I think my husband is cheating, please help!
2007-08-27 15:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by Frog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I use to work for a private investigator who told me he made most of his money from proving what people already know. The fact is if your gut tells you he is cheating then most likely he is. Just keep your eyes and ears open, because he will show his hand soon enough. The truth always comes out. You can bury it but you can't kill it. Just give him enough rope to hang himself and don't throw your money away on a private eye. Keep an eye on his cell phone calls and how much he is on the Internet. If he is grooming more then usual ask him why, and see if his excuse sounds plausible. Little things like that will tell you a lot. Meanwhile, talk to an attorney and get your ducks in a row--just in case.
2007-08-27 16:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. See if he has a pattern to when you think he is with someone else - a certain night he out later than normal, a certain day he is late for work, some kind of pattern. Jot that information down.
Write down what time he leaves for work and what time he gets back as well as his license number, type of vehicle and color. Get a picture of him.
2. Call a private detective and give him the info. If you husband has a pattern, the detective could catch him on the first day.
If he has a computer, the detective can uh uh check that too.
Good Luck! I know you think you can't afford the detective but other than calling the Cheaters show on tv and having them do it for you, or you following him yourself in an unknown car, the detective is your only option.
2007-08-27 23:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Wrong number 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your own concious is clean!!! But watch for changing habits, leaving 4 work early,home late, quite phone calls, secret confersations, "SMELL" perfumes,hair sprays, alot of away time!! watch the check book,credit cards(cash advances), and just ASK!! But be ready for ANGER,SURPRIZE, different love techniques, sex drive!! But make sure your'e not just being super parinoid!!! GOOD LUCK
2007-08-27 23:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective. They will follow him for a while, if he is cheating he won't be able to hide it from the private detective.
2007-08-27 23:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by DK Julie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you hire someone it may be very hard to ever know without catching him.
until then work on trusting him, it may make things better. sometimes your fears make it hard on yourself. maybe you are causing to much stress on your marriage.
if you catch him cheating glue it to his leg with super glue then send him on his way out the door
2007-08-27 23:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by sl3style 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the cell phone bills. You will have your answer. Just make sure that you are ready for it.
2007-08-27 23:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by gc10k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no sure fire way unless you catch him in the act, but has anything changed in his demeanor?
2007-08-27 23:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by M M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The article below summarizes it quite well.
2007-08-27 23:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie detector test. ask him "u would never cheat on me right?"
if he hesitates then he might be cheating.
2007-08-27 23:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mason S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust him and he will either prove he is or isnt ,no one is perfect eventully the truth always comes out
2007-08-27 23:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by mountain s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋