Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

Hi there

I have read some examples on the net of people saving a lot of money by having a Friday wedding. One of the venues I am interested in has different rates, but most charge the same whatever the day. My issue is, I have heard that even things like photography, cars and flowers are cheaper on a Friday. Has anyone heard of this please?

2007-09-01 20:26:45 · 27 answers · asked by Linda 6 in Weddings

and it's not my fiance's baby. ....
he is unable to make babies.
what should i do ??

2007-09-01 20:17:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She's a girl but she's not pleased by flowers and candy...she's not the mushy type and I think I've made her mad....i suck at apologizing and she told she's tired of the word "sorry"... What do I do? How can I make it up to her this time?

2007-09-01 20:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by SKuneho 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush at school,always ignores me and he was smart but this girl showed up and he was like getting pervert???

2007-09-01 20:02:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are there such tests online? or some way to check myself.

2007-09-01 19:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to like two guys. One is my boyfriend of 2 years and the other is someone I just recently found. I can't decide who would be best to be with.

2007-09-01 19:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sasha 1 in Singles & Dating

I am kind of a shy person. I am a sophmore in College and I dont have any friends. Guys just hit on me and want to be "more than friends" so I stay away from them. Girls dont ever talk to me, and I have no idea how to start up a conversation with them. I have lived here for two years and the only contacts on my cell are my family. I just want to know how I can make some friends in College this year. Can anyone give me any tips or pointers??

2007-09-01 19:44:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Friends

i want a divorce because i am sick and tired of my husband he cheated on me when my babys are five months old and they are now six years old. i stayed with him all this years because my family told me to stay for the sake of my children. but sinced then everything is not the same anymore i lost my trust and love and i suffer everyday.he does'nt even know how to help me with the kids although i know he tried but only for awhile cause he got tired of the kids so easily so i ended up doing the things what he supposed to do. i know he loves our kids and so do i. i will never leave my kids to him cause his got bad temper and does'nt know how to take care of them.financially we are stable. kids goes to a private school. my question is how can i get a divorce while we are here in asia? and my kids are back in school now.please help i'm really going crazy here! were american.

2007-09-01 19:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He feels like he cant take care of me any longer. Even so, he cant look after himseft

2007-09-01 19:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by linda t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married and was asked out by another married man for a date. I agreed to go our with him and we ended up kissing. I am really glad I kissed him and I dont feel bad or have any regrets. We have no intentions of a relationship, we just went out for some fun.
Was it bad of me to go out with this guy? Y dont I feel guilty? Now I feel like I want more kisses from him. Could this get me into trouble?

2007-09-01 19:19:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you don't ask her out for fear of "ruining the friendship".

Now, am I to believe the book "He's just not that into you" which says it's a lousy excuse that boils down to "You're not physically attractive to me" or is he really "afraid to ruin the friendship"?

(By his own admission, he thinks I'd be sexy if I lost a couple of pounds... in any male opinion, would that change the way he reacts to me or what?)

Thanks for any help anyone can come up with!!

2007-09-01 19:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Callisto 3 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone besides me think that this is strange?

2007-09-01 19:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-01 18:59:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife are seperated after 17 yrs of marriage since 3 years. We have 2 sons and they are with her. She is too free spirited. My sons are suffering the insecurity of not having a father living with them. I am lonely and I miss them too much.

2007-09-01 18:51:46 · 12 answers · asked by Pinto777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just really need one right now! I'm sad or a little make out action!

2007-09-01 18:50:27 · 45 answers · asked by emolover 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-01 18:50:06 · 28 answers · asked by Tashii 1 in Singles & Dating

If a married couple that have a child are separated, do they have to divorce first for custody to be granted? Also, if the mother doesn't have a job but goes to college and lives with her parents and plans on seeking employment (only part-time so that she can still attend college) and the father has a full time job, not making very much, but still a job and lives with family also will the father be granted custody just because the mother has no income? If the two parents don't have to be divorced first, and can proceed with the custody hearing, about how much will it cost to get custody of the child (or try to) in Georgia?

2007-09-01 18:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by amber_nicolaa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-01 18:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by RICO N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And what do you expect him to do in the bedroom?

Thanks ladies, I'm trying to see what other girls think about this issue.

2007-09-01 18:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I came home from work a few days ago and my boyfriend of 7 years (and the father of my daughter) casually tells me that one of his ex girlfriends found him on myspace. He went on to tell me that shes married and has a child. I was okay with that, a little bothered by it but no big deal. I went on myspace to check her out and it seems that this girl is a ****, she may be a mother but she is a ****. Her default picture is a picture of her *** wearing a pink thong and white fishnet stockings. Her friends list is filled with all diffrent types of men telling her how good she looks. Well, let me tell you... I flipped out! He told me he needs friends and wants to know what she has been up to he wants to know how her life turned out.
I was really upset I gave him a bad attitude cursed him out and He left. I sent all types of hate messages to him and I told him I dont want nothing to do with him if hes gonna talk to her.
Turns out he deleted his my space page so i assume he's not talking to her but he's not talking to me either I havent heard from him all day. Yesterday he said he doesnt want to be bothered with me and im psycho.
I wish he understood that I flipped out because it hurt that he was intrested in her. I tried to apologize but he wont accept it.
I know I may have over reacted but do I deserve to be ignored by him?
Im just really confussed. I havent spoke with him in over 24 hours. Was I that wrong??

2007-09-01 18:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been looking around for a faithful bf who will stay with me and plan on marriage... i need men advices here on how to keep guy with you.. i am 17 turning 18.. i dont wont to marry now but i want to meet someone that will plan on it later on. now if i get to sexxually frustrated then i wanna marry because i dont wanna burn with desire just like the bible said.

2007-09-01 18:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by adamsgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have been going to school with this girl for awhile now and I really want to make friends wit her but I don't know how. I am very shy I only have one friend I have been friends with her sence kindergarden but she can be a pain some times (like moody allot) So I want another friend also but how can I make friends with her? Don't say to tell her oh hi how are you cuz stuff like that has never worked, this girl has always been nice to me, and I think she would be a good friend. How can I make friends with her with out feeling like a idiot?

ps we are 13 and gonna be in the 8th grade thats our age level
and I don't really want to be a loner this year as usual (sp?)

please don't say just talk to her, be more specific (sp)

2007-09-01 18:36:41 · 2 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

My new boy friend has interduced me to his mom. But i cant talk to her every time i try she cuts me off about how she can do it better or her daughter has done it better it confuse's me a little. Like fo starters i was talking about School when she cut me off to tell me how smart her daughter was who graduated a year early because she was so smart. Then i find out later that her daughter dropped out of high school to have a baby. and wasent smart in any way. so i was like oo.k im lost now. just as i was sitting on my couch she came over to my house and went off on my sparkly halter top that she had a better one and her's was more sparkly. after she left her son looked weird and said she's never owned a sparkly top let olone a tube top. Turns out she never even had one. she dose this to me all the time and im lost and confused i dont understand why she puts me down a lot and then lie's to do it? Then goes off on me how she has 10 diffrent cansers HELP?

2007-09-01 18:36:02 · 2 answers · asked by Essence 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom n dad are not happy 2gether now bt they hv 2 stay 2gether cuz of me as iam 17. well my dads way of life n stuff hv made me very irritated , i cant stand him now. my mum , wenever i do something wrong or say something wich she doesnt like even if it is right , says that it is cuz of my fathers blood and iam becoming like him. it really pisses me off.all the time she will find faults which are even present in her and if u wanna reason out with her all hell will break loose. all this n a lot of other thigs have led me 2 depression and self injury n ill never tell my parents about it.

2007-09-01 18:35:54 · 3 answers · asked by pikachu 2 in Family

gay tv and cd

2007-09-01 18:31:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom wants me to go to this rich snobby school. My dad is a principal at his school and I want to go there. But I don't want to break my moms heart. HELP ME

2007-09-01 18:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by Tonia 2 in Family

2007-09-01 18:25:03 · 2 answers · asked by brandie t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so this guy kissed me tonight, and was awful, it was our second date and after the first kiss he started going insane...I mean the guy kept biting my lips on accident and he was all over the place and when he got home he IMed me and said I was a I was a good kisser and a huge smiley and I sent him a normal smiley and he goes "Heaven forbid I be a good kisser, though I doubt I'm a bad one." How do I tell him he's awful without being mean?

2007-09-01 18:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by wordnerd1007 2 in Singles & Dating

To those who have been there....did you feel sad/angry/weird/happy/nonchalant? I know I'm not sad or angry....but it feels kind of odd. I'm kind of happy for them, but it's just.....weird. They've been together just over a year (and yes, they met AFTER the divorce, lol), we've been apart almost 3 years after 12 years together. I just feel kind of off kilter....and at the same time I'm looking for baby gifts, lol.

He always wanted more kids, and she's always been open for more, so I'm not surprised, but I just feel so weird about it.

To those of you who have had a long time spouse or partner with whom you have a child get another person (even another spouse) pregnant, how did you feel about it? Is it normal to feel somewhere between happy and weird???

What I feel more than anything is hope that he is better to her after the baby is born than he was to me after our child was born. He is 10 yrs older and I hope he is wiser, lol.

2007-09-01 18:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by navy_brat913 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well heres the thing ive liked her since 8th grade but it wasnt till last year that we became best friends. My family had to move to a new neighborhood so that we were now 2 houses away, we practicly do everything together, but i still feel llike im to far into the friend zone, all our friends dont believe that we dont "do things " but we actually dont, i told my friends that the exuse is that we live to close, its weird normally i can just ask a girl out but shes different. so i guess what im asking is

1. is it a good idea to ask her out?
2. (im creative and all but..) whats a good way to start to drop hints to ease my way out of the friend zone?

(i dont think while were sitting on the couch watchinga movie i should go oh hey.. um by the way i am sorta in love with you..)

oh btw i just go out of a stupid relationship were i realized that the girl i was with was everything i didnt like and that the girl of my dreams was right infront of me... idk someone help me out

2007-09-01 18:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by kttj5885 2 in Singles & Dating