i am a 22 year old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is 22 as well lives in bangladesh.. we really love each other. and want each other, but unfortunely she got nikah (married) without her will, it was arranged and she couldnt do anything. she and the person who got nikah with, not living together yet. but now after 2 weeks she will have to leave from her house officially and live with that guy. at this point we dont know what to do, want to elope but cant elope , its connected with family respects and more to it. people will get hurt, but we cant live without each other. i love her so much. she is going crazy and i am dying for her. at this point tell me what should we do. oh god guys plzzz help us out. plzzz pllzzz, we r dying guysl
2007-09-01 04:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it is unfortunate that she is bound by her culture to do things she doesn't want to do. You must convince her to not do that, and do what she wants to do, and be with you.
You must stand up for yourself. If you lose, you will at least have tried.
2007-09-01 04:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Forced Marriage of a girl is not acceptable is Islam.
2. Fly to Bangladesh!
2007-09-01 04:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by nono 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My understanding of the rules were that a woman could have an arranged marriage but it was haraam to force them into it? am I mistaken?
Go to bangladesh. Tell her family how you feel; decide how much you are willing to sacrifice to be with her, and your path will be clear.
2007-09-01 04:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Accidental x Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry i feel really bad for you, erm.. why don't you just try and talk it out with the parents. Or you could let her get married to this man, and then get a honey trap (a girl to flirt with him) and make it so that he cheats n her then she can divorce him and be with you. Sorry if I haven't been much help Good luck!! xxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-09-01 04:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by lollipop07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that its going to cause problems no matter what but if im not wrong she can refuse the marriage to become official. if her father is a jerk then he will force he and u will have to runaway and forget all about tradition. good luck and i hope u get ur wish
2007-09-01 04:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a rope ready, and during the wedding right before they kiss, swing in like tarzan on a rope, crash through the window with a machine gun in your hand, and just hall a.ss. take the girl and get into a helicopter and fly away.
2007-09-01 04:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a short time to get her to the US. I suggest you get started. You're well aware of the consequences to this, but, if your willing to live with it, I say get this girl!
2007-09-01 04:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can she get out of the country? meet her somwhere and be together.
i hate the idea of arranged marriages.
2007-09-01 04:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋