Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

My husband and I have been married for less than a month. before that, my biggest hobby was chatting on the net and now he has told me he does not want me to do so because he feels it distracts my attention and he wants all my attention to himself. At the moment we are living apart for special circumstances and sometimes when I am really bored I am tempted to go online and chat again. what can I do?

2007-09-01 23:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you follow arranged marriage system, yourself? If yes, then will you choose one amongst a set of men whom your parents recommend you - or do you blindly obey and agree to marry only the person your parents have decided for you?

2007-09-01 23:53:42 · 11 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You notice a guy in your class that you find cute or handsome(you are both 16)...whichever works for you and you get to talking and then eventually head off to a cafe after class. There you are talking to him but you see there is an equally cute/handsome guy that is working at the coffee shop but looks a bit older. You find out he is 19 and is also interested in you. Which attracts you girls more and why? Thanks! (Lets not bring in legal issues here just your instinctive attraction)

2007-09-01 23:52:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe I may have lost a friend. We did have words, once, but I'd like to bury the hatchet. I'm sorry for what I've done to upset or offend him. I've tried getting in touch with him, I think somewhere around four times in the past three months, and I've had no response. The thing is, due to software bugs, I don't know for sure that he's even gotten my messages. I seriously doubt he'd be the type to just ignore a message. I really think if he still wanted me to go jump in a lake, he'd say so.

If I should keep trying at all, how often, and for how long? I don't want to harass him, but I miss him very much.

This is an online friend, by the way. We live hundreds of miles away, so it's not like I can knock on his door.

I appreciate your well-thought-out answers.

2007-09-01 23:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Lovebird♥ 4 in Friends

2007-09-01 23:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what are the necassary documents to get married. not a religious wedding just a regitery marriage.
is a birth certificate necassary?
or is a british passport enough proof?

2007-09-01 23:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by jaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i get really mad they butt in all the time think they know it all should i open my mouth and give em it or should i sit back and take it like i have for the last 6 years any ones advice would be great

2007-09-01 23:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by gemma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so lonely right now. My family is all busy with their own lives and it's the school holidays and i have no friends to hang out with!I've been stuck in my room for more than 12 hours!I completely seriously have nothing to do!I'm washed up with boredom! I'm looking for people regardless of age or gender to be my friend. Please add me in MSN at roslanaizan@yahoo.com.sg

Thanks!Can't wait to hear from ya'll!

P.S:Don't worry,i'm friendly!:)

2007-09-01 23:04:39 · 10 answers · asked by Tercules 4 in Friends

2007-09-01 23:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by anurag822000 1 in Singles & Dating

My father has never spent quality time with me throughout the past 20 years of my life. He is a workaholic. He never taught me any technical skills, sports or whatever. Even when he is at home he never communicates, he justs sits behind a newspaper or watches TV. He never encourages me, takes pride in my academic achievements, and he doesn't care about me emotionally. He is as good as growing up w/o a father. He's also a very strict disciplinarian, always caning me whenever I offended him even a little or whenever I try to stand up to him. I'm afraid of him and I don't love him at all. He also annoys me by always trying to say I'm in the wrong and not a good son, etc even when things are ok. I really hated him for this. He always uses physical force on me and even threatened to send me to a boys' home or cut off my fingers when I hit my brother.
He is worse than a terrorist. I think he has some issues at work and he tries to displace it on me as some object.

2007-09-01 22:56:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine would have to be:
One minute of patience in a moment of anger can save you many days or sorrow, regret & unhappiness.
I know anger hurts alot of people, even the "angry" one.

2007-09-01 22:28:40 · 5 answers · asked by dutchgirllb 2 in Family

what would you do if you had been with a man for a long time ie 4 years. You meet someone knew and you find out they have the same first name as your ex.

2007-09-01 22:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by J M 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 19 years has left me. All of our married life he as enjoyed all porno (this does not bother me) The last 5-7 years a fascination of men dressing as women having sex with other men has escalated to obsession (often 6-8 hours of internet time). I have been very sick for 1.5 years and I regretfully say we have not been intimate, even though I feel like I have tried. He gave me notice he was leaving (2 weeks) but no explanation. Heartbroken, I know I will heal and I love him so much I want him to happy (whether its with me or not). But no explanation was given. But my question is: Is he gay, bi-sexual, midlife crisis (60 yrs). my declining health. I'm just trying to understand. Thank for any & all input

2007-09-01 22:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy online about 6 months ago. He's older than me, but we hit it off at once. We're best friends and we both know we have feelings for each other, but we avoided the subject. But I like someone else and my bf knows about him and he's jealous even though he doesn't admit it. A week ago, he told me about some girl he met and he kept asking if I was jealous. I really wasn't. He kept pushing it and I got angry. We both said some hurtful things and finally he wanted to say he loves me but he decided he didn't want to make it worse for me and the other guy. We left it at that because he had to travel for 2 days. He's been AWOL for a week and I know it's OK because I've been talking to his friends. I don't know if they're telling the truth, tho. I tried e-mailing him and SMSing him but he won't reply. Now I know I love him and I really want to talk to him. What do I do?

2007-09-01 22:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can love is possible with prostitute girl, i love one prostitute girl,
but she is get sex with other boy's so it is dificult to feel love with her,
do you find that is love possible with prostitue girl

2007-09-01 22:07:49 · 15 answers · asked by jeemi 2 1 in Singles & Dating

WHEN ALL THIS IF PROVE IT PLS GO TO THINK WT IS THE PANSHMENT THERE OF THIS CRIME?

2007-09-01 22:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by only kewal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why is this happen that when a men in love he forget every thing of his life his parent's ,brother, sister who loved him since his/her birth who gave him every thing although they give their life also. that man know that only his parents are who give him every thing without any selfishness even then he forget them and he also know, that girl is leave him any time and she can bluffing with him. if you ever think on it and have any ideas then share with me.than's BYE.

2007-09-01 21:56:19 · 8 answers · asked by shoked 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a disability and I dont get out much and the thing is I would love to really meet one person who would knock me of my wheels and love me for me and I feel a little low as I havent found that person yet. All I am looking for is friendship from someone that is willing to have a laugh with me when they want to as when I am happy as many of my college mates would tell you I am great to be around. I hope someone is out for being my friend if you are please get intouch as I really am up for anything. My email address is stardu5t7@yahoo.co.uk thanks Juliexx

2007-09-01 21:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Friends

We had a courthouse wedding. What are the things we need to know. Is this a common practice (remarry because you didnt like your first wedding?) do we need another marriage license? we would like gifts. Because our first marriage ceremony was done in secret, so we didnt get anything from my family or any friends. Do you plan these like a regular wedding. We want a crawfish boil, is that appropriate for a wedding? Is it safe by tradition for me to wear white ( I never did before).

2007-09-01 21:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by kkecs07 1 in Weddings

of girls who let you sleep with them on your first date?has a long term relationship resulted from it?I personaley would run a mile from any male who would try his wicked way on our first date!does it put any of you girls out there off as well.i'm not condoning anyone who does sleep together on their first date its a free country after all and my mates done it a few times as well!thanks

2007-09-01 21:34:36 · 12 answers · asked by boro lass 2 in Singles & Dating

I love that I had a dream we were in the shower together is this strange?

2007-09-01 21:34:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a nurse who is fallin for a married medical resident at work. I think hes falling for me too. The affair is very knew but I would like it to go further. He treats me great and everyone at work can see his attraction for me. He doesnt try to hide it. what should I do?? HELP.

2007-09-01 21:32:03 · 3 answers · asked by B. Good in NC 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean seriously, they always talk about how guys go around and have sex with all the girls and people think it's ok but when a girl goes and fools around with a couple of guys people think it's disgraceful. i wouldn't fool around with heaps of guys but I think if it's ok for guys to, we should b able to too. And they talk about how important a female's virginity is and they should save it for the guy they marry but yet the guy doesn't have to save his virginity for the girl he marries. I think it's stupid!!!!!!!

2007-09-01 21:24:42 · 32 answers · asked by chelly 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean seriously, they always talk about how guys go around and have sex with all the girls and people think it's ok but when a girl goes and fools around with a couple of guys people think it's disgraceful. i wouldn't fool around with heaps of guys but I think if it's ok for guys to, we should b able to too. And they talk about how important a female's virginity is and they should save it for the guy they marry but yet the guy doesn't have to save his virginity for the girl he marries. I think it's stupid!!!!!!!

2007-09-01 21:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by chelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a guy (male) that was pretty much peer pressured into playing a form of strip poker. Only strip to underwear though. We're all 18+. There was one girl, and that was my friend's girlfriend. Sounds VERY crazy, but I probably would not have wanted to play even if more girls came to play. Everyone but me really wanted me to play the game. I wasn't really comfortable playing this at all. They called me a wuss for not wanting to play. They said pretty much that these are the type of things all college guys always want to do. A guy already at college said it's pretty much true. My concern isn't really that I shouldn't have been peer pressured into this. I'm just wondering if all guys are really like this, and what do girls see in these type of guys? Am I supposed to be more open in talking about sexual things? Would girls see me as boring? If they like these kinds of guys, why would they? I really don't want to sound like a pervert all the time.

2007-09-01 21:16:25 · 6 answers · asked by Samuel C 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved to a new school at the start of this term.
I had my eyes on this guy thats in 2 of my classes.
We started speaking via email. Because we have ICT together. Then i got his number & called him one night & told him how i felt about him, turns out he had the same feelings for me. Weve started dating. Its been a week today' Not a long period of time. But i have NEVER EVER felt this way about a guy before. I would seriously marry him & he said hed marry me. Yerr were 15 old enuff to know what love is. Ive had plenty of relationships but none have felt so right. I tell him anything that comes to my mind. Hes amazing. makes me feel so happy & loved. We watched a movie together on friday night at mine & when we kissed it felt like i was in another world. I dont know how else to put it.

Is this to early for true love?
Please dont write pathetic & immature comments.
Truthful answers would be greatt. :] Thanks.

2007-09-01 21:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dad passed 6 months ago and i am truly hurting beyond grief.I look at the stars and cry all the time and i feel so lonely.I want to see him and give him just one more hug if i could,i'm broken.

2007-09-01 21:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, me and my gf got together about 6 months ago. We are engaged, and she was about 2 months pregnant when we got together. Her ex (the biological father) is trying to get shared custody when it is born, but we don't want to give it to him. If he was a good guy, we would be glad to, however that is not the case. He stocked us when we first got together, he is immature, an alcoholic, and tried forcing us to break up, and forcing her to go back to him on more than one ocasion. My question is: should we still give him shared custody or should we fight for full custody? (We are getting maried next week.) Either way, she wants him to pay child support.

2007-09-01 20:58:13 · 8 answers · asked by crashedata 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a word that describes a strong emotional attachment to someone that is less powerful than "love" but more than "like"? As in "I ____ you"

2007-09-01 20:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by Lateralus 2 in Singles & Dating

This link is about Srijan Bharara of 3 years baby(male), very sweet he is and his thoughts are so sweet too...kindly see and respond whether in his guest book or here as u like...god bless you with such sweet boy too..the full link is as follows (http://www.babababies.com/view/viewt2.cfm?SITEID=47891) sorry, in question it was difficult to give full link

2007-09-01 20:40:50 · 1 answers · asked by Vinod B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships