Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

I'm 13. My mum and dad have been divorsed 4 years ago. And my mum take us (my brothere and I) to her house where she was growing
I was thinking that I'm not going to have problems but I have.The worst thing is that she live in the same place with my dad. Only 7 houses are between them. And when she will hear something abouth my dad EX: that he was on vacation with his other GF (The worst thing it that she is with other religion) She don't let us to go in my dad's house to see my grandma and my grandad because my dad always says that he don't have money to give her (but he give us money always). And when my dad will do something wrong she is not leting us to go in my dad's house. But she is not understanding that I like that place because I'm born there there are all my friends, And I feel happy when I'm there. I can't live in that house where she was born I hate that place. What should I do ?? I try to talk with her but she is not understanding me. I just like to have normal life.

2007-09-01 03:13:12 · 25 answers · asked by Puffy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always tried to avoid having to call them anything, whether it's by their first names or if it's Mr. ____ or Mrs. ____. Whenever my mom meets my friends she introduces herself as Mindy and not as "her mom". But I've always felt weird calling my friends' parents by their first names. I feel like it's kind of disrespectful. (I mean, you're not supposed to call your teachers by their first names.)

Is it weird for anyone else?

2007-09-01 03:12:45 · 9 answers · asked by i-wanna-write 3 in Friends

Just to the people who don't believe in marriage.

I already know why people believe in marriage, I am one of them so I don't want to hear those responses.

2007-09-01 03:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by Lindsay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really popular at school and like this guy named Jake. He is 2 years older than me, and we are pretty good friends. I'd like to date, but If we break up, then we might not stay friends. I am in the 8th grade, he's in 10th. How do I get him to ask me out? I don't care if he is 2 years older than me or not, so please don't make sicko comments and stuff.

2007-09-01 03:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in the ninth grade and started school on Monday. In my third period algebra class is this boy named Damion (not his real name). He sits in front of me and he always turns around to look at me. Because the teacher never pays attention to us we always be play fighting. Everybody in da class think we like each other. I like him but Im not sure if he likes me. He is so cute and he said that I was one of the cutest freshman there. But Ive heard that from alot of boys. So how can I be sure if he likes me.

I usually can just walik up to a boy and talk to him but I cant. Hes different and I dont know why. Please Help Me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-01 03:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think about having a girlfriend/ friend who is a nurse? what do you think about nurses in general???

2007-09-01 03:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's a sleazy married guy already dating another one of his employees and frequently tells my wife about his sexual conquests and even shows her pictures. He gets jealous and mad at her when she's more friendly to the only other guy in the office... Yesterday was the last straw - he invited her (alone) to go to a strip because his girlfriend was out of town! My wife refuses to admit he's into her because he's told her he could never sleep with her... Yeah right, what guy who expects to get laid tells his intentions to the girl who's trust he's trying to win?... I trust my wife (I'm better looking than he is, for one thing), but just wish she'd stop bitching me out every time I try to convince her he's trying to get in her pants. Any advice? (Yes, another job would be ideal, it's just difficult at the moment)

2007-09-01 03:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by Scatter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends usually sit outsides during lunch cos its late winter and its way too cold to be sitting inside. We usually sit in a circle so some people are directly facing the sun and some people are not. Yesterday i was sitting with the sun to my back, then my this friend of mine asked me to move so she could sit where i was sitting. And me being, well me, said no. There was a space somewhere elso so i told her to sit there, t hen she says that she cant sit in the sun because if she does then her skin will get dark and no one would want to marry her! And i was like WFT?!? I told her that was the most ridiculous thing i'd ever heard and that she was pathetic. (nicely) She told me that her older sister (23) wasnt married because no one wanted her because her skin was dark from sun exposure. Is she alright up there, or is it just me.

2007-09-01 02:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My BF is a really sweet guy,romantic,always there for me and everything. But when he's with other people like a huge group like football it seems he says so many inappropriate things and I just stand there not knowing what to say because i'm not usto this situation. I still care about him and have feelings for the person he is i'm just....kind of wierded out by what he says. Makes me a bad person?

Examples of what he did at the football game

A)Pretend to hump the fence
B) Say nasty things


And he's just an amazing guy, he's been my friend for like 4months before we became a couple I just find it confusing that he's doing all these nasty things infront of people.

2007-09-01 02:55:54 · 5 answers · asked by Faithfull_music 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Wierd question but how can i get an annulment? In 2001 I thought I was madly in love and got married 9 months later I had had enough of the way he treated our child and me and told him to get lost. now 6 years later and I am still married to him . i started the divorce procedure and he dissappered off the face of the planet. I met a wonderful guy 4 years ago and would like to marry him but cant. the husband has nothing to do with my child. Can anyone out there help me end this nightmare?

2007-09-01 02:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly02012001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with them? I mean being a relationship with a guy who can be very immature at times...esspassily when he's crowded with a bunch of people.

Take my boyfriend for instance, he's a really sweet,romantic,wanderful,carei... guy...but when he's with his football team. He does things i'm not usto like saying really nasty things, or pretending to hump the fense or something.

How do you deal with those situations or attitudes some guys might have?

2007-09-01 02:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by Faithfull_music 1 in Singles & Dating

For my wife and I we are about a year and a half apart in age, she was born in Dec. of 74, and I was born in May of 76.

2007-09-01 02:51:40 · 25 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

H'e getting ready to crash again, I can tell when it's coming. I really need to get out of this relationship.
Been together 10 years

2007-09-01 02:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by monabow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the strangest place you have ever had sex?

2007-09-01 02:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have known each other 4ever, but it's our first official date! :)

http://i207.photobucket.com/albums/bb154/merrilyn_2007/cutetop.jpg

2007-09-01 02:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 and im thinking of losing it. what ya all think?

2007-09-01 02:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by V L 3 in Singles & Dating

I know someone only as a waitress and I don't think asking her out works as well at the workplace since she's sort of supposed to be friendly. However, the evidence that she likes me is mounting.

She seems happy to talk to me and once while she wasn't my server still made a point to come and speak to me. I thought maybe she was just being friendly to me because she sees I like her, so one day I didn't pay much attention to her, and sure enough, as I departed she spoke to me. I thought still maybe it was just how she was, but yesterday she asked my mom where I was and told my mom that I am sweet.

If you think I should ask her out, how should I do it without making her feel uncomfortable about declining if it turns out that she is uninterested? Remember, this would be at her workplace.

Also, I am wondering whether the people answering are before, in, or after high school. I am out of high school myself. Thanks :)

2007-09-01 02:42:36 · 1 answers · asked by Robert B 5 in Singles & Dating

1.why is it that if you think your a bad singer, people say you are?

2.if you believe your ugly, they always say your beautiful?

3.why is it that guys only pay attention to you when your dating some one and never when you are single?

sorry but they questions have been bugging me for a while now.

2007-09-01 02:42:35 · 6 answers · asked by gemz1990 2 in Singles & Dating

For me 18 years old, 32 years old

I was married and divorced inbetween but finally got my career on track in my early 30's

2007-09-01 02:40:14 · 12 answers · asked by Man of Ideas 5 in Family

i honestly have been scared to death by some people. i've had only disappointments so far with dating online. people simply are not who they say they are. what do you think? is there still hope for me?

2007-09-01 02:33:00 · 7 answers · asked by peachesandcream900 2 in Singles & Dating

I m 16 years old,normal looking guy,with a good sense of humour and many friends.Everyone wud say that I m a perfectly normal teenager...
Truth is, I'm rly miserable.Mybe is coz I have no girlfriend.I'm shy,afraid to make the first move afraid of what ppl wud say...Days pass and it all feels the same.I dont realise what day it is coz every day is the same to me.I can usually cope with this but at night, when i go to bed, I always think about how lonely I am and feel rly depressed.
Often I wonder if thats all there is...life's supposed to be better,there's supposed to be something more. I've got used to it over the years but I'm still trying to work it out although I don't know how.
If you know a way to put an end to my misery or if you just feel the same way I do feel free to add a comment.

2007-09-01 02:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why does my boyfriend sign up for every singles website he can find and then never talks to anyone.he never subscribes to them.he doesnt know that i know about them but he lies when i ask him if he is actively searching for someone else.he says no.then he gets mad because i asked.when i give him the oppertunity to get rid of me and start his search for someone else he tells me he only wants me and then he tries to fix everything.but it only lasts for a few weeks and then we go through it again.is there something wrong with me or is it him.help im going crazy here trying to figure this out.please tell me why he does this and what i can do to stop him and fix us.

2007-09-01 02:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by pepermentpati 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My name Kurbinderjeet.Help eat pizza?

2007-09-01 02:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by WannabeyourAccomplice 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i planned to get married in may, but something has come up and we need to get married next week. I live in grand rapids, MI in kent county and i need to know where to get a marriage license and where to go to get married by a justice of peace. We are both u.s. citizens and residents of mi but i need to know what i can do. its an emergency

2007-09-01 02:21:44 · 13 answers · asked by brighteyeshot 1 in Weddings

Ok I want a punk/skater look and my mom saids she wants me to be a girly girly. I hate pink *sorry pink lovers I do* also I'm a mostly sad person and girly clothes drive me crazy. She always picks out my clothes even more now and Im 14! So how should I tell my mom I want to pick out my own clothes?

2007-09-01 02:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by penguinrockout 2 in Friends

And best places to have a reception besides hotel event room?

2007-09-01 02:09:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We know each other for 5 yrs and married for 17 yrs.. total 22 yrs....My hubby bought me two dozen of roses in the morning.., and anniversary card....he ask me for dinner tonite...what I should wear for dinner .?????? formal or casual?????

2007-09-01 02:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

he's my boyfriend and I want to know if I should keep him or not. I can't date an ugly guy. I mean i think he's cute but some of my friends don't think he deserves me. http://www.flickr.com/photos/12473278@N07/?saved=1

2007-09-01 01:58:56 · 22 answers · asked by j d 1 in Singles & Dating

This waitress who I like asked my mom where I was yesterday (my mom was at the restaurant without me). The waitress told my mom that I was sweet. I asked my mom to describe the waitress and the decription matched the one who I like. Now I don't know what to do. It's hard to hit on someone whom I only know at her workplace.

Anyway, last time I saw her in the restaurant I sort of ignored her to find out if the reason she paid attention was because I paid attention to her. But that wasn't the case. She caught my attention and spoke to me first when she finally got the chance, 'cause I was leaving the restaurant, going past her.

I don't want to do nothing because she is in an even tougher bind since she's the employee. I would forfeit going to the restaurant in order to date her for sure. But I'm not sure she likes me. What should I do?

2007-09-01 01:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by Robert B 5 in Singles & Dating

I am disabled and have not got many friends and I dont go out much as I cant go out unless my mum takes me. I feel as if I will never find anyone to love me as I am in a wheelchair and have a progressive brain disorder called leukodystrophy. I feel lonely all the time as nobody ever comes to see me or rings me up and I feel a little upset by the fact that no one must care about me in the smallest way. Please help me as I miss having any kind of relationship with anyone that will be my friend.

2007-09-01 01:51:25 · 19 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Singles & Dating