Amy's hubby works laying cable, and on tuesday mornings he has to go to another city to get supplies to fill up his truck. Well, for the last 2-3 weeks he has been letting his stubble grow, and then finally shaved. Then he went another week, and this morning he shaved. He really did not have time but he did it. There are a bunch of females over at the warehouse, and one of them calls him by a "Pet name" which bothers her greatly. (Example Charles = Chuckie)
She said that she feels like he just shaved for who ever this female is. He NEVER shaves when she asks him, or his mother rides him to do it. But suddenly he is going to the warehouse where there are females and he is shaving?
Anyways, she has had problems with him before...running around late at night..not always being at work but out with the "Boys" or so he says and then she never hears them in the background. Only Female voices, and then he proclaims that he is on a job site that late at night. Whatever...
What is your take?
2007-08-27 23:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also, he has suddenly taken to leaving his button up the front shirt open. Exposing his hairy chest, and she happened to notice him buttoning it up rather quickly when she walked up to him.
What bothers her the most is the fact that she loves him very much, and she is so close to having his child, 2 weeks from delivering, that she feels like he would rather have sexual relations with one of those skinny non-pregnant females at the warehouse.
Last week, he did not leave the other city until almost noon! Amy knows that it does not take that long for the meeting and loading! So, please help me reassure her that nothing is going on.
2007-08-27 23:40:37 · update #1
My take is that she had lost a lot of weight with me, almost 60 pounds and she had men chasing her when she lost it. But she only wants him.
Then, after losing all of that weight, she finds that she is pregnant. He was so excited, or so he says, and they have a 6 yr old. "Now I'll get that boy I want" he tells her, out one side of his mouth. While out the other he comments about how she can hardly do anything now that she is huge.
"If you did not want her pregnant" I tell him, " And would rather have her skinny as before, then you should have wrapped the hot dog!"
Amy is not young, she is older than I , 44. She is rather heartbroken at the moment, and I can feel for her as I am 35 weeks pregnant myself. AND I too, would be curious as to what in the name of Heaven is going on.
I told her that maybe he got chewed out for looking like a bum? But then there are other techs with beards, so I don't know.
2007-08-27 23:48:25 · update #2
BTW- Amy says that they know that he is married and expecting their 2nd child!
So, it sounds fishy to me.
2007-08-27 23:50:09 · update #3
She also wants me to add that she found a porno pic of three men getting it on with a lady. And come to find out it was taken from someones digital camera! This happened while he was out of town working in another city, and he who normally does not drink suddenly was drinking with his buddies every night!
2007-08-28 01:39:52 · update #4
To be honest there are not many woman that care if a man is married or not. If there have been problems before you need to ask him what is going on and if you don't believe his answer then investigate. If there isnt enough evidence to support your suspision then let it go to the back of your head but keep your eyes open. You have to know what you are going to do if you find out that he is messing around and to be honest working it out would not be on the list, but you also have children to consider but if you can take care of them on your own then leave his ***. i would sit and hae a nice chat about him being out so late and the woman at the warehouse. if he freaks then leave him anyway. Once a cheater always a cheater.
good luck
2007-08-28 00:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by beautifull103087 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the warehouse where he picks up the cable and ask the woman if she knows chuckie is married ... and a slob every day that he doesn't see her.
Better yet, on Tuesday morning, get up and hide the razor, or use it to shave your legs when he is getting ready to go to work.
2007-08-28 06:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Booger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i see some red flags here...
you say she has had problems with him before...but we really don't have enough to go on...i would hate to brand this guy as a cheat and a liar based only on the info given here...cuz from what you have told us, i would say he might be steppin' out on her.
is that what she thinks? i advise you to lay low on this one...don't fan the flames of suspicion...you might be making trouble where there is none.
2007-08-28 06:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by waterlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear, It does stink ! I have never understood why people stray. I am sorry but I am pure hearted and can not begin to put a good spin on his actions !
2007-08-28 14:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The situation sure sounds "fishy" to me. I'm not sure I would trust him any further than I could throw him.
2007-08-28 06:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Debi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for some serious investigation!!! Catch the cheater. When they change their habits, it is usually for a reason!!!
2007-08-28 06:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you know what they say when you notice them acting differently and looking after themselfs more then there upto no good
2007-08-28 13:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-02 03:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋