Ok I am really confused by what my girlfriend is trying to tell me. She always has told me when we marry she will be %100 faithful. When we marry ? Does that mean she isn't now? I asked her repeadetly if she has cheated on me and she says no she has been faithful and I have no evidence.
I just can't fiqure out why she always says when we marry she will be 100% faithful to me and never cheat? It is like she it telling me she is cheating now, but wont' when we marry. She swears up and down she doesn't cheat, but I just don't understand why she would say that.
2007-08-28 03:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, 100 %faithful does not just mean sex, you can be faithful to your partner in many ways, financially, morally, physically, emotionally, etc...right now you are just dating, its different than being married and giving yourself fully to another..my guess would be that's what she means. after marriage she will be 100 % to you in all aspects
2007-08-28 03:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Matt. People who say this are keeping their options open. As long as she makes the promise AFTER marriage, she is trying NOT to be accountable now. I would discuss theses boundaries a little more and just flat out ask her if this means she can date, have sex or run with another guy. Get it out in the open and make your objections known. She is not done playing the field and looking for a better partner. Sorry, but half-commitments are just that. M
2007-08-28 03:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Marie D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL She's just giving you peace of mind that she will be faithful to you... this is a good thing.
Tell her you'll be faithful when you are married too.
You're taking this the wrong way.
2007-08-28 03:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by umannjo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she is tell you is that she will be 100% faithful to her husband. Have you given her an engagement ring? Do you plan to marry her? If not, I don't think you really should be trying to pin her down on answers like this. It is very controlling to expect a person to be faithful when there is no commitment.
2007-08-28 03:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She may have experienced infidelity in her past, such as one of her parrents cheating on the other. This might cause her to use this wording. If she denies cheating and you have no reason not to believe her, than let the girl alone already before you push her away with false accusations.
2007-08-28 03:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fire's Shaddow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're sounding like a whiney little girl. NOTHING turns a woman off faster than a guy who is insecure! You want to turn the tables? Tell her "Sounds good! When we're married I will be 100% faithful too." And in the meantime, don't act like such a sissy! Have some confidence man!
2007-08-28 03:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am a grl so take it from me, she might not be cheating now, because I feel the same way to when me and my boyfriend get marry but I am not cheating on him now
2007-08-28 03:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I asked her repeadetly if she has cheated on me and she says no she has been faithful and I have no evidence"
If you do not have any evidence, then drop the case! why bother putting more strain on your relationship.
2007-08-28 03:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by FoodFitnessLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just trying to let you know that she will be a faithful wife. You're looking at it the wrong way. Stop looking for problems
2007-08-28 03:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol...don't stress. She is being faithful she just wants you to realize that IF you were married, she would respect her vows. Just her way of hinting you that you don't have exclusive rights....Yet! Does not mean she is or wants to cheat.
2007-08-28 05:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋