it 14 years old and when i have guy friends the main thing they focuse on is my chest and my butt and i find it kinda funny but at the same time wierd and always ask me what size am i on top.they are my friends so i don't want to stop being their friend because of that reason and no i don't dress like a slut,hore,hooker,etc. so no one should say thats the reason i wear clothes that fit they are not tight but not baggy...can you guys tell me why they do that and what can i do so the can focuse on me and not my body...please and thatk you
2007-08-27 19:18:23 · 19 answers · asked by JRiVErA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honestly, guys (or boys in your case), don't stare at girls for nothing. There's got to be something you're wearing that's making them stare at you. It can be as simple as a shirt. My advice, just do a little covering up. Every guy does that; it's part of life for guys. I did that but not so much because once you seen one, you've seen 'em all. Like I said, it's a guy thing but if they're your friends, they shouldn't be asking you what size you are. It might be just a joke but that's still on the perverted level for you. Good luck.
By the way, samurail337, the girl's 14 years old. Give me a break, dude.
And for those people who say you should tell them to not look, it won't work.
2007-08-27 19:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most of the time guys are as shallow as a kiddy pool. But you might want to think about what kind of people you have around you especially guys.
Not all guys are that shallow. And when an perv asks you what size you are..., be offend just don't let it bother you, instead take it as a complement. It means your beautiful.
2007-08-27 19:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bast way I can think to explain it is as follows, I saw on a program a while ago about human sexuality, that the first reason men look at a woman's breasts and backside, is initially to see by instinct if she is able to bear children (size of your pelvis) and secondly to see if she is able to provide for a baby (feeding capacity). Once the instinctive impulse is passed, if they continue to stare, then they may be simply getting their rocks off at your expense. If you catch them staring, you should discourage them, if you don't, there is a chance you may become an object of sexual conquest as they see you develop and their hormones also become stronger, our primary purpose after all is to multiply our species. Be careful of the company you keep.
2007-08-27 19:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tom B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad they are looking at you in the first place. If you did not have a cute butt or boobs, they would not give you the time of day. Just ask a girl with a flat chest and no butt.
2007-08-27 19:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm valuable this is a lot extra advantageous than them sniffing your butt. If women had not something to entice a male life as all of us comprehend it would in no way be. think of approximately it. you will desire to have astounding sources for them to be staring interior the 1st place so take it as a supplement.
2016-10-17 04:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always have a man looking at your chest and your butt. Some guys are pigs and make it obvious, some are more considerate and make it a quick glance, and the rest are gay and don't like women.
you can call them out and say hey i'm eyes are up here and not on my boobs. Make them blush, but they will never stop staring.
2007-08-27 19:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they continue to be nasty little pre-pubesent pervs, you need to put them in line and tell them you don't like their rude, sexist comments. They don't need to know your mesurements. That's none of their damned business. The only reason they even know what measurements are is because they steal their mom's Victoria Secret catalogs.
I know they're your friends, but don't let them disrespect you like that. The reason they are like that is because they are still going through their curiosity stages. They want to know why boobies get them excited. You probably need to talk with them and let them know where your eyes are and it makes you uncomfortable when they focus on your "***-pects."
2007-08-27 19:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a skirt. Guys nowadays are horny. You know what I don't understand? I don't understand how guys go for hott girls and want to go out with them before they know them. It's like they'll go to them randomly on the street and say something. Don't these girls realize that the guys only want them for their looks?
Unless they actually know the girl, but in most cases they dont...
2007-08-27 19:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by dosahyd f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.The boys are looking at your boobs and you butt because to them it looks like candy and they'd like to get there grimy paws on them, Don't let them. This year they will probably accidental bump into them always. Don't let them.Have fun, ignore them, look at the older boys, that ticks them right off, but remember the older boys will be looking in the same areas.Ignore them.
God bless.
2007-08-27 19:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by luvspace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time they ask how big you are, tell them that it is none of their business. That is a disrespectful question. When A guy starts staring at my chest, I usually push his chin up and tell him that the eyes are up here.
2007-08-27 19:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋