I m 16 years old,normal looking guy,with a good sense of humour and many friends.Everyone wud say that I m a perfectly normal teenager...
Truth is, I'm rly miserable.Mybe is coz I have no girlfriend.I'm shy,afraid to make the first move afraid of what ppl wud say...Days pass and it all feels the same.I dont realise what day it is coz every day is the same to me.I can usually cope with this but at night, when i go to bed, I always think about how lonely I am and feel rly depressed.
Often I wonder if thats all there is...life's supposed to be better,there's supposed to be something more. I've got used to it over the years but I'm still trying to work it out although I don't know how.
If you know a way to put an end to my misery or if you just feel the same way I do feel free to add a comment.
2007-09-01 02:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thnx for the answers but maybe i described it a bit wrong.I don't wish to find any girl...I see the girls at high school and they all seem to care only about looks.It's not like I'm ugly..I'm a good looking guy but they all seem so shallow...I'm rly interested in something deeper.Hope you know what I mean
2007-09-01 02:50:57 · update #1
You know, life does change. At 16 I was abit like you, too afraid to talk to that guy but still wanting to have someone in my life. But you know what, when you stop yearning for it everything falls into place.
Maybe you just need a life revamp. Go out, buy some new clothes, try some new food with friends, meet some friends of friends (maybe they know a girl for you :), do naughty things (not illegal) like trying to go clubbing or staying out past your curfew, Join a group that does things you are interested in, really just do things that are not everyday things, that will give you a life rather than just surviving .Hopefully it will also put an end to your misery.
2007-09-01 03:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know exactly what is your problem....you just need to tackle it!
''I'm shy,afraid to make the first move afraid of what ppl wud say.''
Who cares what people will say!!! Make a change, do something completely out of your character and do ask a girl out!! , live dangerously, ignore your instinct that tells you to play safe!! Each day when you wake up give yourself a new challenge! TODAY I will tell Jane she looks great and I'll give her a big grin!....and look at people's reaction and enjoy it! Girls are compliment magnets!
2007-09-01 02:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Doll, He can most effective do to you what you LET him do. And if he will YOUR peers and YOUR household, you must ask your self, why are THEY taking note of it and why are THEY permitting him to mention the ones matters approximately you to them. My peers and Family might have reduce him off on the opening ask bluntly requested him 'what does this must do with them and why is he telling them this' if he could not reply the ones 2 query and rapidly, they might actually stroll away. Not worrying how he felt approximately it. Know that he's most effective doing this so that you're going to speak to him if you would like to think rejected whilst he acts dull with the'why are you contacting me' crap. Tell your peers and household, in the event that they desire to speak to him and pay attention to his lies, then by way of all method maintain it to your self. But he has no vigor over you except you enable him to. At a few factor take possession of what your all lowing him to do, take all of your vigor again from him and maintain it pushin. he is a lame. Treat him like one.
2016-09-05 20:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what i feel to.. I am 15, depressed and lonely.. but when i look to the good things i have in life.. it doesnt seem too bad. Here i was on chatlines and dating online cuz i felt i needed someone. Here i have a bf that lives in New york.. that i cant even see. This doesnt cure it. i just find out its not a someone to fill that hole, its God, the one that created everyone in this earth.. you may or may not believe me, but i see its the love of God that only makes us whole.. its not a fairytale or anything like that. I think we need to really understand life is not easy, especially on our own.
2007-09-01 03:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by amber 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry! School will be starting next week, if it hasn't already! All the girls will be back and you'll have your pick of the bunch!! Until then, just hang out with your friends, join sports or clubs, to get you out there and exposed to even more girls!!!
2007-09-01 02:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by M. Rod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you concentrate on your lessons, and be the best you can be at school, you can get all the girls you ever hope to have. At 16 you have a lot of time left to be with them.
2007-09-01 02:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is what you make it
make your life better
2007-09-01 02:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋