I've been having this problem for 3 years,my husband will not seek help for E.D nor will he show any signs of wanting to fix the problem
any ideas?
2007-08-28 03:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girlfriend, there is nothing wrong with him going to a urologist....they are used to this problem as the majority of men over 40 WILL experience ED sometime in their life !! I realize you cant make him go but suggest it in a calm way and from your point of view. If he refuses to go, there are other ways he can or YOU can make yourself happy......oral is a huge pleaser and invest in a good vibrator !!! I am a distributor of bedroom accessories so talk to me if you have any questions !!!
2007-08-28 04:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he has ED? A man gets aroused by his body responding to visual, physical or mental stimulation. An example of the saying "variety is the spice of life" is a new girlfriend will supply all three of those stimulations at the same time. Since he's your husband, let's assume that a new gf is out of the question, so are you doing all you can to supply that interest? Try to recreate what you both had three years ago, make it fun and exciting.
2007-08-28 10:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by chuckfw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the problem that he can't get it up, or that he has no interest in sex? There is a difference. If it's erectile dysfunction, the only thing that will work is meds. If it's lack of interest, that you can fix! Some ideas:
Role playing - you dress up as a naughty school girl, a nurse, a secretary, etc....
Tie him to the bed when he least expects it and tantalize his body with feathers, ice, silk scarves, etc.....
Rent a good porno and pop it into the tv when he comes into the living room to watch the news
Dress in sexy short skirts, thigh highs, high heels, etc.
Buy some toys - dildos, vibrators, etc. and start enjoying them yourself when it's time for him to come to bed. He will probably want in on the action
Good luck!
2007-08-28 10:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you have a problem if you cant get him to seek help...and it sounds like bad things are coming if you cant get him to respond and get something done cause i know your needs need to be taken care of if not by him you will soon be looking at all guys and thinking he would be good to have or he would be nice for some sex.....things are only going to get worse if you cant get him to get help. maybe making him jealous or specious of you might make him want to get help..start dressing sexy when you go shopping for 2 hrs and just bring home one little sack of something....make him wonder what you been up to....and if this don't work just find you someone for some good hot sex and have fun.....good luck
2007-08-28 10:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have a problem, he does, E.D. can be a symptom of other more serious problems, he needs a full checkup, asap.
2007-08-28 10:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a doctor.
2007-08-28 12:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by CURA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need and want him.....tell him you will go to the DR with him as it affects both of you.........
2007-08-28 10:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋