Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

Well..my mom and step dad fight alot. Sometimes they are just little fights. It seems like they only get along during movies when they sit together and he puts his arm around her.
Anyway, there are these big fights. Like my step dad said to me one night, "I feel like I just don't want to come home anymore". and today he shouted at mom, "Just go leave so you can find another man, I don't care!!"
What should I do? Do couples fight like this and is it normal?
Advice plz..thanks..:]

2007-09-01 05:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I realize that today is only September 1st, but in my family, if you don't make plans early, the holidays are a mess. We have always celebrated Christmas by driving from house to house. We have two children (ages 12 & 11) and they have never been able to spend a Christmas at home - all day long. I am putting my foot down this year and insisting that we are waking up in our own home and celebrating Christmas all day long in our own home! I have many family members that are upset by this. Do you think we have the right, after many years, to do what we want to do without anyone interfering?? Tomorrow is our 14th wedding anniversary, and after 14 years of marriage, we would like to begin some traditions at home without everyone else in the family (on both sides) being upset that we aren't in their home for Christmas.

2007-09-01 04:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by Beth 6 in Weddings

I am soo fed up! I feel like every one in my life (except for my family) take advantage of my good nature, including my boyfriend.
I always try to treat people the way i would like to be treated myself, so i am considerate, helpful, kind, loyal, trustworthy etc..
BUT my so called friends seem to take advantage of this fact, like it makes me stupid because im a nice person.
I have freinds who only get in touch the week before they want a haircut, (just in case you were wondering I am a qualified hairdresser) friends who always ask me to watch their children, but rarely return the favour, friends who dump all their problems on me, but never want to listen to mine. Friends who borrow money off me, but again do not return the favour etc etc
I am a single mum with three children and would just love to meet some like minded people, who are not just out for themselves

2007-09-01 04:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by sammie77 3 in Singles & Dating

my cousin is getting married. The bride and groom are almost 30 years old.

2007-09-01 04:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by JAH 2 in Weddings

Looking for songs for best friend's wedding to sing in sign language.?
Im looking for a perfect song that is updated and is especially for a bride and groom for me to sing and sign to in sign language. Im her matrol of honor and plan to sing for her. Something that might decribe how we grew up and seeing her get marry or etc. Or Love never fails for 2 to be together. Something in christian pop or so. Any ideas. Pls let me know.

2007-09-01 04:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Tara J 2 in Weddings

see the next door nabore wont let us have a pet what hind of pet will be ok. it can not be big and a snake,bired,mice

2007-09-01 04:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My closest cousin sister is in love with one of my dirtiest old friend, he is not such a good boy, even my uncle, aunty & my parents knows that he is not a good boy, but they r listening to their daughter only, my cousin sister never listens to anyone also, their affair begun after i left my country & went out for studies, so now i need some ways to stop this, cus i dont like it, im afraid that my sister is gonna spoil her life cus of him, he doesnt even have a job & he is 2 years younger to her. my parents & my aunty n uncles r fools, my sister has forced her parents saying al good about the boy to get married each other.
i told em every truth about the boy but no one believes or listen to me, they think im saying this for jelous. so is there r anyways to stop this, suppose if they married i feel bad to look at that fellows face, & im afraid that my other cousin sister also might do the same thing like her in future, & da fellow who is gona marry my sister is crazy bout xxx & gals

2007-09-01 04:33:44 · 18 answers · asked by jim 1 in Family

i am a 22 year old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is 22 as well lives in bangladesh.. we really love each other. and want each other, but unfortunely she got nikah (married) without her will, it was arranged and she couldnt do anything. she and the person who got nikah with, not living together yet. but now after 2 weeks she will have to leave from her house officially and live with that guy. at this point we dont know what to do, want to elope but cant elope , its connected with family respects and more to it. people will get hurt, but we cant live without each other. i love her so much. she is going crazy and i am dying for her. at this point tell me what should we do. oh god guys plzzz help us out. plzzz pllzzz, we r dying guysl

2007-09-01 04:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by ray 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it rude to tell the bride a week late my rsvp to a wedding? Should I tell her on the last day of the RSVP, "I need a week and I will give you an answer: or is that rude? The thing is I will be traveling from out of state and trying to figure out budget, please advise thanks This is a good friend of mien so i dont want there to be any hard feelings.

2007-09-01 04:31:44 · 12 answers · asked by bobravers 1 in Weddings

2007-09-01 04:28:33 · 1 answers · asked by nafnaf342000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have an argument again and yelled at me as usual.
My male friend of mine whom we owed him a lot asked me a favor to drive for him this morning to look for a sofa & to run some errand. My wife approves it so we drove off. We gone for 3 hours and when I came back the house is a mess and the kids as well. So I asked her... she was talking to her mother the whole time I'm gone which she usually do... and it's ok to me. I told her she should excuse herself for a while to prepare the breakfast for the kids which is included to my daily task. Then she blow her top and start shouting to the kids and to me while were having the discussion..
I feel so upset up to now, coz she didn't even talk and kiss when I drop her to her work a while a go.
She's always like that whenever we have an argument and I'm the one who always cools down & not to answer back just to end the it bcoz If I don't she can go on 4ever yelling. I can't go out of this marriage coz I value the kids so much. SIGH

2007-09-01 04:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

recently came out of a 5 year relationship , but still have contact wit her ,theres alot of history there , she rings me up when shes feeling down so we meets up 4 d chat . we lost our baby 2years ago b4 her 1st birthday , which tore us apart in d end because im not 1 for talking about it and shes d complete opp., ive just been offered a job in spain but shes gone bananas even tho we both know its finished 4 good . i need some words of wisdom . im only 27 so i can go and make a fresh start 4 myself away from here coz i feel im stuck in a rut . why am i finding it so hard 2 chose should i stay or go when i know i dont want bk in d relationship. she dont want bk either but she wont let me move on . any words 4 me that could give me bk some peace of mind

2007-09-01 04:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently asked out a colleague who had been giving me all the signs of being interested in me and basically she made me feel like a complete idiot for even thinking of such a thing.Now I feel like I will never be able to tell the difference ever again and may pass up a genuine opportunity for a bit of joy in my life(which i am sorely lacking)I don't want to give up on having a relationship but i'm starting to think I will have to remain single just to avoid looking like a t**t

2007-09-01 04:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, for the past few days I've been a jackass. Here's my story. I send messages to one of my friends on myspace calling him a loser for not helping me out with a plan. My plan was to get back at a friend of mine who called me his best friend but I thought I wasn't. My plan: to alter messages he sent me on myspace and send them to his girlfriend and make it look like he was saying bad things about her. Then after that, I planned on throwing rocks at him and stealing his crutches because he broke his foot. Then I just started lashing out towards my other friends. I told my teachers that one of my friends was cheating and not siting sources when he was doing research and I nearly got him kicked out of college, I got two of my female friends into a cat fight after telling one another one was saying stuff behind their back, I have sexually harassed girls, I called most of my friends dick heads, gay, and losers, I even physically assaulted some of my friends. What is wrong with me?

2007-09-01 03:58:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-01 03:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 in Friends

ok so i have a friend and she brags but tries to be modest at the same time. like at first she would say "gosh im so bad at math" and we would say no you arent ______ you are smart. and she says "yah i guess im smarter than most people" and she chews with her mouth open. she just gets on my nerves bcuz she is such a showoff but tries to be modest just so we wont say "goshh_______ is a show off" what should i do when she does that?i think she just wants us to compliment her like "no your not bad at math" i just want to say " yeah your bad at math"

2007-09-01 03:53:53 · 10 answers · asked by heartsnkissesforever 2 in Friends

2007-09-01 03:51:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got caught cheating on my gf and she told me that if i came on here and got someone to kick me in the balls she would get back with me.

Any girls from ohio wanna kick me?

Everyone that is not from ohio gets to vote on how hard, how many times, and with what shoes.. :-/

2007-09-01 03:50:39 · 19 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand how someone just "disappears". He is missing from Lexington, TN almost two years ago and we think about him a lot and wonder what the heck happened. Does anyone have any info about Larry Brown from Lexington? He is late 50's, dark hair but usually kept shaved (bald on top), very religious, maybe 5'8", 30 pounds or so overweight, big smile and a heavy southern accent. His pickup, keys, cell were all at home and he was not on the day he went missing (11-28, reported the next day on 11-29-05). We were told he came home from work early with a headache. Police say the dogs led them through some woods and up to a highway. I keep praying he fell and hit his head and has amnesia or something- maybe got a ride on the highway or something and doesn't know who he is. Anyone have any info?
If you have also "lost" someone or have someone "missing", please share your story. It's unbelievable with so many people around that this can happen to someone without anyone seeing.

2007-09-01 03:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsianna P 4 in Family

im 15 and i havnt called grandma for ten days. i normally call her every few days. she never calls me cuz she is always busy. i didnt want to seem needyand bug her. then today i called her, she said "hello stranger." on the phone. she sounded all happy and nice. what does that mean? why was she happy?

2007-09-01 03:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my lil sister who is 14 lives with me. she always hangs about with older people (all under the age of 30) She also meets up with people that she meets online. Recently she met a 34 year old man online. He kept asking 2 meet her and stuff. but before he had a chance 2 persuade her they "accidently" met eachother in the street one day. since then hes become obsessed with her. he stalks her. and hes even found out where we live. he keeps asking her 2 go back 2 his house and 2 meet up with him and stuff like that. its been going on 4 a month now. i have tried 2 be resonable with him and give him a chance 2 back off but hes horrible! the last major incident was thursday night when me and him ended up in a fight. he came round the house and tried 2 kill me because i wouldnt let them have any contact with eachother. hes threatening 2 do all sorts if i get the police involved and i know he is capable of it. what should i do?my sis doesnt want anythin 2 do with him but he wont leave her alone

2007-09-01 03:40:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

u see my dad is sick i need to get to see him in florida my aunt was sending me tickets

2007-09-01 03:39:12 · 3 answers · asked by stephinie ltuffy1974 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who invited me to his Bar Mitzvah. But I also have a sister who is going off to college. She also invited me to spend the day with her. If you were me, or were in my shoes, what would you do?

2007-09-01 03:38:13 · 6 answers · asked by Zuzu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

likes me. She just told me this last night when I was over her house. Which makes things a little awkward....
I don't have feelings for him, but I flirt with him because it was fun and amusing and harmless (at the time).
What should I do?

2007-09-01 03:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by young n' free. 4 in Friends

How do I make my Ex understand that I no longer want him? I have told him over and over.... How can I make the sexual advances stop when I drop our son off at a day with his dad?
I do not want him and he knows I'm in a relationship with another man... Is he doing this just to get me angry? I'm going to go see my lawyer wednesday but I am upset with this. This morning I took our son to his fathers house for his visitation. We are legally seperated but not legally divorced until 2-08

2007-09-01 03:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by oh_jo123 7 in Family

2007-09-01 03:22:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girl #1: shortish, kind of thin, pretty face, great personality, she's like a year or 1/2 year younger than you.

Girl #2: tall, curvy, plain face, conceited personality, she's about your age.


(i'm girl #1)

2007-09-01 03:18:49 · 36 answers · asked by Georgia Peachy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been at college and have 3 male friends including my roomate. I would like to make more female friends, but Im really shy aound girls...What can I do to change this? And would this be a good way to make more friends on my floor...Hi..My name is Carl, and I dont know many people here...would you like to go with us to lunch/dinner/movie? Is that okay to do? Or is that too desperate?

2007-09-01 03:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am dating a boyfriend in a serious term. I really do not want to have a wedding, but he says he wants to have a big wedding. If you have a son or daughter, would you want to have a wedding or it is up to your son or daughter?

2007-09-01 03:16:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so what are your plans for today??
i m gona be finishing up my resume ( finally ) . maybe get some chineese , how about you ?

2007-09-01 03:13:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating