Well heres the thing ive liked her since 8th grade but it wasnt till last year that we became best friends. My family had to move to a new neighborhood so that we were now 2 houses away, we practicly do everything together, but i still feel llike im to far into the friend zone, all our friends dont believe that we dont "do things " but we actually dont, i told my friends that the exuse is that we live to close, its weird normally i can just ask a girl out but shes different. so i guess what im asking is
1. is it a good idea to ask her out?
2. (im creative and all but..) whats a good way to start to drop hints to ease my way out of the friend zone?
(i dont think while were sitting on the couch watchinga movie i should go oh hey.. um by the way i am sorta in love with you..)
oh btw i just go out of a stupid relationship were i realized that the girl i was with was everything i didnt like and that the girl of my dreams was right infront of me... idk someone help me out
2007-09-01 18:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by kttj5885 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you take her on a serious date and kiss her at the end
2007-09-01 18:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, she probbly truly already knows this. Taking things to the next level could jeapordize your friendship. I am a stong advocate that best friends are best "daters". But at the same time, I destroyed my friendship with my best friend by trying to be more.It will never be the same if you guys start dating and then the dating part does not work out. You would loose her all together. I would just tell her, keep in mind you have to be ready and prepared for the answer-good or bad. Boy is this a tough one
2007-09-02 01:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by alwaysarainbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. this is a toughie. i have done this personally, and it didnt work out. its really really hard to go from friend to boyfriend. go watch the movie just friends with ryan reynolds and amy smart for an idea. i chose to do it because i didnt want to regret not trying. now i dont even talk to the girl anymore. it was hard on me then, but now its not a big deal. so weigh how much you value your friendship, and if its worth the risk.
2. try hanging out with her alone, pry a bit to see if she drops any hints about liking you.
its sucks when you realize that your best friend is the girl of your dreams. i cant promise a happy ending, but its best to try something than wondering for the rest of your life what could have been.
good luck
2007-09-02 01:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Thrumper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you honestly feel. Don't overwhelm her with all the feelings and emotions that you have for her. Just take it easy, it will create a lot of awkwardness between the two of you at first, but she'll get over it in a month. That's if it doesn't work out. If it does! then that's awesome. Good Luck!
2007-09-02 01:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by crazylatinoguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were friends for all of our teen years and now we've been married for 25 years...we're still friends and I think that is the best way to start a relationship.
2007-09-02 01:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok bud this is what you
do
since your in love with this gurl
i need you just to think if she is in to you
if she is then
one night when you guys are together alone
you should do this: be together watching a movie on the couch(i knoe wat you said about that already) but this time i need to just look in to her eyes and and be like i have to tell you something and then tell her that you liked her since the 8th grade and everything and just ask her out
believe me if she likes you this will drive her crazyy
after all im a gurl so i knoe best
good luck
i hope you get her
cuz i knoe how it feelz to be sprung
=D
2007-09-02 01:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by angelmahtab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time there's a dance coming up, ask her to be your date! Then you can ask her if she'd like to go out with you again. Who knows, maybe she feels the same way and is just scared to let you know?
2007-09-02 01:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ophelia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont make it too obvious like start humpiing her leg or w/e take it slow she prob feels the same way excpet my best guy friend really likes me and we like do stuff, but i dont feel the same 4 him...so b careful but um yea like idk kinda hint on like no more friend buisiness lets get to it babe1 u know she most likely will feel the same and b4 u know it u 2 will be realy happy...or end up heart broken...haha JK~*~* anyways good luck
2007-09-02 01:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my life. Just ask her out, it sounds like she's into you too, it should be easy. Never have regrets.
2007-09-02 01:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you enter the friend zone, you can never leave! Sorry, the truth hurts!!
2007-09-02 01:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋