For any of you to give me advice you have to understand the background first. I have been dating this guy named Steven. I really love him. We started going out back in april 05 but then we broke up that sept cuz my parents thought i was too young. So it was mutual even though he said that he might start seeing someone else. That broke my heart a bit. Then all in 06 Steven and I stayed together(not as BF and GF)but as friends who really loved each other. and he said that he really would not have wanted to see someone else. So then we planned on getting back together in that December for my 16t Birthday. But that sept also there was bad news he said that he loved another girl. And that we can't get together. That broke my heart again. Then he admitted he was wrong and wanted me back. But i made him wait until Feb 07. So now i am falling in love with him againand I don't want to because i'm afraid that he may break my heart agian and he said he won't but i really don't know! I know he isn't In love with me but I am starting to fall for him! Should I tell him how i feel, should I break up with him or should I just see how it goes?
2007-08-27 18:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For god's sake that guy has already broken ur heart 2 times! If u get back with him again he'd jsut treat u like a toy which he can jsut leave whenever he wants and get it whenever he wants. Show some self respect to him and tell him that u dn't want to get together. Its hard to get out of love so it helps try seeing other people! Hope i helped! best of luck sweety...!
2007-08-27 18:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Chocogal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you all obviously do have feelings for each other. The question is, are his feelings the same as your and will they become as strong as they once were? As long as he is not seeing anyone else at this time I think you should try and relax and be yourself. You need to get him around you, to spend more time with you. This is dangerous but it will work one way or the other. By being around you he will begin to see all the things that he loves about you again. Your smile the way you laugh and the way you are able to feel comfortable talking to each other. The down side is you will fall deeper in love with him. If he has always been honest with you, and treated you good then I say go on and give it another try. If you do not you will be wondering and wishing that you had. You need to be open and honest with him, but not just yet with how you are feeling. You have to allow him a little time to get back with you and know you and remember you for who you are. So for now You just see how it goes, while watching him and seeing how he responds to you. The things you say, the way you act. Flirt a little with him from time to time and see how he responds that way he knows you are interested but does not know how much you are interested. That is the best way to do this I think. I wish you the best of luck and I hope your dreams come true. =)
2007-08-28 02:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the look of it, i advice both of u just be friend. Cause i can see that the guy is still very playful. If u get ur self back to him again..i can tell u ur heart ur will be painful again. Just spend u happy time ask teen. Don't think love is everything in this world...see more and meet more people...May be u can find a better one throught out ur walking life right. Just forget about starting this relationship again. Just be friend. Tell him straight to face. all the best.
2007-08-28 02:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by workingbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad to give chances to those who wanted to change but twice is enough. Do not let your self be cheated again and again because it will soon get tired.Do you think there is still a place for someone else in your heart to come when its already sick and tired of getting hurt?It affects you badly emotionally,intellectually and socially.Do not wait for the time that you started to hate yourself because of loving such a double crosser man.Learn to love and respect yourself by moving on without his company.Many man surrounds but only one is the right guy and its not him.
2007-08-28 02:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by santiago diane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well use your better judgment, it sounds to me that no one knows this guy better than you. But come on, your only what 16-17? lighten up a bit you've still got a long road ahead of you think of how many people your gonna meet in university or life in general. KIn my opinion i think you should probably just stay away, do you really want to risk him hurting you again?
2007-08-28 01:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Aniatario 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you're that too risky. go ahead to really see how it goes. but for me, i think you shouldn't get him back again. because as you can see, and already feel, he already hurt you twice. obviously, that means that he really didn't meant what he said to you and what he really feels for you. it's easy for him to love you again if he wasn't able to find other girls and if he does find, he'll leave you and hurt you. you show him too much love that he easily taken you for granted. this not would be an easy thing to do for you, but i think it will be the wisest. there's still a lot of other guys around who can appreciate you much. and you're still too young. learn to enjoy life first.
2007-08-28 01:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donn't give him your heart until you know that he feels the same way about you. If you do, you are setting yourself up to be hurt. Just wait and let him show the person he is and how he feels before you allow yourself to fall too deeply.
2007-08-28 01:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either decide that you want to be with him, only him, and expect that he be with you and only you...
Or...
You can remove yourself from him completely. And I do mean completely, because for as long as you keep him in your life, you will always have confusing feelings.
2007-08-28 01:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
History is going to repeat itself young lady. You're too young to decide for yourself too. Go home to your parents.
2007-08-28 01:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said u know he isnt in love with u so y continue
2007-08-28 01:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋