i was talking to this guy and im almost 13 years old and hes 13...he fell in love with me but i didnt and then he was depressed and then i told him about my problem...which im not gonna mention...and then he told me to stop doing that or else hes gonna cut his wrists and be emo...then i said PLZ DONT and then he did and he was bleeding like hell and now im SO UPSET i dont want him to hurt himself bcuz of my problems...he lives in australia and i live in cali...hes crazy!!!!! im scared....what do i do???? btw this happend like 5 minutes ago
2007-08-27 23:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by WoOoOoOo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WERE NOT GOING OUT!!!
we never were
i dont love him
2007-08-27 23:22:43 · update #1
well if ur problem is like that personal then dump him and move on
2007-08-28 13:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by prower2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,relax.It's gonna be alright.Now,how did you know he really did this?Did he send you photos?Video?You know this can be fake.Second,tell him: you're really crazy,how could I love somebody doing this? that should make him think.Third,stop contacting him ASAP.Your problem...well,if you really worry that badly you can promise to him you're not gonna do it,right?So.Everything will really be OK.Calm down,anyway,when you're thirteen,love can't be serious..Whatever you may think.(I am 16,)
2007-08-28 06:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Feja Katyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like have any relationship, be it friendship or GF/BF or any other with such a guy? a guy who can cut is wrist? Don't be crazy.
2007-08-28 06:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go IMMEDIATELY to an adult you can trust, your priest/minister/rabbi, school counselor, parent and tell them what's going on. This is too big for you. You're right, the young man is seriously disturbed.
2007-08-28 06:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by countrygent07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be spending your time trying to take care of your problem, whatever it is. He SHOULD NOT BE INVOLVED. IF YOU NEED HELP, TALK TO A SCHOOL COUNSELOR OR AN ADULT THAT YOU TRUST AND WILL HELP YOU.
2007-08-28 06:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online dating never works out. I would break up with him and block him.
2007-08-28 06:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what just be true to your self and you will be happy...If you dont want him to hurt his self then be quiet..Solve your own problem (if you can)
2007-08-28 06:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by darkangel_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you need some serious counseling
2007-08-28 06:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋