He keeps reminding about her. What can I do?
2007-08-28 03:22:05 · 34 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're saying you have a husband and a boyfriend. Get rid of the boyfriend.
2007-08-28 03:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not clear on this one...you are married, but have a boyfriend? Or is this an ex-husband? And...then what would your husband's first wife have to do with anything, unless your husband, or ex husband, is seeing her...this is kind of confusing...
2007-08-28 03:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Night Owl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, no matter what you do you will never be good enough for him because the jerk is still in love with his first wife and can't get over her. You are wasting your time trying to get this guy to recognize you. You will never be her, I don't care what you do, you will never be her. Trust me got out now while you have a chance.
2007-08-28 03:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Gail S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you have a serious heart to heart talk with him about it or cut the strings loose...this is his tactic of being in control and to get you to do what he wants....there is also the possbilty of him still wanting to be with his ex wife and trying to mold you into her..It is not a healthy relationship for you. You deserve better than that and for him to constantly throw it in your face he is disrespecting you and your relationship...if you want to stoop to his level do what he is doing and bring up one of your ex boyfriend trust me he won't like it one bit and you can tell him that you feel the same way when he does it to you
2007-08-28 03:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by skhem82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend throws your husbands... Am I confused or what? If your best friend is a guy and does that, he wants more and is trying to make trouble, if it's a type O and your BF is female, she's trying to hurt you and is jealous. Either way- people who hurt you on purpose for no reason are called enemies!
2007-08-28 03:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't have a bf if you are married....You need to let your hubby go if you are not willing to be faithful. Let him move on and find a good woman who will love him the way he should be. Then you will be free to do what you want without hurting anyone.
2007-08-28 03:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And why do you have a husband and a boyfriend? And why should the boyfriend care about your husband's first wife?
2007-08-28 03:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up!
That is not love, it is emotional abuse.
You should not put up with it even one day longer.
Do not be afraid to be alone. I am assuming you are divorced (I often forget to add ex) but if you are married, you need to be divorced. If you need some help, you can get free counseling at any domestic violence center.
Good luck!
2007-08-28 03:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her back at him. I love playing "hot Potato" (sorry couldn't resist.
Seriously though.. if you have a BF and a husband.. make a decision and stick with one of them.
2007-08-28 03:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by umannjo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that's going to compare you to someone else, isn't worth your time because obviously they don't think highly enough of you to consider you as your own person. Who cares what he has to say? Do you believe all that he says about it? I have always said, that if something someone said about me wasn't true, I don't care. If someone called me a whore, I wouldn't care because it's not true. This could work the same way for you. Who cares what someone else has to say? Especially if they're just trying to hurt you with it. Tell him to get lost. Sounds like you're better off without him.
2007-08-28 03:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋