How to get rid of unwanted feelings?

Question

I keep thinking of my ex- and it dosent help at all. Im still in love with him but he was not serious with me, which was why i decided on the breaking up. I still cannot forget him and i still miss him... is this bugging or is it because i still love him? how do i get rid of it? >.<

[thanks all who answered, really appreciated it=) ]

Answer 1

go out with your friends, have fun. do something. dont let your thoughts run wild. it runs wild when you have nothing to do. delete every single thing that triggers your memory about him. i once even deleted the number so i wont look at it. life still goes on girl. he is not worth you missing him. im sure there are better guys than him.

oh and something to add. dont try to forget him just by wanting to forget him cos it'll never work. you'll still think of him.

good luck.

Answer 2

It's hard getting over someone you love, but when the feeling isn't mutual, then you have to do what you have to in order to get over it. The fact that he was not as serious about you should make it that much easier, I mean us girls have pride too, right? It won't be easy, I am here to tell you, but maybe you should do some things to take your mind off your troubles, heck go on a date, seriously! Find some new guy to be cool with, keep him as a friend. Sounds silly, I know, but I've been there, and sometimes it takes you hanging out with someone else to get over those feelings. Give it some time, and before you know it, those feelings will be so far behind you, you will be able to laugh about the fact that some guy had you all gone over him! Believe me!

Answer 3

keep busy
try this site, where u make friends, but it keeps u busy
Perfspot.com
just try it.
do things with u friends
watch movies, listen to music u like that makes u dance, avoid all the things that will make u think of him.
good luck, i have been there, but i just take it one day at a time.it most hard when u wake up in the middle of the night.u miss him, coz u just cant accept that it is really over, u miss him coz u have hope that things will work out,but practice not missing him, tel, yourself i am better than this, eventually it becomes true.

Answer 4

the fastest way to help yourself is you talking with him ..
trying to end things in a good point! for i feel there are regrets as you two parted ways.. unless those regrets are answered and convincing reasons are given, i guess you wouldn't move on! like if you can say in front of him looking into his eyes that you don't love him anymore would really help, if you can't there is indeed a problem, but still try to end in a good point!

after the honest talk comes what they call hobbies or something that would make yourself busy!

love is only a feeling it will either last or leave you hanging! :)

Answer 5

It is definately going to take some time to get over him but not something that is impossible. Try picking up a hobby or two to keep yourself busy. The busier you are with other things the less time you will have to think about your ex. There are probably other more important things in your life that you could be thinking about or taking care of instead of thinking about your ex. I hope this helps.

Answer 6

You need to "distract" yourself when you think about him. Do something to keep your mind busy. Ex: call someone and talk about her, rubber stamp, scrapbook, knit, go for a walk where there are people, do crossword puzzles, etc. Do not let yourself think about him more than 15 minutes at a time. You will move on in time. Time is on your side, use it wisely each day!

Answer 7

i had the same problem. i started dating this guy, who did something BAD. and as pissed at him as i was, i missed "the old times." (we were kinda sorta friends before we started dating) i found out, just move on, get out in the world, meet new guys, hang out w/ friends, just get a way 4 a little. the past is behind us. ur life is an open book, and ur about 2 turn the page. wats on the next page? whatever U want it 2 b! good luck!

Answer 8

First off he is your ex which means to me he really did not care about you, you will always have those deep feelings for him,but that doesn't mean that you should get back with him. You must move on to bigger and better things in your life, life is to short to wait on for someone that's not going to give you what you need good luck to you,be happy

Answer 9

hi... just think of other happy things that will keep you not thinking of him. or you might want to erase anything that will remind you of him instead. just remember its no use to think too much as you were saying that he's not serious with you. why waste time loving someone who's not serious with you. I know its hard for girls feeling. as im a girl too. but u must go through it as life challenges. =)

Answer 10

there are situations whilst all of us have those, we adore somebody all of us understand we would desire to constantly not, or dislike somebody that we would desire to stand daily. i don't think of you're able to do away with those emotions truthfully. looking different issues to do, different issues to think of approximately, protecting busy, can help. So can keeping off situations the place you will desire to deal with those emotions. In different phrases, positioned time and distance between you and the triggers for those emotions, in case you could. it may take an prolonged time for undesirable emotions to vanish, yet they frequently do in time. good success.