe your likes and dislikes and I can try to help you put something together to focus on. Everyone has something great to talk about, and a feature that nobody else can compete with. Just have to figure out what you have honey. :) -Rachel.
2007-08-23 23:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that shy??? You have to flirt with the girls. We don't like to be the "hunters" in the seduction game. Start asking girls out. If they say no, it's their loss...not yours. you can't spend your entire life sitting on a bench and waiting for the perfect girl to drop from the sky. Get to action :P Good luck. If you wanna talk more, contact me :)
2007-08-23 23:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by yoyo_kiss_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it makes u feel better my 28 year old friend has never had a bf. u just havent found the right person for u. ur gonna have to step it up dude. talking is very important but looks dont matter to me. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2007-08-23 23:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl you want is probably waiting for you to make the first move. put yourself out there, if they say yes, fantastic, if not... well, you'll just get a little more braver each time. 26 is not too old. the time will come.
2007-08-23 23:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can come in 5 min 2 hours tommrow 3 years
you'll never know till it hits you
2007-08-24 00:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will come when you totally feel desperate about its arrival time to you.
2007-08-23 23:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋