Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

has a theory most women 'want to take care of someone' & he already know she likes him hook, line & sinker.


Man in his 30's wants to bring her home, and purposely leave room a mess, with the hopes that she will clean it. He really does like her, and his this theory.


This a mess that is not a filthy, smelling mess, but more like clothes and random items strewn about EVERYWHERE.

I think that if he were to do a gradual build up of the mess, she'd be more likely to clean it than if she were to walk into a full mess.

What do you think?

2007-08-28 03:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 03:50:40 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wanted to have sex with me but I refuse I'm waiting on the woman that I will marry. Am I wrong for that?

2007-08-28 03:50:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for a few months. She's funny, very nice, pretty, in general just amazing. Some people (Kittana) may already know my situation, but the problem is, she has a bf, and her bf is my cousin...albeit, distant cousin...I am still not sure how we're related. When I first met her, I didn't know she was going out with him...in fact, I didn't even realize he was my cousin at the time.

We talk on the phone or on MSN for hours everyday. She's stated that she wants something more, but I can't bring myself to hurt my cousin...blood being what it is. So we're had the "I like our friendship now, lets not change things" talk about 3 times in the past month.

I really do like her...but again today I told her that I just want to be friends (lie). So what do you think is going to happen to this little triangle? Someone is going to get hurt aren't they? I've tried not picking up her calls, then she's all teary eyed, thinking I am mad at her; and I can't stand to see her sad.

2007-08-28 03:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy, about a week later we went out, talked on the phone about 2 times after the date. Then about the 3rd day aft. He text me & asked me for a hug. He said he needed a hug cuzz he was homesick I said well least you have a new friend he says does my new friend give hugs(to persistant) Now I have come to the practice of not being physical early or talking about it.. I told him that he says he understands but i have not heard from him why not!!! Has he not called cause i made a big deal out of nonthing?? Or he was slowly trying to get in my pants??

2007-08-28 03:50:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 03:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

It happened in the heat of battle, as well it happened at 4:30 in the morning.
I worked in a bar and had to stop a fight.
All anyone wanted was for the fighting to stop, (so that we could all go home). I was extremely tired and dead on my feet, and the last thing I needed was some fight starting.
So, I Rabbit Punched him, and it was easy (and a little bit fun too.)
Now, I have to live with him coming in all the time and calling me names like "dipshit" and saying "Only one per customer", or, "wait till I get you alone", or "wait till 5:00", ....it is so tiresome.
I even told him if he wasn't careful I'd "do it again". So now he comes in everyday and says I'm gonna get it.
And the funniest thing is : get this.... since then, one of his eyes is more open than the other, now, since that fight. He is in a band poster and looks like that, on there, too.
(Did I really do that? I don't think so, because I only hit the back of his head, not the front.)

2007-08-28 03:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of u are going to say that looks don't count? Looks are what makes a head turn, isn't it? I'm not anal, but it pis ses me off when people say "it's the inside that counts" then they ask "is he/she cute?" Initial physical attraction is a definite. So what one may find attractive, another may not - but you need to be physically attracted before you feel the chemistry.

2007-08-28 03:43:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 years, and we are now 27. We both love each other so much. She wants to make love with me. I don't want to make love with her just yet. I want to wait until we are 32 until we start a family. and plus, I don't want her to be pregnant at this time. I am planning to marry her soon, maybe at 29 ish. Will this effect my relationship with her? Will she think that I don't find her beautiful or sexy enough to make love? Have you ever been in this situation before? How did you felt when you wanted it but your boyfriend doesn't? Is waiting for marriage bad for the relationship? will she think I don't love her enough for marriage? I am sure she wants to get married since she told me.

2007-08-28 03:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone out there divorced his partner because of the inability to get along with his in-laws?The in-laws are critical, unbearable and self-righteous.

2007-08-28 03:43:17 · 18 answers · asked by noelle12345 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm doing a project on helping missing children to be found
And I need the following details:
1. Maddie McCann's date of birth
2. Maddie McCann's town where she lived in England

Thankyou for your time
SassyPrincess

2007-08-28 03:43:11 · 2 answers · asked by Snow Princess 2 in Family

i have plans to move over there and i want to make some friends, any body mind?

2007-08-28 03:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a junior in High School. I have 2 longtime friends. Ive been great friends with both of them since childhood. Let me tell you about the first one. I've known her sine I was like 2. We've always been great friends. In the 8th grade we kinda talked about ogin out, but that was the 8th grade. We've both grown up alot since then, and I'm and she is both lookin for something serious. She says she likes me alot, but she also likes this other guy, too. She can't make up her mind, but I think i'm slowyl winning her over, this morning she gave me one of her cheerleading pics to keep in my wallet.

The other girl
I've known since I was 5. We have always been great friends, last summer , I fell in love with her. She said she didnt want to mess up a good thing, ( or friendship), and she said she hadn't thought of me like that. So its now a year later, and I still like her, but I know right now I can't have her. Were' really close, and litterally like best friends.

2007-08-28 03:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 03:40:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my sil is my child's godmum. however the relationship between she and me is beyond repair. is it possible to "annul" the relations between her and my child? if yes, how? if not, what should i do? i cant bear the thought of my daughter following her in moral values & character!

2007-08-28 03:40:20 · 7 answers · asked by noelle12345 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having this problem for 3 years,my husband will not seek help for E.D nor will he show any signs of wanting to fix the problem
any ideas?

2007-08-28 03:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I keep thinking of my ex- and it dosent help at all. Im still in love with him but he was not serious with me, which was why i decided on the breaking up. I still cannot forget him and i still miss him... is this bugging or is it because i still love him? how do i get rid of it? >.<

2007-08-28 03:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Eslaena G. 2 in Singles & Dating

This not a question I like to just "put out there"...

Sex, why am I always the one to initiate? Yes, I have asked and tried talking with her, but I get no response. Is there anything that I can Do to maybe spice up our bedroom talk? Please, any input would be helpful.

2007-08-28 03:37:32 · 13 answers · asked by tata51576 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 03:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Friends

I know this guy from last 4 months and i really do love him... But according to almost all astrologers and websites.. I have some bad things in my horoscope and we cannot be a good match. If he gets married to me, he wud suffer health and career problems. I do love him and also scared that I dont end up giving any harm to him. Plz advice

2007-08-28 03:29:15 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married 1 month; husband is never home, always going out with friends drinking. He ignores me all the time, making me go to his friends wedding on my 30th birthday after this guy has done several really inappropriate, hurtful things to me. Husband says I never want to go anywhere with him (but I'm not invited by him either). He says "it's my life" when I think it's supposed to be "our life" right? or wrong? am I being selfish and feeling neglected for no reason or should he ALWAYS be out and never with me? I'm very confused and very hurt and am willing to work on this if it is in fact, my doing. There is also a huge amount of affection missing on his part and I don't know what to do. When he said "it's my life" that really hurt me; maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?

2007-08-28 03:25:21 · 22 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He keeps reminding about her. What can I do?

2007-08-28 03:22:05 · 34 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 12 years old and everyone i hang out ias always a few years older basically 14 and i have a boyfriend who is 14 and they have all kissed and i have never kissed anyone before. and we were in front of my boyfriend friends and he goes to kiss me i just turn aroind he gets reallreal mad. And i have heard rumors that he likes to have sex and if i cant kiss then im real scared about the sex thing! I am just so scared. I do want to kiss him but im scared that i might do something wrong. And all my friends tease me about not having a first kiss!

2007-08-28 03:21:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, im in a relationship with this bloke i met 7 weeks ago. thing is, he loves me loads and wants too much from me tho im not sure i love him the same. i met him as my customer at work in the bookies. we got together and then he wanted me to leave my job in coral as he thinks i flirt with other guys there. hes from cardiff and lives near me in england, he hasnt really any mates here but i have and just feel he wants to be involved in so much in my life . he says he wants me to move in with him, marry, and have kids with him. i dont feel i can do my own thing anymore without him around or trying to advise me. help! i feel ive given up on myself as he takes over my interests and tells me how to use my finances. hes always trying to advise me like he knows best. i dont want to hurt him as he means well but i feel trapped and want my singleness and freedom back. ive not told him how i really feel bout him. i dont think we're suited. am i wrong thinkin like this? please suggest.

2007-08-28 03:19:24 · 44 answers · asked by Lucy R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 03:16:18 · 11 answers · asked by blur8scar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am really confused by what my girlfriend is trying to tell me. She always has told me when we marry she will be %100 faithful. When we marry ? Does that mean she isn't now? I asked her repeadetly if she has cheated on me and she says no she has been faithful and I have no evidence.

I just can't fiqure out why she always says when we marry she will be 100% faithful to me and never cheat? It is like she it telling me she is cheating now, but wont' when we marry. She swears up and down she doesn't cheat, but I just don't understand why she would say that.

2007-08-28 03:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 03:13:43 · 20 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

This condition on his genitals, its not a disease or nothing, its a natural occurance "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fordyce_spots"

2007-08-28 03:13:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at school that I was sort of friends with for a while then she just blew me off so I told this one girl in my class that she is mean... and she is friends with her! I am so afraid that she is going to come up to me and ask me why I said she was mean! If she does what should I say!?

2007-08-28 03:12:16 · 5 answers · asked by Alyssa 3 in Singles & Dating

Well im having a sleepover, and i need ideas for my daughter to have a party, for preteens. She needs some ideas????!?!?!?! Nothing mean!!!!

2007-08-28 03:11:45 · 2 answers · asked by Kija Esther 1 in Family