Family & Relationships - 1 September 2007

my boyfriend is acting different now that im pregnant, at first he was lovy dobby but now we hardly talk, communicate and we have arguments every other day, anything little he makes it big so he wont have to speak to me, im afraid he's cheating, today i heard his voicemail, and i know is bad snoping around, but i just had this feeling...well it was a girl, that called him, saying she was on her break and wanted to talk to him , and she even called him a little silly boy, but in a fliirtasious way, i dont want to assume nothing but im pregnant and i feel bad about myself, in this club website i seen the gallery picture page and there was him and a girl that was so called just a friend wrapping her hands around his waist from his back, when i comfronted him, he reversed everything on me, and didnt even talk to me for a day or two, i cant take this anymore i feel worthless, and im only 15 weeks pregnant, he lives with me, and i take him to work and back, i think he might be using me. help

2007-09-01 01:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Singles & Dating

The WaterFall of tears

when i cry
i look at the sky
i wish that i can fly
so people will never see my cry
and will never be shy

When somebody sinks into my tears
he sees a very huge waterfall
A waterfall of tears which does always increase
and asks how can a creature so small
has all this misery in a waterfall ?!

i hope u like it
its a writing of mine
but dont think im so misrable
its just one sad day !

2007-09-01 01:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by noname 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-01 01:44:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her but sometimes i think its a too big a step, i mean whole life, my freedom, cant drink too much , have to grow up,babies, money sometimes i start sweating, Is it normal, or i dont love her that much that i cant focus on that we will be together and happy?

2007-09-01 01:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

has an orgasm? or do you think its really annoying.. and do you like the girl LESS if she dosnt orgasm??

2007-09-01 01:32:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did it help? would you passed it on??

2007-09-01 01:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by mina 4 in Family

Ok we JUST started dating and people are makin fun of us! Even my best friends! AND he's acting like he doesn't care about me anymore! when we weren't dating he was well... telling me he loved me n' stuff! WHATt SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!! I really need help anyone have tips? I don't want to break up with him!

2007-09-01 01:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

Thanks

2007-09-01 01:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is not directly outta the blue, but we recently had a baby, 17mos old. ever since then her attitude towards sex is like "blah". and the thing is, she lost all her babyfat and now her features have improved (all 3, a**, breast and "tunnel of luv") and bodys even sexier than ever but now it seems that the things that used to turn her on, do nothing for her. i mean she literally passed her libido with her placenta or something. she gets more annoyed than turned on during 4play and basically ends up having apathetic sympathy sex. we dont even kiss anymore. i mean we kiss, but we dont "kiss". to be honest, i believe she wants out of marriage for some reason but she wont admit it when i ask, but she wont try to change either. i love her and i know that our marriage isnt based on sex but when shes unhappy and unwilling to accept help then it makes one start to wonder whether sep/div the best thing for both of us. """"LADIES"""" any recommended actions i could take to appeal to her again

2007-09-01 01:11:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I opened my husband's email last Sat. (never felt the need before but had a gut feeling) & found confirmations for 2 different websites. Logged into the sites, 1 is a dating site & he filled out 3 pages worth of questions. Listed himself as divorced, no kids (neither is true). The other is a vile sex hook-up site & he indicated that he's interested in "group sex" and "sexual relations." We've been having problems but he always tells me how much he loves me, how he'd never hurt me, how I'm his best friend & the best thing that ever happened to him. He denied the profiles at 1st but couldn't when I told him I was looking at his picture on the screen. He now says he wanted me to find it (also admits he knew how much it would hurt me) because he was desperate for us to go to counseling. But he was hiding it and removing the visits from the history as well as doing this at work. He insists he wasn't "looking" for something & didn't cheat. How can he say he wasn't looking?

2007-09-01 01:09:38 · 38 answers · asked by RF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have bn together for three years ,i discovers that she changed becose she dating onother guy,we broke up but it steal hurt me cos i steal love her .

2007-09-01 01:06:57 · 11 answers · asked by Rajabu H 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got a boyfriend named Brandon whos really nice sweet and understanding and adorable, but hes kind of a nobody. On the other hand theres Kyle, the most coolest, hottest, funnyest, most populer guy in class, now im only 12 but should i break up with brandon, so see if i could get kyle? or what? HELP!!!

2007-09-01 01:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please fill in the blank.

2007-09-01 01:03:16 · 2 answers · asked by kanina 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this boy for a week and yesterday we were supposed to go to the game together. The whole day at school was perfect tho...He was hugging me, we kissed alot and on the bus he held me and said he aint wanna let go.

But when we got to my house. My parents came outside and asked him his name, # and then said i could not go to the game. He had to go back by him self. I really like him and i am pretty sure he really likes me too but.... Will he break up with me????

2007-09-01 01:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do woman desire man's body?
it is a simple question but i really dont know
-all porn is for men focusing on female body even porn focuse on man is for gays not women
-women dont look at men in streets,beaches but men do
-sexy clothes is for women but men no
-religions ask women to cover her body but man no
many many things tell us that women dont desire men's bodies
i know that some will say somethings like men are visual but women are emotional , but it is not a real deviding because men are very visual also maybe more than women we who give gifts , flowers,kiss hands and feet, kneel to our lovers,make poem.....etc
so ladies please tell me do you desire the male body and his features or no? does it make you horny if you see man's body as we do or it is not matter?

2007-09-01 00:53:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey ppl dis is a prob which my very close male budddy seems 2 b in.he was dating dis girl wen he was in scool for 4 years n den dgirl left him a yr after dey left scool but he really loved and almost worshiped her....now he is 22 n is out wid anoder girl 4 d past 10 months dis is d only girl he now luvs almost as much as his ex.....n now he has dis problem....everytime he sees his ex gurls pic or ppls scraps 2 her which show dat u no so many ppl talk 2 her evryday n alll like say scraps which say 2 d gurl il cal u soon etc...he says he luvs d gurl he now is wid(n i no he does) but he jus cant help getting a kinda bad mood swing or hangover evry time he cums in sum contact wid hr its impossible 2 avoid her...any suggestions on how 2 ovr come dis hangover....plz let me now how he cud tackle dis hangover...thanx a lot ppl

2007-09-01 00:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-01 00:47:57 · 20 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Friends

Alright,so I like this girl. I met her at the bookshop.Well,I think It was love at first sight. I love the way she looked at me. So lovely!..I cannot get her outta my mind. Im going to go to her shop tomorrow. I love the way she talks. Im good looking but love is NOT abt looks,gender or age! What do you think i should do?

2007-09-01 00:33:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many times I can see that the decisions I make concerning my kids are something that he does not understand and it seems to be eating at him. Even though he's kind to me, He wants to discuss things with me and I'm willing to do that, but because of his strict upbringing, I'm afraid that he will never be able to not give his opinions about this. He thinks I give in too much and not say "no" enough. He is probably right but if I choose to do this sometimes, that he shouldn't be as concerned as he is. I know he loves me and just wants me to have it as easy as I can.It still makes me always have to be concerned about his thoughts on all this. Although sometimes he doesn't say anything, I know what he is thinking and it hurts me. Somehow, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good enough job as a mother . I think I do fine and he has never told me that I'm not, but he has a hard time hiding it. I don't want him to try to influence me when it comes to me and the kids and I've told him .

2007-09-01 00:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think what I am undergoing is terrible i just feel forsaken even by the ground.
An ocean of tears streams down my heart everyday;I don't know if I will ever overcome this.

2007-09-01 00:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by mwashumbedan 1 in Singles & Dating