Okay so here's the situation. I have a huge crush on my older brother's best friend. Haha I know laugh it up! Well everytime I see him like when he comes to our house and stuff he looks at me a lot and finds small ways to get close to me or touch me. He always says you smell really good, and one time he said that and said how do I smell and he hugged me and I was so embarresed cause I turned really red. And he almost walked in my room when I was changing for a basketball game LOL. And one time he was at my house to make a poster for something so I started helping him and he kept "acidently" bumping my hand! And he told my mom he wants me to meet his sister this year and that when I start high school he will be friends with me too and get me lots of them. He is older than me though and has a girlfriend who's REALLY UGLY even though I think he's really really HOT so AHH I'm so confused what is going on here. Does he like me or is he just a really nice guy?...
2007-08-27 11:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea and since the school year started he's still always sneaking up on me in the hallways and stuff and flirting with me..but he hugs his ugly girlfriend after school usually but says to my brother that he thinks she will break up with him for one of their there other friends..ahh i don't know what to do what do you think..will he ever come out and say he likes me..or am i out of my mind..
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2007-08-27 11:56:22 · update #1
oh yeah i guess i should say more lol. well he was at my house today and he was drinking a soda right? and then he hands it to me and says want some?..so not trying to be weird i just took it and well..did. i feel like a sslut for doing that..i never did anything with a boy before so i'm kinda excited about this....but i don't know sometimes it feels like he doesn't like me or care i'm there when i'm with him and all of my brothers friends. but then he will encourage me too talk more or tell one of my stories and i'll be too shy but just smile a lot..ahh sorry for so much writing..but why not if it can help you decide right?..anyway you guys thankyou so much for all these answers its making me so happy! and its okay if you think he doesn't like me just tell me what you think..i mean if your reading this you probably read everything so..i'll shut up now..hehehehe
2007-08-27 12:11:45 · update #2
It could be that this guy. is trying to find some one else since his girl will break up with him. by the way it sounds he does indeed like you. you should take advantage of this if you like. him. maby look in his eyes when he "accidentally" bumbs your hand. tease him a little ya know
2007-08-27 12:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by jonbird1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for whether he "likes you" or not, but I can pretty well guarantee he's noticing you...and not necessarily in a healthy way. Sweetie...he is older than you. In the future, it won't be such a big deal, but right now it is. Please don't let yourself be in a situation where he can do anything inappropriate. It's a scary place to be, and just because he's your big brother's best friend doesn't mean he'll respect you. He is definitely "putting the moves" on you. Just keep it cool and reasonably friendly and don't ever be alone with this boy. He's old enough to know better, but it sounds like he doesn't care. Plus...as you said, he has a girlfriend. If he'll try and mess around on her, he'll do it to others. (My daughter went through something very, very similar to this when she was 12 and my son's 18 year-old best friend wanted to date her. At the time, she wanted to be with him too, but thankfully, she took the time to step back and think about it. She knew he'd want sex, so she decided not to be with him. After he got another girl pregnant, she was very glad she made the choice she did).
2007-08-27 19:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Grainne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just being a typical guy and flirting with you, I don't think it means anything really. Especially considering he has a girlfriend....so while he might be flirting with you...it might be "innocent" and he might not even mean anything by it.
Also I'm sure his girlfriend is "ugly" that's what every girl says when they like a guy who is taken by someone else. Are you jealous of her because she is dating your crush?
Well if you want to know, speak up and ask him or your brother.
The worst he can say is no.
......and I'm hoping there isn't a HUGE age gap between you two either, because you don't need to get him into legal trouble.
good luck.
2007-08-27 18:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm just curious as to why he keeps on trying to get a physical contact with you. he is older than you, you said.. so just be careful. and if he has a girlfriend he shouldn't really be trying to get too close to another girl.
i'm just not so sure with the whole trying to touch thing. but he might also like you. try to spark up a conversation without touching, etc. conversation is a good way of really knowing someone. avoid getting physical, until you are sure of what's going on between you both and his good will to you.
2007-08-27 19:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by miss w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ow wow. He DEFINITELY likes you, no question. I've read countless times that one of the biggest signs that a guy likes you is that he tries getting physically close to you (or tries "accidentally" touching you.) And he even thinks you smell good haha! Yes, he is physically attracted to you, shows interest in you, and likes you. Go for it and Good Luck!
2007-08-27 18:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Janet P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just messing with your head. guys suck.
I was living with my (guy) cousin last year and he'd have his friends come over and then when I went back to live with my mom, I came to visit my aunt and him, and he was like "Hey, you know why *Jim was hitting you all the time right?" and I of course denyed it saying I had no idea what he was talking about, So he was like "He was just trying to sorta freak you out." It kinda pissed me off and made me feel like poop.
* name changed
Good luck:]
2007-08-27 18:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should just ask him.
He sounds like he's flirting with you but he could be just a natural flirt. If I were you I would just put it out there and ask him straight out.
2007-08-27 18:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by gocryemokid18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. YEAH!! BUt don't make the first move yet let him make the first move. His girlfriend might get jealous.
P.S. That boy is sending major signals!
2007-08-27 18:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by bostongal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a GF, so he is being very nice to you. Unless he doesn't have a GF, do not get into the drama of being the "other one."
2007-08-27 18:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish there was an age limit on here... I feel like I am doing something illegal everytime I'm on here...
2007-08-27 18:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Yates M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋