She is 28 years old, I am 32. We have been to dinner/drinks 3 times now. Where should I take her for the fourth date that is fun? Comedy club? Movie?
2007-08-27 18:44:34 · 32 answers · asked by Arnaz_Los_Angeles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on what kind of tastes the two of you share. I'll echo the sentiment of doing comedy clubs or dinner theatre; it'll give you opportunity to be with each other, yet there wouldn't be any awkward pressure. Plus, afterwards, it'll give you plenty of fresh conversation material.
Another idea would be to attend a local fair or festival (tis the season for those). Or perhaps if her church (assuming she belongs to one) is having a festival, offer to go there; even if you aren't of the same religion (or religious at all), it will show great care and consideration. Better yet, see if there's anything going on a couple of counties away; with the three-day weekend approaching, it's the perfect time for an "impromptu" getaway.
If you want to play it more on the safe side, or aren't exactly sure which way the relationship is heading, then (weather permitting) I'd say plan a picnic date, something from the heart. If you have a beach nearby, that would be an ideal scene. Otherwise, find a nice park and go from there. The rest of the date should be impromptu: mini-golf, museums, historic sites, etc... Places where the two of you can actually enjoy each others company.
As for the movies, that can be a date-killer. If she'd like to grab a DVD and watch it at the end of the night at your place, that's one thing. However, going to the movie theatre, unless she's absolutely hell-bent, won't get you that one-on-one time.
2007-08-27 19:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comedy club is always good. You could cook her a meal yourself and ask her to stop and rent a movie or two on her way over. That way you all could stay in have a nice meal then watch some movies and talk and get to know each other better. You can have a few flowers or roses there for her when she arrives and I think most women would like that. It shows that you are willing to put thought and time into her. Well best of luck on whatever you decide to do.
2007-08-27 18:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try something fun and unexpected. This is where you need to review what you know about her. If she's outdoorsy, try go-kart racing or mini-golf (you can have dinner/drinks afterwards). If she has a great sense of humor, comedy club works nicely. If she's into art/intellectual stuff, how about a museum trip?
2007-08-27 18:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by PurrfectPeach13232 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A comedy club would be lots of fun. Do something creative or romantic. I'm younger, but the girls I know would love a picnic or museum/art gallery date, a local band's concert.
2007-08-27 18:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by odette82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Comedy Club.
If it's pretty universal that we love to laugh, why don't guys see the brilliance in bringing us to a comedy club? We get to laugh all night and you don't have to come up with funny stuff to say! When its over, all we remember is laughing all night with you. ...and although I'm sure you're just interested in spending time with her and respecting her...when we laugh all night with a guy, that will often pass for foreplay...
2007-08-27 18:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Erin K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4th date...are you two not talking at all? have you not picked up on any of her likes for life in general or entertainment? just ask her what she would like to do. bowling. mini golf, movie, comedy club, any answer would mean she wants to spend more time with you. good luck to you.
2007-08-27 18:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
comedy club is a great idea
or to a theater that serves dinner too.
the movies is too impersonal, you cant really talk or see each other.
cage fighting would be my ideal date!
2007-08-27 18:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by evanlah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
comedy club would be nice, how about just a nice stroll in the park, or some place where there are not to many distractions, the zoo, etc. where you and her can just talk and let what ever happens happen?
2007-08-27 18:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by nagotim2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4th date is wear ure transitioning from casual dating to the beging of a relationship i would suggest a a nice restaurant or a nice club or something
good luck
2007-08-27 18:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go to a movie with her, and the 4th date is the perfect time to do it :) In the movies you guys might get a little snuggling and maybe kissing action ;)
2007-08-27 18:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋