hey ppl dis is a prob which my very close male budddy seems 2 b in.he was dating dis girl wen he was in scool for 4 years n den dgirl left him a yr after dey left scool but he really loved and almost worshiped her....now he is 22 n is out wid anoder girl 4 d past 10 months dis is d only girl he now luvs almost as much as his ex.....n now he has dis problem....everytime he sees his ex gurls pic or ppls scraps 2 her which show dat u no so many ppl talk 2 her evryday n alll like say scraps which say 2 d gurl il cal u soon etc...he says he luvs d gurl he now is wid(n i no he does) but he jus cant help getting a kinda bad mood swing or hangover evry time he cums in sum contact wid hr its impossible 2 avoid her...any suggestions on how 2 ovr come dis hangover....plz let me now how he cud tackle dis hangover...thanx a lot ppl
2007-09-01 00:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves his new girl friend, so he should have no problem, he must put up with his hang over, be a man. It is not very nice for his present girl, she is playing second fiddle, no one likes that.
2007-09-01 01:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, its so hard to understand what your trying to say or explain. Please do use proper english to explain. I am having a hard time reading what your saying.
Anyway, tell him, he isnt inlove with his new gf, he isnt over his ex-gf. And tell him to move on and be a man! That girl left you for god's sake! Why is he getting drunk over a girl who isnt even bothered about him anymore. Get a life and move on. Crying over her or getting drunk over her is no use. He is not going to get her back any time soon, and he might just lose the girl he has now. I mean, if i am the new girl, i wouldnt want to be with someone who is not over his ex. Its not worth my time. Tell him to forget her before he loses the this new girl forever, and left with nothing but regrets.
2007-09-01 01:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, truth be known, if she ever agreed to take him back....there he'd go. I think he needs space. What kind of fun is a boyfriend that's on the rebound ? Find somebody that's "into you" not someone else. ( what the hell, have you done to the English language ? I felt like I was reading morse code or something ! ???)
2007-09-01 01:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was getting a headache trying to read this..ohh well i gave up after d part of d grl wid da guy dat aaawww hell...its not even proper english!..good luck with your guy friend girlfriend whatever..
2007-09-01 01:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Charmer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that English?? p'se for us to help you with answers,try to type well.
nway, it is obvious that your friend is not in love with his new girfriend.he is still in love with his ex. Untill he gets over the old gal, he will never fall in love again,
2007-09-01 01:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by DAMARIS W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its evident that u r bf has not forgotten his ex-gf
now its only u who can erase her memory with ur love and understanding
make him feel comfortable
give him more time and company
u r the one who can help out ur bf
2007-09-01 18:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same probl;em... this guy i'm seeing... he loves me.. syas so... and basically adores me...
BUt everytime he remembers his ex... she is like a few thousand kilometeres away?!?! he kinda gets cold... gets withdrawn and basically does what you freind does!!!
I have no idea how to get him to be normal agian?!?!!?
BUt i think....
The new girl...in my case me... has to be understanding and leave him some room??
tahst what i've been doing... just hope he comes back though!!!
2007-09-01 00:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by vitania 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is English your second or third language?
2007-09-01 00:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't think this to be hangover ......... he wants more of the 'ex' -- the 'night' with her is still not over !
2007-09-01 00:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by priyabrata d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋