divorce bec of in-laws' interference in marriage?

Question

has anyone out there divorced his partner because of the inability to get along with his in-laws?The in-laws are critical, unbearable and self-righteous.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

The in-laws don't cause the divorce. The lack of communication and understanding between the two who are married caused the divorce.

Yes, you should try to get along with the in-laws, however, they should not run the married couple's lives. All six participants have issues. The married couple should sit down and discuss the issues first. Then meet with the in-laws, one set at a time, and share the decision.

The married couple should always back each other up.

The issues should be resolved before there are any babies involved or the picture will become more bleak.

Answer 3

Your Q caught my eye as I have witnessed many such problems. In - law interference.

Knowing just this much it is very difficult to comment. I do not know if you live with in-laws . If your husband is a good person, but cannot stand up to them for you.
If it is latter and your spouse is a good person, give it more though.

A person cannot always stand up to the parents and support spouse because they are conditioned since childhood to obey parents and not protest.
At the same time, they do not like it and do love the spouse.

Maybe you separate for a while and tell him to support you against them. As I mentioned, I don't know details.
Do as you feel best.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

No. I would never let my in-laws destroy my marriage and would do whatever it took to keep that from happening, even if it meant moving across the country.

There is always an excuse for divorce. When it comes down to it, you both made the decision, and your in-laws didn't force you to do it.

Answer 6

Move away from them, far enough to where they can't drive there in less than a day (8 hours that is).

Answer 7

Divorce because them? That sounds wierd. Why? Or is it because your spouse won't stand up to them, or other issues. That's like saying i got a divorce because my Co workers wanted me too.
If you love your spouse than so what if some of them are a pain. Welcome to reality.

Answer 8

NO, but I think you're married to your partner and not the family. If it was my situation, I would try to avoid them as much as possible. Besides, they might have a similar negative opinion about you, thus the behavior.

Answer 9

So what. Don't you remember your marriage vows? What did you think the "for better or for worse" vow would entail? Believe me. As far as the for worse part goes, you are getting off easily with your problem in-laws.

Answer 10

Yep I was married for 10 years to my husband wwe divorced three years ago because of his mother........we lived across the street from her. He was a very passive man and allowed his mother to interfere in our lives. She was very disrespectful to me and my son from a previous marriage. I suggest getting marriage counseling. My ex refused marriage counseling but maybe it will work for you and your marriage.
Good Luck

Answer 11

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