2007-08-27 22:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Emmaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ah, well you should tell him, in my view it isn't right to hide it, or anything.
But in life we all do things the best we can, some times we screw up, its a part of life,, so try to pay them off,, even if its a small amount at a time, is fine..
Stress, i bet you are, thats why you should not hide anything. nor should he..
amen lol good luck, it will work out....
2007-08-27 22:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, I'm not the wife, but i am the husband, and i just thought I would fill you in on how the other half might react.
situation, wife co-signs for loan for her daughter, but doesn't tell husband about loan for step-daughter. I am a soldier and I don't make that much money, I let my wife handle the bills due to the fact that I have been deployed many times in the past, and assigned over sea alot. She does very well at insuring the bills are payed, however at the time, she was paying all the bills, and then the daughter stop paying the payments on the car, my wife try her best to cover the payments for the car and did for a while, but then it began to wear her down, until our saving were gone, and the debt collectors were all over her back, she was so scared that i was going to leave her, and her stress was so high it was making her sick, then she final broke down in tears and told me, well i was hurt, that she never told me tell it was to late to save our credit rating, but to her surprise it wasn't to late to save our marriage. well i guess what I'm trying to say is if he doesn't know about the stress, he can't help deal with it, before it gets out of hand.
2007-08-28 02:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hellbound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when do all English speaking people have to try to figure out what "u" means, and what "ur" means, and other boneheaded sloppiness such as no distinction between lower and upper case lettering? That's as juvenile as running up the bills in secret and then not knowing the right thing to do. Grow up.
2007-08-27 23:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Theron Q. Ramacharaka Panchadasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But if you tell your husband, you will face hell. So, try to pay off and stop spending. At least until you clear up your debts. I sold my house to pay off. Stress? yes but not so much as letting the man know and blowing his top off.
2007-08-28 00:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start paying them off, little by little until they are gone. If you don't you will have a big mess when your husband finds out.
2007-08-27 22:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋