i'm 16 and im thinking of losing it. what ya all think?
2007-09-01 02:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by V L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after marriage,dear!if everybody else at your age especially is doing that,be different!
2007-09-01 02:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you not grow up learning about the value of yourself as a person and the sanctity of sex with someone you love and cherish?
Did you really learn that you should just do it because everyone else is doing it??
How sad. You know, I'd really like for you to do the following.
1. Groom immaculately & dress nicely
2. Study harder than ever & don’t use profanity
3. Spend an hour a day in the library & at the gym
4. Honor your parents and your teachers
5. Get involved in a worthy school function & help someone every day
6. Go to Church
7. SMILE & speak badly of no one
8. Reconsider your question when you reach 21
Good Luck
2007-09-01 09:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All of these answers are horrible. I think you're being VERY stupid about it, to be perfectly honest with you. Sixteen years old? FIRST off, there is no possible way to be SURE there won't be a baby. There just isn't. So are you ready to be a mom? A single mom, at that? Because most guys your age that you'd be with, are only LOOKING for sex, so once they get that from you, they're done. Especially if a baby is coming along.
NO you should NOT lose your virginity yet.
2007-09-01 09:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by rivendellrose2005 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seen this question so many times and sick of seeing it, but i assume it wouldnt matter what i and others say since teens just loose it anywawy, my advice...after marriage
2007-09-01 09:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your with the right person...i think it should be after marriage....but its your life and so im not sure what to tell you because i dont know you on a personal basis
2007-09-01 09:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Only,,, u can decide that,,,,
jus make sure ur safe and use protection
2007-09-01 10:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course like tennis more you do it better you get
there is no pint in waiting, it just makes you a dud lay
2007-09-01 09:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
what a stupid immature question...sure go ahead every 14, 15, 16 year old is doing it
2007-09-01 09:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by 9-pounds-lighter 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Lose it when your absolutely sure!!!! And enjoy it! Don't feel pressured!!!!
2007-09-01 09:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by jonnyneedshelp 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you can wait a while. there's no rush. wait until it matters.
2007-09-01 09:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by freespirit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋