Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

i'm a adult and dating. how long should i wait till we have sex

2007-08-27 19:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by redbutterflyliz 2 in Singles & Dating

When a girl asks a guy if he wants a relationship with her- and he answers "Ok" and he says it's acceptable- how much does he like her?

2007-08-27 19:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 19:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is the third Q they deleted for me.do they hate muslims that much what was the reason for that?

2007-08-27 19:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends for 6 or 7 months to a woman that moved into our neighborhood recently. Both of us work from home, so we tend to visit throughout the day. A few days ago, we were sitting at my kitchen table, and we were talking about the new shade of lipstick I was applying when she said softly, "let's see how it looks on me". I held it out to her and instead of taking it, she leaned over to me and kissed me full on the mouth. I was in complete shock, although I did kiss her back. She drew back and then started laughing, saying "you should see the look on your face"! I started laughing too and I realized that she was just joking around, trying to get a reaction, but now I can't get that kiss out of my mind. I've thought about telling my husband about it, but can't bring myself to. I know that he's always fantasized about two women together. I've also thought about kissing her again. I don't think I would ever take it further than that though. Is that cheating?

2007-08-27 19:49:00 · 13 answers · asked by jc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been in a long relatioship before and after that my relationships has been short term..And right now i want a serious relationship but all i can see right now is how i can sleep with them..And i dont like giving effort and talking to them too much but before i can do that like know the girl what she like first and fall in love....you know..but right now i dated some girls but nothing still same thing just physical..is there something wrong with me?

2007-08-27 19:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by Jamsky 1 in Singles & Dating

im engaged and im getting married in 2years, we think the perth zoo or old swan brewery, its awesome but people keep giving me the your too young and i think you should wait when through the centuries many couples have gotten married younger... .all i need is a bit of help i have a friend who is helping, but im a little sick of being told i am to young when i pay bills clean my house go to tafe 3 times a week look after my dog and cat, i think i am responsible engough to be married....i am 17 and my fiaoncee is 27 my parents where the same ages and so were my mums parents and my aunty and my cousin. i am mature enough and it just feels right.

2007-08-27 19:45:07 · 9 answers · asked by nae_duck 1 in Weddings

I really like someone who is married and we both like each other but he is not going to leave his wife and ii dont expect that he leaves her is just that i hate it when he has to leave back home. we both try to be with each other but itz just hard. I cant never introduce him to my parents becuase come on his married and my parents would kill me...HELP.

2007-08-27 19:43:03 · 28 answers · asked by missjennie07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tell all ur friends to tell all thier friends & so on & so forth i want to see how many answers i'll get. :) thanks AY!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-27 19:34:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife has already filed for divorce and signed it. But she refused to issue it and it's affecting both of us and our extended family members. How to I make her issue the letter and get it done once and for all. It was dragged for months.

2007-08-27 19:31:55 · 2 answers · asked by Vroom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-27 19:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and her husband are going through a divorce and they have joint custody. If the soon to be ex husband takes the kids out of state and doesn't return how would my friend get the kids back and can she. She believes he's gonna run with the kids to another state so she can' get the kids back, what's your advice? Please help.

2007-08-27 19:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Turkey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This matter is forwarded for solluction and answer at your end I have married and having two child boy &girl but we have not satisfied with wife bucause my wife is illness to continioue. when I want to next marriage & wife.
please advoice right stap at your end. then I can satisfed in life

Wahab

2007-08-27 19:28:07 · 1 answers · asked by wahabuddin_gkp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a guy. Me & my g/f fell in love. Both REALLY REALLY deeply. 9 mos later, in the end, I realized I had wasted a lot of time when I could've been single! It DIDN'T seem that way at first, but let me explain. FYI, she was my 1st g/f, 1st sex, 1st lot of things, and i had never 'planned' on a relationship at that point in my life. I really DID love her tho.

1st, i realized that deep down, she could not be my long-term mate or g/f or wife. Too many problems and personality conflicts. 2nd, maybe she realized the same in me b/c our breakup was 'mutual' we said. At this point I feel a little off track with this love stuff, cuz as I said, I had 'planned' on being single the whole time.

A few weeks pass. I call her just to see how things are going, and she goes psycho on me, acting like a major bioch, calling me names, etc. That's when I start to feel like WOW not only did I miss out on being single, but she's got major problems too (in ADDITION to what I already knew about). ct'd...

2007-08-27 19:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

We were discussing friendship. I said he was one of my best friends. He said I wasn't one of his best friends. He said that he might be one of my best friends, but I wasn't one of his best friends. I was somebody he could count on, but I wasn't one of his best friends.

So my question is
How does this happen? And how often?
Two people have totally different views of their friendship.
How did I get such a low status. He had told me he wanted to be as important to me as my best friend is. I gave him that status. One day he referred to me as his co-worker. How can he want me to elevate him to as big as my best female friend...but I don't get the same respect?


I asked him what I was. He said a good friend, my roll dog.

2007-08-27 19:23:46 · 3 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Friends

He is my ex. We had a complicated relationship in the past. We both were attached to someone else but we fell in love with each other. I had never question his love for me. But our relationship did brought us a lot of stress. He relationship with his gf wasn't good also but he chose her and starts to treat me badly.I cannot forgive his doings to me, I was so heart broken and decided we should have a clean break. I am too tired and I do not wish to let my bf wait. Severeal months later, me and my bf decided to get married. I love him and really wanted to have a peaceful life with him. I have no intention to contact that guy again. Well, maybe god wants to punish me, he rented an apartment near my house and also starts to sms and msn me occasionally. I feel that he had not got over. Neither have I. But what I cannot let go is the hate towards him. when I see him, all the bad memories triggers and I am unhappy again. How can I make myself forgive him? Hating someone is unhappy and tiring.

2007-08-27 19:23:05 · 13 answers · asked by Ferris Wheel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why wont anyone love me??

2007-08-27 19:19:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it 14 years old and when i have guy friends the main thing they focuse on is my chest and my butt and i find it kinda funny but at the same time wierd and always ask me what size am i on top.they are my friends so i don't want to stop being their friend because of that reason and no i don't dress like a slut,hore,hooker,etc. so no one should say thats the reason i wear clothes that fit they are not tight but not baggy...can you guys tell me why they do that and what can i do so the can focuse on me and not my body...please and thatk you

2007-08-27 19:18:23 · 19 answers · asked by JRiVErA 2 in Friends

i have been goin on with my guy for past 2yrs. we had ups n downs in the relation. but always patched up. we love each other n decided to get married. its time to tell our parents. i am ready to tell anytime but y is it takin a long time for my guy to tell his parents. m sure his parents will never oppose. i used to feel that boys are brave. then y is he takin so much time. he says he'll gradually tell.

2007-08-27 19:18:07 · 15 answers · asked by lilydals 1 in Singles & Dating

i have fallen in love two years before with a girl and untill now i can't forget her ,, i have seen many girls for friendship and maybe marriage , but i can't marry ..
i am 29 years old and have a master degreee in software engeering and she is studing special course in women in medial (she is doctor)
and i think she like me ...
i asked her about marriage but she didn't accept ,,
and i should say from that time i became depress and it continue ,,,i think my drug is that girl..
can you say me what i should do?
please answer this question if you are older than 20 years old.

2007-08-27 19:10:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-27 19:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by Jerry R 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so, my friend met this guy in college and all three of us and sometimes some of our other friends, all hang out together. My friend told me that he said to her that he likes me, But he wouldn't want to go out with my because of the way I dress (which is kinda offbeat and eccentric). Anyway, he's always nice to me, But for the past few weeks we've been emailing eachother back and forth but it's been mostly sexual talk or sexual innuendos. I'm 19 & I've never had a boyfriend or been ona date or anything. So, I'm kind of new to all of this. I would like to find someone who really respects me but in this day and age, It's really hard to find someone you can really trust. Do you think he's just looking for something physical or does he want something more and this is just how he starts out? Maybe this is all to make fun of me somehow? Just hoping for some good answers. Thanks!

2007-08-27 19:04:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend. She lives 25 miles away from me. Sometimes, she asks me to go to a nightclub and states that we can hang out together at that time. I drive to her home, pick her up,and take her to this place another 25 miles away. I take her back to her home when the night is over. Her friends (all guys) are sometimes down there as well. There have been a couple of times that when the place closes, she will go off with another one of her guy friends to their place.(She has been in a sexual relationship with them at one time or another). She states that she isn't going with them to do anything sexual, its just friends stuff. She acts surprised when I am put off by her behavior. She says that I shouldn't have a problem with it since her and I are "just friends". I am asking you, if you were in that situation, would you consider it disrespectful behavior?

2007-08-27 19:02:24 · 8 answers · asked by Alan M 1 in Friends

i think he doesnt trust me as much what should i do i really like him what do i do i feel like he deosnt like me as much as he says he does

2007-08-27 19:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by jj 2 in Friends

They just recently divorced.. like last month.

The divorce personally i don't have a problem with its just when they start moving on i do.

My mom "has a boyfriend" already probably met him after the divorce. It's hard for me to accept this and i'll probably kick the guys *** once i see him out of instinct... I keep telling myself when i enter college(which will be soon) everything will be better since i will have a life of my own. Is this true, will i feel better when i have a life of my own?

And not having a girlfriend probably contributes to my loneliness lol. Probably once i get a girlfriend i'll feel better?

Feedback on how to deal with this and my question of having my own life.

2007-08-27 19:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Family

2007-08-27 18:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old and i know thats too young to think about this stuff but i have a reason. my parents are divorced. they DO NOT get along. i found out today (while on vacation) that my dad cheated on my mom for YEARS. he is now married again and so is she. when the divorced i made a vow to myself that it would NEVER happen to me. i wont let it. but today when i learned that i felt like crap. im scared to get married now. i dont want my kids to go through the HELL i've been going through. NO!! i feel like it would be my luck for that to happen to me, because girls tend to go for guys who remind them of their fathers...=( i dont want that! but i always do.... =/ is it normal to be scared like this? i mean...like REALLY scared. if someone were to propose to me all this would flood my head and i would cry soo hard. please tell me if that is normal....

2007-08-27 18:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-27 18:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by placid_princess 2 in Singles & Dating

For any of you to give me advice you have to understand the background first. I have been dating this guy named Steven. I really love him. We started going out back in april 05 but then we broke up that sept cuz my parents thought i was too young. So it was mutual even though he said that he might start seeing someone else. That broke my heart a bit. Then all in 06 Steven and I stayed together(not as BF and GF)but as friends who really loved each other. and he said that he really would not have wanted to see someone else. So then we planned on getting back together in that December for my 16t Birthday. But that sept also there was bad news he said that he loved another girl. And that we can't get together. That broke my heart again. Then he admitted he was wrong and wanted me back. But i made him wait until Feb 07. So now i am falling in love with him againand I don't want to because i'm afraid that he may break my heart agian and he said he won't but i really don't know! I know he isn't In love with me but I am starting to fall for him! Should I tell him how i feel, should I break up with him or should I just see how it goes?

2007-08-27 18:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She is 28 years old, I am 32. We have been to dinner/drinks 3 times now. Where should I take her for the fourth date that is fun? Comedy club? Movie?

2007-08-27 18:44:34 · 32 answers · asked by Arnaz_Los_Angeles 3 in Singles & Dating