i wanna get emancipated???? does anybody no how?

Question

im sick of my parents controling everything i do its gettin outrageously ugly .. my dad on my birthday threw me off my bed n gave me 2 bruises on d head and a bleeding nose n face :( please help !!! it hurts

Australia. 14. no job yet. have money through.

Answer 1

yeah it might take a while. i dont know how exactly to get about it, but if ur case reaches the court, u'll need to be able to prove that u can provide for urself; since u will be labeled as an "Adult"

research it online

Answer 2

Need more details. Where do you live (which state--assuming that you’re in the US)? How old are you? Do you have a job? Do you earn enough to pay for rent, utilities, food, medical expenses, etc *completely* on your own with no help from anybody (that is a requirement for emancipation). Ever been in the trouble with the law? Yes, that matters, because in order to be emancipated the court must believe that you are capable of behaving in an adult manner, so behavior that indicates you are not will likely result in a denial of your request. Got *any evidence* of the abuse? The court won’t just take your word for it, but they can, and probably will, order an investigation by child services.

Answer 3

You do not say how old you are but my first thought would be to show your GP and record the bruises. Also get someone professional who can help your Dad to get him anger management as perhaps see a counsellor or ask your GP to refer you. Maybe your Dad needs help so get someone to find out what caused it and how many times it happened also have you any brothers or sisters that it has happened to. Whatever the reason it should not have happened and where was your mum why did she not intervene.Please get help for yourself as well as this can cause psychological problems in later life. Your Dad needs help if he cannot control his Temper.If you cannot go alone then speak to your Mum and if she does not listen then get help from a close friend or neighbour please .

Answer 4

well if u are underage then let someone in authority know (police etc) - if u are in uk then call childline if u can they will advise and support - if u r in another country then i am sure there must be the equivilent - check it out on google (if ur parents can check ur internet cookies then try to use public computer somewhere else or confide in a friend) search under "child protection" maybe..... u need to get some support from somewhere. if u are an adult then u can still get support - check online for support agencies for domestic abuse or domestic violence. violence such as this is unacceptable in ANY way - just because he is ur dad does not give him the right to do this! good luck and stay safe

Answer 5

Greetings,

My previous answer was too terse. If you read it, I apologize for how it might have made you feel. The following should serve you much more usefully.

First though, I still do think you write like you're still in elementary school -- or like you are out of control! (lol)

Really, you'll be taken more seriously if you upgrade to standard English, and perhaps evolve some other characteristics as well.

NONETHELESS, hitting and bruising is out of control, and harmful in so many ways. It's dramatic, and severely consequential, overkill. It is so sad to "learn lessons you'll never forget" in this manner. I do not like to advocate family breakups, but this sort of problem has a potentially huge toll anyway.

You are not in a good position to foresee the life consequences of amancipation. Granted, you did not say your age. What you do know now though is that the abuse hurts badly, and it feels like it is doing damage. Certainly it tears apart trust. And certainly it tears away your good feeling about your life and who you are.

Maybe look into private counseling for advice and procedures on handling this the best way for yourself. In the least, don't let the dark points of view, the bad feelings, and the pessimistic thoughts, and the out of control actions turn into your ways of being. Get help with them now, or very soon. I'm serious! But try to find it in the private sector. Maybe you'll find something like this for low cost or free. I do not know. Look around. Maybe even inquire at a shelter for females about leads on private sector counselors.

I say try to fibnd private professional counseling over these couple of tings, as opposed to going through local govt agencies or the court system, because you might not want your actions and your file to be in those hands for years to come. Or maybe you do not want to draw legal attention. But if you do, then yes go to the agencies or to the law or whatever you actually want to do. But by all means, learn effective and self-helpful ways to polarize the effects this crap has on how and what you think, how and what you feel, and how and what you do. Because if you have the feeling that this crap that's going on is hurting you, you're correct.

Best,
TQRP

Answer 6

If your are 14, the only thing I can tell you is to see if you can stay with a relative or have a talk with your folks and let them know how you feel. It may not be what you want to hear but hon, you are only 14. If you were 18 or over I could tell you that you could move out, but you are still too young.
-Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 7

Maybe you should tell someone like the police or something. You are to young to really go anywhere on your own you still need an education and all. You can also move in with a relative or very close friend.

Answer 8

If you are being abused, then you need to TELL someone.
Someone that you trust (a friends parent, an adult at school, a church member maybe). You deserve to be raised in a home that is safe. It's one thing to not like your parents, or even have a rough time, but being abused is a whole different thing.

Answer 9

well OK your young
your a teenager
you want to buck authority
your hormones are running wild

YOU are YOU

YOUR PARENTS are YOUR PARENTS
so you want to do what you want
your parents want to do what they feel is right for you

i went through all this 40 years ago
my kids did it in their teens the grand-kids are doing it now
do you think your the only one its happening too
well no
WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS STAGE in life
20 & 40 years time you will be thinking and doing the same to your kids and grand children
when will all this stop NEVR
thats life we all have to learn
thats what our parents are trying to teach us

PARENTING the hardest JOB in the world
but it can give you the GREATEST PLEASURE IN the WORLD

A LOT OF BLO_ODY HEARTACHE and PAIN TOO

well take care wait 20/40 years then think back to now
you are trying to teach and educate your family to do what is right

have a long and happy life

PS you say your in Australia
do you really all walk on your hands HAHA
best wishes from a pommie

Answer 10

Get a lawyer and take it to court. Don't forget, you have to provide everything for yourself after the emancipation. Maybe it would be better for you to report them to social services and get put into a different home.